From the Gospel according to Matthew 5:17-37

Jesus said to his disciples:”Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets.I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.Amen, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away,not the smallest letter or the smallest part of a letterwill pass from the law,until all things have taken place.Therefore, whoever breaks one of the least of these commandmentsand teaches others to do sowill be called least in the kingdom of heaven. But whoever obeys and teaches these commandments will be called greatest in the kingdom of heaven. I tell you, unless your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.

“You have heard that it was said to your ancestors, You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment. But I say to you, whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; and whoever says to his brother, ‘Raqa,’
will be answerable to the Sanhedrin; and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ will be liable to fiery Gehenna.
Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar,and there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court. Otherwise your opponent will hand you over to the judge,and the judge will hand you over to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison.Amen, I say to you, you will not be released until you have paid the last penny.

“You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery. But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body thrown into Gehenna. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body go into Gehenna.

“It was also said, Whoever divorces his wife must give her a bill of divorce. But I say to you, whoever divorces his wife – unless the marriage is unlawful – causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery”Again you have heard that it was said to your ancestors,Do not take a false oath,but make good to the Lord all that you vow.But I say to you, do not swear at all;not by heaven, for it is God’s throne;nor by the earth, for it is his footstool;nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.Do not swear by your head,for you cannot make a single hair white or black.Let your ‘Yes’ mean ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No’ mean ‘No.’Anything more is from the evil one”

The Gospel of the Lord

Are you still there?

There are wounds that, if we allow them to scar over and stop bleeding, end up separating us forever. There are emotional and spiritual distances that, even without leading to a breakup, open the door to indifference—an indifference that wounds the bond.

Then comes the conviction that nothing needs to be healed, hiding the wound while thinking, “it will pass.”

Called to live fullness, we settle for mere neatness. We live by appearances, hiding the pain of a soul made for infinity, yet fed on what is finite. Hunger of Christ IS not fullfilled With wordly things.
Christ has placed fullness—the infinite, the everything—at the very center of our soul: the fullness of the Holy Spirit within us.
What is the truth of your marriage? On what truth is it built?

Applied to married life:

(A scene inspired by The Jeweler’s Shop by Saint John Paul II)

Steve enters quietly. Anna, his wife, sits by the window, holding her engagement ring.

Anna:Do you remember when we promised to love each other… even when it wasn’t easy?
Steve: I remember… though sometimes it’s hard for me to believe it still means anything.
Anna: It’s not the ring that weighs heavy, Steve.  It’s everything we’ve stopped saying and sharing. I’m still here—not out of habit, but because I still believe in Him… and in you.
Steve: I… I got lost, Anna. Love turned into obligation, and I hid in silence.
Anna: Then break that silence. I’m not asking you to feel what you once felt—only to choose to love again.
Steve : (his voice breaking) And what if I no longer know how?
Anna:Start with a yes. Small, sincere. Like the first day—but this time trusting that it will be Him who does it, not us.

(They look at each other. Steve takes the ring and holds it between them.)

Mother,

show us your Son in our marriage, so that we may live it in truth and fullness. Blessed and praised forever be He who redeemed us with His Blood.

Reading from the Holy Gospel according to Luke 10:1–9

 After this the   Lord appointedseventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go.  He told them, “The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves. Do not take a purse or bag or sandals; and do not greet anyone on the road.
 “When you enter a house, first say, ‘Peace to this house.’ If someone who promotes peace is there, your peace will rest on them; if not, it will return to you. Stay there, eating and drinking whatever they give you, for the worker deserves his wages. Do not move around from house to house.
“When you enter a town and are welcomed, eat what is offered to you.  Heal the sick who are there and tell them, ‘The kingdom of God has come near to you.’
The Gospel of the Lord

 
Go, Start the journey!

Today’s Gospel brings us great news: the Kingdom of God has come to us! Yes, spouses, the Kingdom of Heaven has come to our marriage, to our families, to our lives—if only we are willing to receive it, if only we are willing to welcome it. Through  Project for conjugal love many of us have received this great news and are living it. We have discovered the greatness of our marriage and the covenant that Christ has made with us. This has changed our lives, and we are experiencing the joy of living marriage as God intended.

