From the Gospel according to Matthew 4:24-34

Jesus said to his disciples:
“No one can serve two masters.
He will either hate one and love the other,
or be devoted to one and despise the other.
You cannot serve God and mammon.

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life,
what you will eat or drink,
or about your body, what you will wear.
Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?
Look at the birds in the sky;
they do not sow or reap, they gather nothing into barns,
yet your heavenly Father feeds them.
Are not you more important than they?
Can any of you by worrying add a single moment to your life-span?
Why are you anxious about clothes?
Learn from the way the wild flowers grow.
They do not work or spin.
But I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor
was clothed like one of them.
If God so clothes the grass of the field,
which grows today and is thrown into the oven tomorrow,
will he not much more provide for you, O you of little faith?
So do not worry and say, ‘What are we to eat?’
or ‘What are we to drink?’ or ‘What are we to wear?’
All these things the pagans seek.
Your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.
But seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness,
and all these things will be given you besides.
Do not worry about tomorrow; tomorrow will take care of itself.
Sufficient for a day is its own evil.”

What Are You Seeking?

These words from the Gospel invite me to ask myself what my heart is truly seeking: the Kingdom of God or a life guided by the standards of the world?

In these hectic times, when everything moves so quickly, we can easily forget that, as Jesus tells us, the only thing that truly matters is to seek the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. Everything else will be given to us besides.

Spouses, in marriage, living the Kingdom of God means making Christ’s love present in our marital union, striving to love as He loves, giving ourselves to our spouse both in good times and in difficult ones, surrendering our selfishness, whims, demands and reproaches, always seeking communion through conjugal charity.

To do this, we must flee from the worldly logic of selfishness, individualism and self-sufficiency, which destroy God’s original plan for us and drive us apart. For this reason, marital prayer and mutual care must take priority over work, family finances, or even the demands of raising children, trusting that God will multiply everything else besides.

When we empty ourselves of selfishness so that God may reign in our union, everything else falls into place and flourishes naturally. Working, coming and going, fulfilling our responsibilities—yes, but without anxiety, trusting in our loving Father, who knows our needs perfectly and desires to care for us tenderly.

How pleasing it is to God when we trust in Him!

Brought into Married Life

Margaret: You’ve spent the entire afternoon at the computer, checking invoices and worrying, and that tension is driving us apart.

Peter: Well, if I don’t take charge of the family’s future, Margaret, who will? I feel as though all the responsibility falls on me, while you don’t seem concerned about it.

Margaret: I’m very grateful that you take care of the accounts, review the bills and manage our finances. I only meant that you seemed overwhelmed, as if everything depended solely on you, forgetting that God provides.

Peter: Yes, you’re right. Instead of seeing that we’re managing to get by, I was only thinking about what we could have saved if we hadn’t made some purchases that I considered unnecessary.

Margaret: You’ve always been more careful with money than I have, Peter, and that has helped us greatly. But I don’t want you to become obsessed with controlling our finances. This year, we’ve seen how the Lord helped us exactly when we needed it most, through that new client you gained, which allowed us to cover all the extra expenses related to our children’s studies. And those expenses you call unnecessary have actually contributed to greater peace within our family.

Peter: You’re right, Margaret. It seems that by trying to control everything, I end up serving the god of money instead of trusting in the Lord and in you. And rather than bringing us together, it does the opposite. Please forgive me for being distant these past few days.

Margaret: We’re in this together, and in everything else as well. Let’s pray, let’s seek the Kingdom of God, and I’m sure He will take care of the rest, as He always does.

Peter: That’s true. Thank you for reminding me of what truly matters. Let’s leave tomorrow’s worries for tomorrow, for each day has enough trouble of its own. Let’s kneel down, pray together, and place all my anxieties into the Father’s hands.

Mother,

Teach us to trust in our loving Father, who knows our needs and always gives us everything we truly require. Help us to abandon ourselves completely to Him, just as you did.

Blessed and glorious are you, Mother! Praised be the Lord forever!

From the Gospel according to Matthew 6:19–23

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth,
where moth and decay destroy, and thieves break in and steal.
But store up treasures in heaven,
where neither moth nor decay destroys, nor thieves break in and steal.
For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be.

