Entering into His Glory – Reflection for married couples – Luke 24:13-35

From the Gospel according to Luke 24:1335

That very day, the first day of the week,
two of Jesus’ disciples were going
to a village seven miles from Jerusalem called Emmaus,
and they were conversing about all the things that had occurred.
And it happened that while they were conversing and debating,
Jesus himself drew near and walked with them,
but their eyes were prevented from recognizing him.
He asked them,
“What are you discussing as you walk along?”
They stopped, looking downcast.
One of them, named Cleopas, said to him in reply,
“Are you the only visitor to Jerusalem
who does not know of the things
that have taken place there in these days?”
And he replied to them, “What sort of things?”
They said to him,
“The things that happened to Jesus the Nazarene,
who was a prophet mighty in deed and word
before God and all the people,
how our chief priests and rulers both handed him over
to a sentence of death and crucified him.
But we were hoping that he would be the one to redeem Israel;
and besides all this,
it is now the third day since this took place.
Some women from our group, however, have astounded us:
they were at the tomb early in the morning
and did not find his body;
they came back and reported
that they had indeed seen a vision of angels
who announced that he was alive.
Then some of those with us went to the tomb
and found things just as the women had described,
but him they did not see.”
And he said to them, “Oh, how foolish you are!
How slow of heart to believe all that the prophets spoke!
Was it not necessary that the Christ should suffer these things
and enter into his glory?”
Then beginning with Moses and all the prophets,
he interpreted to them what referred to him
in all the Scriptures.
As they approached the village to which they were going,
he gave the impression that he was going on farther.
But they urged him, “Stay with us,
for it is nearly evening and the day is almost over.”
So he went in to stay with them.
And it happened that, while he was with them at table,
he took bread, said the blessing,
broke it, and gave it to them.
With that their eyes were opened and they recognized him,
but he vanished from their sight.
Then they said to each other,
“Were not our hearts burning within us
while he spoke to us on the way and opened the Scriptures to us?”
So they set out at once and returned to Jerusalem
where they found gathered together
the eleven and those with them who were saying,
“The Lord has truly been raised and has appeared to Simon!”
Then the two recounted
what had taken place on the way
and how he was made known to them in the breaking of bread.

Entering into His Glory

The two travellers on the road to Emmaus were disheartened. All their hopes of redemption had vanished; they felt defeated. We too, as spouses, often feel defeated and discouraged. We see no way forward, and our understanding becomes clouded.

In this Gospel, one phrase resounds with particular force: “Was it not necessary that the Messiah should suffer these things and so enter into His glory?” It was necessary to fulfil the will of the Father to the very end — to give His life on the Cross for our salvation, and thus to enter into His glory.

You make it so clear: nothing that comes from the world can lead us to the fullness for which we were created. That fullness can only be reached by doing Your will, in the reality of our daily lives — doing what is asked of us, as well as we can, and wrapping everything in love, even when we do not understand, even when it hurts.

Suffering in our marriage can only be understood in the light of the Cross. And we will only be able to live it in this way if we are nourished by His Word — by reading the Gospel each day, so that He may open our minds to God’s plan — and by the Bread of Life, the Eucharist, through which we may recognise Him walking beside us.

Brought into Married Life

Elizabeth: Hello, I’m home… How strange, no one’s here. Charles isn’t home, and it’s very late. He told me he’d be back early today and would sort out dinner.

(Elizabeth sends her husband a message, but he neither reads nor replies. The next day…)

Elizabeth: Well, good morning! I waited up for you last night, and you didn’t even show up or get in touch.

Charles: Well, Elizabeth, I’m sorry, but I ran into Leonard after work. We hadn’t seen each other for years, and we got talking… it ended up getting very late.

Elizabeth: I see, Charles. I thought you had changed, but it was all just an illusion. I’m off to work…

(That afternoon)

Charles: Hello!

Elizabeth: Hello, Charles. Can we talk calmly for a moment?

Charles: Yes, of course.

Elizabeth: Look, this morning I behaved very badly towards you, and I want to ask your forgiveness. After going to Confession and to the Eucharist this afternoon, the Lord opened my eyes. I saw that I hadn’t treated you well; I didn’t even let you explain yourself. I was very hurt because I hadn’t heard from you, and on a day when I needed you, you weren’t there. Please forgive me.

Charles: I forgive you, Elizabeth. But I also want to ask your forgiveness. I didn’t call you, and I wasn’t there for you on a day when you had asked for my help. I too went to the Eucharist, and the Lord showed me that you come first. Forgive me, my love.

Elizabeth: Forgiven. And how is Leonard?

Charles: He’s going through a difficult time in his marriage, which is why we spent so long talking. I shared our experience with him and how our life has changed.

Elizabeth: Oh, poor thing… And did you tell him about the Project?

Charles: Yes, I’ll tell you all about it later. But first, let’s give thanks to God, who never leaves us alone and who speaks to our hearts when we need it most.

Elizabeth: Of course — the most important thing, and I almost forgot. Thank you, my love… and thank You, Lord, for him.

Mother,

Intercede with your Son, that He may always walk with us along the way, teaching us through His Word and nourishing us with His Body.