Now the Lord invites us to bring this Good News to other marriages. He says, Go, start the journey!” and sends us, spouses, two by two—those of us who have experienced that it is possible to anticipate Heaven on Earth by living a love of communion. The Lord wants to count on us—not because He needs us, for He is all-powerful, but because He is so good that He wants to make us part of His work. He wants us to go ahead, to show through our lives the Gospel of marriage to those who do not yet know it and to those He wants to reach. There are many marriages that have not yet discovered this beauty, and few of us who have. Are you in? What are you waiting for?

Applied to married life:

Emilia: Greg , do you know what I realized with today’s Gospel?
Greg: What, Emilia?
Emilia:  How lucky we are—that our marriage has not only grown and changed since the retreat, but through Proyect for conjugal Love we’ve found a place within the Church where we can give ourselves, and the best part is that we go together. The Lord sent His disciples two by two, and that’s how we go too.
Greg: It’s true, I hadn’t thought of it that way.
Emilia : Shall we offer to help with the next retreat? The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few…
Greg: The following week I was already invited to help with another retreat. You know I like to get involved in Church activities, but maybe two weekends in a row is too much.
Emilia :You’re right, but then we need to prioritize. Even when everything is good, we need to discern God’s will for us. And maybe, as today’s Gospel also says, once you find a house where you’re welcomed, stay there—don’t keep moving from house to house, from group to group. Picking here and there… maybe that’s a sign of immaturity. In the end, instead of being in many places, you’re really in none. Don’t you think? Here we can go together as a couple; the other option feels like it would separate us.
Greg: I hadn’t seen it from that perspective, but what you’re saying makes a lot of sense. Let me pray about it.
Emilia: if you want, we can pray together, since we are called to be one flesh.
Greg:  Yes, let’s bring it into our spouses prayer.

Mother,

You who offered your life so that Christ could reach all people, teach us to proclaim the Gospel of marriage and bring your Son to all who do not yet know Him. Blessed and glorious are you, Mother! Praised be the Lord forever!

From the Gospel according to Mark 7:31–37

From the Gospel according to Mark 7:24–30

Jesus went to the district of Tyre.He entered a house and wanted no one to know about it,but he could not escape notice.Soon a woman whose daughter had an unclean spirit heard about him.She came and fell at his feet.The woman was a Greek, a Syrophoenician by birth,and she begged him to drive the demon out of her daughter.He said to her, “Let the children be fed first.For it is not right to take the food of the childrenand throw it to the dogs.”She replied and said to him,“Lord, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s scraps.”Then he said to her, “For saying this, you may go.The demon has gone out of your daughter.”When the woman went home, she found the child lying in bedand the demon gone.

The Gospel of the Lord

Always Present

At times it may seem as though the Lord goes unnoticed, or that He is absent in certain moments. We may even question Him, wondering how He can allow certain situations. But in reality, that isn’t so. When we feel this way, what is really happening is that we struggle to accept or understand God’s will. The Lord is always present, at our side—even in the moments when we would rather He weren’t. He is far more attentive to us than we can imagine. Yet we tend to remember Him only when we realize we cannot manage on our own or when we simply do not understand what is happening.

How different things become when we seek God at all times—in what we do and in what we fail to do, in the good and in the difficult—living with an awareness of His true presence in everything. Sometimes we seek Him to give thanks; other times to ask for forgiveness. God is always beside us, but we do not perceive Him unless we are willing to. We have been given complete freedom to accept Him or not. He reveals Himself in many ways—and it always depends on us.

Applied to married Life:

Valeria:Eduard, have you noticed how wonderful it feels to be around Andrea and David? The way they speak to each other, the way they look at one another, the tenderness in how they treat each other—and so many little details you can’t help but notice when you’re with them.

Eduard: Yes, Valeria, of course I’ve noticed. It’s impossible not to. So different from us—we’re always trying to see who comes out on top.