“The lamp of the body is the eye.
If your eye is sound, your whole body will be filled with light;
but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be in darkness.
And if the light in you is darkness, how great will the darkness be.”

Treasures in Heaven

These days, with such hot weather, going to the swimming pool is very appealing, and on top of that, we have the Football World Cup, providing many opportunities to enjoy our leisure time. Yet we see married couples from Marital Love Proyect helping at retreats, end-of-year gatherings, and final catechesis meetings with perseverance.

Are they making sacrifices? Of course. But we must remember that the Lord always gives back a hundredfold. Every moment we dedicate to helping other marriages and families, every time we place our hearts and our time at the service of others, becomes a “treasure in Heaven”. How wonderful is that! Nothing that moths can destroy, nothing that thieves can steal—nothing less than eternal life itself.

Do we still have doubts? We certainly do not. So, forward, spouses! Let us give our lives as the Lord teaches us.

Brought into Married Life

Margaret: What a wonderful retreat this weekend was! We witnessed true miracles.

Andrew: Absolutely. It was worth serving as custodians at the retreat, even though we missed the weekend at the beach that I had been looking forward to so much.

Margaret: Andrew, thank you for saying yes when we were asked to help. For me, it was very important to experience the retreat again, this time serving others whilst once more hearing what God intended for our marriage from the very beginning.

Andrew: Indeed. It is something all the married couples in the Project should do: place ourselves at the service of others and freely give what we have freely received.

Margaret: Now we must persevere and continue accompanying all the couples who wish to begin this beautiful journey.

Andrew: Glory to God! Let’s make our conjugal prayer, especially today, giving thanks to God, who loves and cares for us so much.

Mother,

We want to be salt and light for so many marriages and families who walk in darkness. Help us never to stray from the light we have received in the Project through the catecheses of Saint John Paul II, and help us to persevere each day in prayer.

Blessed and praised be the Lord, from whom we receive such abundant grace!

From the Gospel according to Matthew 6:7–15

Jesus said to his disciples:
“In praying, do not babble like the pagans,
who think that they will be heard because of their many words.
Do not be like them.
Your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

“This is how you are to pray:

‘Our Father who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name,
thy Kingdom come,
thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.’

“If you forgive others their transgressions,
your heavenly Father will forgive you.
But if you do not forgive others,
neither will your Father forgive your transgressions.”

Pray Like This

Prayer is essential for a Christian. It is the means by which we speak personally with God, sharing with Him the things of our heart as we would with a friend who always listens and gradually gives us light, insight, and the means to become better in every aspect of our lives.

God already knows everything about you and loves you more than anyone else ever could. Yet it is still necessary to tell Him what is in your heart and to share your life with Him.

At times, prayer may seem difficult because we do not know how to pray or what to say. We can even make it far more complicated than it needs to be. But in today’s Gospel, the Lord shows us how to pray: do not use endless words. Simply open your heart and tell Him what is there, with simplicity and sincerity, without fear. He Himself will enlighten your heart.

He also teaches us the Our Father, a prayer that helps us gradually open our hearts and ask God for what we truly need.

Prayer draws us closer to God, who is the source of all love. There He reveals how deeply He loves us and how, despite all our failings, He always forgives us. In turn, He helps us realise that we too must always forgive. The more we love, the easier it becomes to forgive.

We must remember that forgiveness is ultimately a matter of love, just as it is with our Heavenly Father.

Brought into Married Life

(Paula and James are going through a particularly stressful period because they are having their home renovated to make it more suitable for family life.)

James: It’s always the same. I can’t say anything without you snapping at me. You always seem to think you’re right, and whenever something is pointed out, you defend yourself by hurting others.

Paula: That’s rich coming from you! Nothing can be said to you either. Everything seems to annoy you, and you get upset about the smallest thing. How am I not supposed to defend myself?

James: For you, it’s all about defending yourself and making demands. You’re always telling me what I’m doing wrong and forgetting the most important thing: us.

Paula: Don’t get me wrong. It isn’t easy for me either, seeing you so negative all the time and feeling as though I can’t say anything without it turning into an argument.