Blessed and praised be God.

Do not be afraid, my spouse. Reflection for marriages John 6:16–21

Gospel of the day

A reading from the holy Gospel according to John 6:1621
When it was evening, the disciples of Jesus went down to the sea,
embarked in a boat, and went across the sea to Capernaum.
It had already grown dark, and Jesus had not yet come to them.
The sea was stirred up because a strong wind was blowing.
When they had rowed about three or four miles,
they saw Jesus walking on the sea and coming near the boat,
and they began to be afraid.
But he said to them, “It is I. Do not be afraid.”
They wanted to take him into the boat,
but the boat immediately arrived at the shore
to which they were heading.

Do not be afraid, my spouse.
Today we see the disciples going through a moment of darkness, fear and distress. And in the middle of the storm Jesus appears and says to them: “It is I. Do not be afraid.”
In married life, there are also nights and storms. And there we are called to be the presence of Christ for one another. Today I, as your spouse, can say to you: “It is I, do not be afraid, my beloved spouse. It is I who come to bring you light in your darkness. It is I who do not draw away when you are wounded or fallen, but come near to lift you up. It is I who give myself for you, even on the cross of each day. It is I… who want to walk with you all the way to Heaven.”
And this is the conjugal charity that spouses are called to live: to love until life is given, to die to oneself so that the other may live. And when this happens, Christ enters the boat… and even in the midst of the rough sea, the heart already begins to find the shore.

Applied to married life:
Peter: Laura, I need to tell you something… something that has been weighing on me for a long time.
Laura: Darling… sit here with me and tell me.
Peter: Laura, I have been carrying a debt for some time without telling you… I thought I could sort it out on my own, but the situation has got out of hand.
Laura: Peter… it upsets me that you have carried this alone for so long. Not because there is a problem, but because you hid it from me.
Peter: I know… I was afraid of disappointing you, of losing your trust.
Laura: I understand that fear… but it is me, Peter. Look, right now I am hurt, of course I am, but I am still here with you and I am not going to walk away.
Peter: Laura, I just do not know how we are going to get out of this situation…
Laura: Darling, of course we will get through it, because from now on we are going to face it together. The most important thing is that we learn from this and stop hiding things from each other.
Peter: Laura, I feel so ashamed that I have brought you into this…
Laura: Look, what matters now is not staying stuck in shame… it is waking up, facing it head on, and starting to look for a solution together.
Peter: Thank you, Laura, for your support and understanding.

Mother,
Walk with us through the storms of marriage and teach us always to trust in your Son. Blessed and praised be the Lord for ever.

Called to Be Witnesses. Reflection for marriages John (3:31–36)

Gospel of the Day

A reading from the Holy Gospel according to John (3:31–36)
The one who comes from above is above all.
The one who is of the earth is earthly and speaks of earthly things.
But the one who comes from heaven is above all.
He testifies to what he has seen and heard,
but no one accepts his testimony.
Whoever does accept his testimony certifies that God is trustworthy.
For the one whom God sent speaks the words of God.
He does not ration his gift of the Spirit.
The Father loves the Son and has given everything over to him.
Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life,
but whoever disobeys the Son will not see life,
but the wrath of God remains upon him.

Called to Be Witnesses
In this Easter season, we are called to be witnesses of God’s action in our hearts, in our lives, and in our marriage and family. God is a merciful Father who, through Jesus Christ, his only Son, has redeemed us on the cross and, by rising again, has given us eternal life.
If we have been transformed by his grace, we feel an urgency to bear witness. We are sent by God, two by two, to proclaim the Good News: Jesus is risen and sends us the Holy Spirit so that we may live as beloved children of the Father. We are heirs of eternal life!

Applied to Married Life
Louis: This Holy Week has been intense, hasn’t it?
Lucy: Yes, it has truly been a blessing to live it in community and in prayer, experiencing each moment with the Lord—sharing in his suffering and also in the joy of his Resurrection.
Louis: It has been a blessing, and it should show in us. We must be witnesses to the great love God has for us.
Lucy: Yes, so that everyone may discover it and live with the joy of knowing that God loves us and is alive. Life is so much more beautiful this way.
Louis: Absolutely—and no one should miss out on this. Shall we get started?
Lucy: Let’s do it!
Prayer

Mother,
thank you for your “yes” which gave us Jesus, and with him, eternal life.
Blessed are you, Mother!

I trust in You, Infinite Love. Reflection for marriages John 3:16–21

Gospel of the Day
From the Gospel according to John 3:16–21
God so loved the world that he gave his only-begotten Son,
so that everyone who believes in him might not perish
but might have eternal life.
For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world,
but that the world might be saved through him.
Whoever believes in him will not be condemned,
but whoever does not believe has already been condemned,
because he has not believed in the name of the only-begotten Son of God.
And this is the verdict,
that the light came into the world,
but people preferred darkness to light,
because their works were evil.
For everyone who does wicked things hates the light
and does not come toward the light,
so that his works might not be exposed.
But whoever lives the truth comes to the light,
so that his works may be clearly seen as done in God.