Valeria: You can tell they truly have God at the center of their lives and their marriage. They seek Him in everything, accept His will, and live it out by reflecting Him in their love.

Eduard: Honestly, we could try to do the same. What’s the difference between them and us? Only that we resist accepting that God is within us—and instead we try to control each other.
Valeria: You’re right, Eduard. Let’s try. We already know the solution isn’t about being right, but about trusting in the Lord and remembering that He is within us.

Eduard: And what better way to start than by asking for your forgiveness? Forgive me, my dear Valeria. I’ve been selfish—pushing my own opinions, refusing to admit my weaknesses, pretending to be strong at the cost of hurting you.

Valeria:Thank you, Eduard. You are a gift, and I could not see It.  I’ve acted as though you had to serve me in everything, as though things always had to be done my way. Forgive me for not recognizing the good man you are.

Eduard: And you are truly amazing—the most wonderful wife in the world.

Valeria:Let’s give this our all. Now that we’ve managed to cast pride out of our love, how about we begin by going to Mass together and thanking God for our marriage?

Mother:

Help us always to keep your Son present through our spouse.

Blessed be God.

From the Gospel according to Mark 7:14–23

Jesus summoned the crowd again and said to them, “Hear me, all of you, and understand. Nothing that enters one from outside can defile that person; but the things that come out from within are what defile.”
When he got home away from the crowd his disciples questioned him about the parable.
He said to them, “Are even you likewise without understanding? Do you not realize that everything
that goes into a person from outside cannot defile, since it enters not the heart but the stomach and passes out into the latrine?”
(Thus he declared all foods clean.)
“But what comes out of the man, that is what defiles him. From within the man, from his heart,
come evil thoughts, unchastity, theft, murder,
adultery, greed, malice, deceit, licentiousness, envy, blasphemy, arrogance, folly. All these evils come from within and they defile.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Pay attention!

How good the Lord is, who enlightens us through this Gospel and shows us where to fix our gaze. So often we go through life with the bad habit of looking outside ourselves for the cause—or the culprits—of our troubles: “If my husband would change…,” “it’s my boss…,” “this rebellious child drives me crazy,” “it’s their fault…,” “if only they hadn’t said that…” Without realizing it, we end up placing the source of our uneasiness, our reactions, and our lack of love in something or someone outside of us.
Today the Lord comes to show us where to look. Pay attention, spouses! It is easy to focus on the other person’s faults or on external circumstances and overlook what is happening in our own hearts. I may never say a harsh word to my husband, yet judge him inwardly. And that is where the seed of evil begins to grow in my heart. It may seem small, but both good and evil always begin small—a tiny seed that eventually grows. So, pay attention to the heart! What am I thinking? What do I desire? What are my intentions? The cup may look beautiful and clean on the outside, but inside, dirt may already be taking root.

Applied to married life:

(After praying with this Gospel, Peter and Cristina share their reflections.)
Cristina: Do you know what I realized, Peter? Yesterday when you got home from work, I spoke to you harshly and made a rude gesture. That led to silence and distance between us until this morning. It’s true that I was exhausted—from work at the office and from spending the whole afternoon with the kids… But I’ve realized that it wasn’t the tiredness that created the distance. Tiredness made things harder, yes, but what truly broke our communion was the indifference and anger that came from my heart.
Peter: Yeah… I’ve realized something too. I’ve been helping the new colleague who just joined the office. On the surface, my intention seemed good, but deep down I was trying to make a good impression—showing off my knowledge and wanting others to see me as generous, kind, a good guy. In the end, I wasn’t helping purely out of love; vanity crept in.
Cristina: I think becoming aware of this is a grace from God. I want to stay attentive to what comes out of my heart when something bothers me or doesn’t go the way I want.
Peter: This helps me recognize my own misery, so I can place it in the Lord’s hands and let Him change my heart. How much we need Him!
Cristina: Let’s thank God for showing us the truth of our hearts—and tomorrow, let’s go to confession. What do you think?

Mother,

help us not to make excuses, but to humbly acknowledge our weakness with a contrite and humble heart. Blessed and praised be forever!