James: You may have a point there. I’m feeling overwhelmed by this whole renovation. I’m exhausted from chasing everyone to get the work finished. In the end, I take all that frustration out on you.

Paula: Forgive me. I so often take my frustrations out on you and push you to your limit. You’re carrying such a heavy load at the moment—with work, your mother, and now this renovation. It certainly doesn’t help when I oppose everything you suggest, only to realise later that you’re trying to do what’s best for us.

James: Right now, I need more than an apology. Things haven’t been easy for me, and what I really need is a bit of support and understanding.

Paula: James, I love you very much, and I always will. That’s why, when I realise I’ve been wrong, the first thing I want to do is ask your forgiveness. It’s the best way I know to strengthen my love for you.

James: There’s nothing to forgive. If anything, I’m the one who loses his temper too easily and responds with anger. I’m the one who should be asking for forgiveness. You are always quick to apologise, and yet I only think, “Here we go again,” instead of truly forgiving and letting it go.

Mother,

Help us to become souls of prayer, so that we may come to know the love of God and imitate it by forgiving everything, just as He forgives us.

Blessed be God.

From the Gospel according to Matthew 6:1-6, 16-18

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Take care not to perform righteous deeds
in order that people may see them;
otherwise, you will have no recompense from your heavenly Father.
When you give alms, do not blow a trumpet before you,
as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets to win the praise of others.
Amen, I say to you, they have received their reward.
But when you give alms,
do not let your left hand know what your right is doing, so that your almsgiving may be secret.
And your Father who sees in secret will repay you.

“When you pray, do not be like the hypocrites,
who love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on street corners
so that others may see them.
Amen, I say to you, they have received their reward.
But when you pray, go to your inner room, close the door,
and pray to your Father in secret.
And your Father who sees in secret will repay you.

“When you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites.
They neglect their appearance,
so that they may appear to others to be fasting.
Amen, I say to you, they have received their reward.
But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face,
so that you may not appear to others to be fasting,
except to your Father who is hidden.
And your Father who sees what is hidden will repay you.”

A Treasure for a Handful of Coins

The Lord knows us very well. He knows that our hearts are disordered, inclined towards vanity, recognition, and the desire for applause. How subtle self-love can be! How skilfully it disguises itself, hiding even behind the holiest of actions. Outwardly, everything may appear right and proper, yet the heart can still revolve around itself.

But Jesus does not stop at pointing out our weakness. Like a good physician, He first reveals the wound and then leads us to the remedy. That is why today He directs our gaze towards the Father:

“Your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”

The Father sees what no one else sees. What comfort there is in that truth! In daily life, we make countless quiet sacrifices, hidden acts of love and service that go unnoticed by everyone around us. Yet God sees them all. Nothing is lost. No act of love is ever forgotten.

The Father’s gaze also speaks to us of a different kind of reward. So often we find ourselves begging for a word of appreciation, a gesture of admiration, a sign that our efforts have been noticed, when God wishes to give us something infinitely greater.

Jesus repeats this promise no fewer than six times:

“Your Father will reward you.”

It is as though He wants to engrave those words upon our hearts. One senses His sadness when He sees us exchange an eternal reward for a fleeting applause, a priceless treasure for a handful of coins, settling for so little when the Father longs to give us everything.

Brought into Married Life

Stephen had the afternoon free. He used the time to take the car in for servicing, collect some medication from the chemist, and on the way to pick up the children from school, he also did the weekly shop.

By the time Louise arrived home, dinner was ready and the children were already tucked up in bed. She ate quickly and went straight upstairs, as she had an early start the following morning.

Stephen gave her a gentle kiss and, after taking the rubbish out, he too went to bed.

Louise had not noticed any of what he had done.

Not a single word of thanks.

Not a comment.

Nothing.

Before falling asleep, Stephen prayed quietly in his heart:

“Lord, thank You because today I was able to love in secret. It is enough for me that You have seen it. Keep this small act of love within Your Heart. Thank You because You saw everything. How beautiful it is to love with You. Thank You, Jesus.”

Mother,

Help us never to exchange the treasures of Heaven for the applause of the world. Keep our small acts of love safe within your Immaculate Heart.

Blessed are you, Mother!

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