I trust in You, Infinite Love
“So much did God love the world that he gave his only Son.”
How can I sometimes doubt, good Father, your Love?
How can I not feel loved?
You, the Almighty God, love me to the point of giving your only Son for me.
Is there any greater proof of love?
And you give your Son so that I may “have eternal life”,
so that I may live forever with you,
enjoying you, a child in the Son.
What do I choose: the smallness of the world or the fullness of your Love?
My selfish self or the beauty of giving myself to you?
Darkness or Light?
Forgive me for having chosen so many times the small comforts of the world—
mere appearances, immediate satisfaction that can never truly fill me.
I choose You, Father, Infinite Love.
You know everything, You can do everything, You love me infinitely.
I trust in You.
You know what I have been through and what I am going through.
You are always with me. You know better.
Even if I cannot see, I know your Love sustains me,
and that you will bring something very great out of this.
What must I do?
Listen to You. Listen to your Word.
And make it my life:
“Whoever wants to follow me must deny himself,
take up his cross each day, and follow me.”
Let your Will be done, not mine.
Thank you very much, good Father.
Applied to Married Life
Myriam: When I read the Word of God, everything is clear. God is my good Father, He loves me infinitely, and with Him I fear nothing… But then, in daily life, many things overwhelm me, and I fall again… I don’t know what to do.
James: Myriam, the light of the Spirit is visible in your words. God is our Father who loves us infinitely. We need to listen to His Word, take it into our hearts, and see how to live it out. And we do this by persevering on this path of prayer and the sacraments, through formation in community, and through acts of love that purify our hearts.
Myriam: Thank goodness I have you by my side. You give me the light I lack. I can see clearly that my light fades when I do not persevere—when I become weak in prayer and in living it out.
James: We will continue to fall because we are very small. But if we persevere—discovering each day the Love of God, recognising the attachments that bind us to the world and prevent us from doing His Will, and living out His Word—we will begin to live Heaven here on earth.
Myriam: Yes… sometimes I deceive myself into thinking things will work out without giving myself, without striving. I know God will act, but He needs my “yes”, my determination in concrete steps. Let’s go for it! No excuses! Thank you, my love. Thank you, Lord.
Prayer

Mother,

please help us to persevere.
You long for our happiness,
but you need our “yes” and our determination.
Thank you very much, Mother.
Blessed and praised be God!

Believing Without Understanding. Reflection for marriages John (3:7b–15)

Gospel of the Day
A reading from the holy Gospel according to John (3:7b–15)
Jesus said to Nicodemus:
“‘You must be born from above.’
The wind blows where it wills, and you can hear the sound it makes,
but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes;
so it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
Nicodemus answered and said to him,
‘How can this happen?”
Jesus answered and said to him,
“You are the teacher of Israel and you do not understand this?
Amen, amen, I say to you,
we speak of what we know and we testify to what we have seen,
but you people do not accept our testimony.
If I tell you about earthly things and you do not believe,
how will you believe if I tell you about heavenly things?
No one has gone up to heaven
except the one who has come down from heaven, the Son of Man.
And just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the desert,
so must the Son of Man be lifted up,
so that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life.”

Believing Without Understanding
It is striking that nowadays we are used to “knowing” everything — and if we do not, we simply look it up on our phones or ask AI. Through this Gospel, we see that the things of God do not work like that. That is why Jesus tells Nicodemus that he must be born again.
The same happens in our marriage. We try to understand each other through human logic, and then it can seem as though we have completely opposite characters, that our gifts — instead of helping — become obstacles, or even that we made a mistake because we feel we have nothing in common with our spouse.
But God does everything well. He invites us to strip ourselves of our ego and be born again. Only then can there be a true marriage: becoming one flesh means being reborn within our marriage, allowing the Lord to dwell at the centre of our sacrament — making it something eternal, not something fleeting as the world often suggests today.

Applied to Married Life
Henry: Alicia, do you know I was speaking with my cousin Charles this morning? I hadn’t seen him well lately, so I asked if something was wrong.
Alicia: Poor thing… what did he say?
Henry: I was quite shocked. He told me he is considering separating from Carmen. He thinks they’ve been together too many years, that their marriage has become routine, that they have opposite characters, and now that their children have left home, it feels like they have nothing in common. He thinks maybe it is time to start again — each on their own.
Alicia: That’s heartbreaking… they must be suffering so much. If you agree, Henry, speak to him again and I will talk to Carmen. We can tell them that the Lord is giving them a new opportunity to begin again in their marriage — a “rebirth”. That they should ask each other for help, go to Mass together, pray together, and that we will be there for whatever they need.
Henry: That sounds like a great idea. I also mentioned to Charles that we have the Proyecto Amor Conyugal retreat next month, but he said he couldn’t be bothered to give up a weekend for that, and he doesn’t think anything can be fixed in just two days.
Alicia: Well, with God’s help, we must convince them that this weekend could be the best investment of their lives… shall we get started?
Henry: Let’s do it! We’ll call them now. But first, let’s pray the Rosary for them — above all, they need prayers.
Prayer

Mother,

Help us to be born again in the Lord.
May He be forever blessed and praised!