Today the Lord tells us not to be troubled when we are criticised or opposed because of Him. He has a plan for each one of us, and when the time comes to bear witness, He will give us the wisdom and the words we need. But there is no glory without the Cross. We must pass through accusation, persecution, wars, and disasters, yet all of this forms part of His plan.

Within our families and our marriages, we too will face trials. There may even be moments when everything seems lost. Yet He asks us to persevere, reminding us that even the hairs on our heads are numbered. Everything serves a purpose: that we may bear witness. Witness to what? To His infinite mercy and His love for us. He knows the human heart. He knows that we are small, weak, and sinful, and that we will both betray and be betrayed.

Spouses, when trials come, persevere in prayer. He will give you strength. He will provide what you need. Then you will be able to testify to all that He has done in your lives. God alone is enough.

Brought Down to Married Life

Paul: Phoebe, we’re going to my parents’ house this weekend. Mum hasn’t been feeling very well, and I’m sure she’d love to see the children. What do you think?

Phoebe: Paul, honestly, I really don’t feel like it. I always feel judged by your parents. It seems they’re constantly waiting for me to put a foot wrong.

Paul: I understand, Phoebe, but they’re getting older and they need affection.

Phoebe: Maybe so, but your mother never seems to appreciate anything I do. I genuinely try my best and do everything with love, yet she always finds something to criticise.

Paul: Why don’t we take it to prayer at the parish?

Phoebe: Well, I just hope they don’t see us going into church, because last time the comment was: “Lots of Mass, lots of God, but the children are neglected.”

Paul: I know. We need a lot of prayer so that the Holy Spirit gives us the right words and helps them see the beauty of the faith we are living.

Phoebe: Yes, let’s ask the Holy Spirit to show us what to say and how to act, so that they may see God’s love in our lives.

Oh, and forgive me. I know it hurts you when I speak about your parents like this. I didn’t want to cause you any more pain.

Paul: You’re forgiven, my dear wife. I caught you off guard, and I should have been more considerate. Let’s make our couple prayer and place everything at the Lord’s feet. You’ll see that He will bring good out of it all.

Mother,

Help us to love those who do not love us and who do not love your Son, just as you love all of us as your children. Thank you, Mother. Blessed be God!