Nonsense or wisdom. Reflection for married couples. Mt 11:16-19.

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Matthew
Mt 11:16-19

Jesus said to the crowds:
“To what shall I compare this generation?
It is like children who sit in marketplaces and call to one another,
‘We played the flute for you, but you did not dance,
we sang a dirge but you did not mourn.’
For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they said,
‘He is possessed by a demon.’
The Son of Man came eating and drinking and they said,
‘Look, he is a glutton and a drunkard,
a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’
But wisdom is vindicated by her works.”

The word of the Lord

Nonsense or wisdom

Can we quantify the lack of listening and understanding in between us. A real dialogue of breams… And it is a shame, because that means that there is a lot of self-love and less love in between us.

At the end, the Lord has put us together because we have a lot to offer each other, a wonderful plan, and these unfruitful behaviours must disappear from our marital relationship so that it may bear fruits of love. Let us not be fools, let us not waste the gift and let us say today a huge “IT’S OVER!” So that through our works, wisdom may be accredited in us.


Landing in Married Life:

Mario: Maria, how is it possible that I forget how important you are to me? How is it possible that I don’t even take time out of the day to look after yourself as you deserve? And even more so now that you are pregnant…

María: You are very busy with work, Mario.

Mario: Yes, but on the other hand, I have plenty of time to complain, isn’t it?

Maria: That is true. You have to improve that, but I also have many things to improve. I love you as you are, even when you complain.

Mario: You know how to love me. Thank you Lord for this wonderful wife. From now on, You, Lord, will be my first priority, my wife the second and the rest will come later.


Mother
,

May we know how to value what the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit have given us and give us every day. Amen.

Keep your emotion. Reflection for married couples. Mt 11:11-15

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

Mt 11:11-15

“Truly I tell you, among those born of women no one has arisen greater than John the Baptist, yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he. From the days of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of heaven has suffered violence, and violent people take it by force. For all the Prophets and the Law prophesied until John came, and if you are willing to accept it, he is Elijah who is to come. Let anyone with ears listen!”

The word of the Lord

Keep your emotion.

The prophets were in charge of the revelation that God wanted to transmit to His people. John the Baptist was the last of the prophets, and then, all the revelation is condensed and completed through Jesus Christ, who is the great Prophet with a capital P, the culmination of the revelation that is completed in Him, the Word of God.

All the subsequent messages do nothing but illuminate or enhance this revelation that culminates in Christ Jesus.


Landing on Married Life:

Joaquín: Do you realise Teresa the blessing we have for being children of Revelation?

Teresa: You are right, Joaquín. There is nothing worse than walking in the dark and without direction. Imagine if we did not know what helps our marriage and what does not, what helps the children and what does not, what builds us up and what destroys us.

Joaquín: And hopefully, learn from falls. How sad that there are marriages that resist knowing the truth of marriage. Teresa: How sad that there are people who distort the truth of marriage and teach it in their own way.

Joaquín: I feel the need to kneel down here and thank God for the great gift of Revelation.

Teresa: Here, Joaquín? But we’re going on the subway.

Joaquín: You’re right, Teresa. Sorry, it’s just that today, more than ever, I became aware of what it means to walk through life with the light of the Word and I felt the brutal impulse to thank God.

Teresa: I love it, Joaquín, but be happy, son, be happy… Hahaha.

Joaquín: I’m trying, Teresa, I’m trying. But I’m not promising you anything… Hahaha.

 

Mother,

Thank you, thank you, thank you for bringing the Light to the world. Praise be to He who is the Word of God.

Take off. Reflection for married couples. Mt 11:28-30

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Matthew
Mt 11:28-30

Jesus said to the crowds:
“Come to me, all you who labour and are burdened,
and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,
for I am meek and humble of heart;
and you will find rest for yourselves.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.”

The word of the Lord

Take off.

Can it be a gentle yoke? Can it be a light load? There is an image that helps me understand it a lot: I imagine a pile of containers, which are the load of my life, a load that I come to Jesus.

Jesus offers me a yoke, which are two jet engines (the fire of the Holy Spirit) and an extra load which are the wings (The Word). For the whole thing to take off, it is necessary to put the load in the fuselage in an order suitable for the flight (unity of life). Then, a certain initial effort to put the aircraft on the runway and achieve the take off (detachment).

Little by little, driven by the Holy Spirit with the fuel of grace and the Sacraments, and supported by the wings of the Word and the doctrine as a rudder, we are gaining height in the right direction…

Who knows. If there were airplanes in Jesus’ time, perhaps he would have told a similar parable .

Landing in Married Life:

Fermín: I don’t understand, Mayte, how Jesus offers us a bearable yoke. It can’t be very bearable.

Mayte: Let’s see, Fermín, I ask you: Does our marital relationship seem like a burden or a help to you?

Fermín: There was a time when it seemed like a bit of a burden, to be honest. But now, since we have understood the greatness and beauty of Christian marriage, it seems like a wonderful treasure to me.

Mayte: Well, our marital relationship is the Lord’s yoke for us.

Fermín: Of course, now I understand. What for the world can be very heavy for Christians is the reason for our life. And for you? Mayte, what is our marital relationship for you? A burden or something rather bearable?

Mayte: I think I couldn’t live without you. I love you madly, Fermín. Is my answer okay for you?

Fermín: I’m okay with it. Boy, I’m okay with it!

Mother, Of Marital Love, pray for us.

Three daggers to the heart. Reflection for married couples. Mt 18:12-14

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Matthew
Mt 18:12-14

Jesus said to his disciples:
“What is your opinion?
If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them goes astray,
will he not leave the ninety-nine in the hills
and go in search of the stray?
And if he finds it, amen, I say to you, he rejoices more over it
than over the ninety-nine that did not stray.
In just the same way, it is not the will of your heavenly Father
that one of these little ones be lost.”

The word of the Lord

 

Three daggers to the heart.

Three phrases jump out like daggers from this Gospel text. Let’s see if I dodge them and make excuses or let them reach my heart. The first is: It is not the Father’s will that one of these little ones get lost. This phrase leaves me with no free time.

The second is how the Father rejoices over a repentant sinner. Do I rejoice in the same way when my husband has hurt me a lot and asks for my forgiveness?

And the third is that when faced with an offense, the one who takes the initiative is the offended, the initiative to rescue the offender. Do I take that initiative when I am offended or do I wait for forgiveness before taking a step?

 

Grounded in Married Life:

Miguel: Rocio, I’ve realised that I have not known how to respond in your worst moments. When you have been sunk in the misery of your sin, instead of taking the initiative and going out to rescue you, I have pulled the chain to get rid of your filth without considering that I was also abandoning you.

Rocío: Calm down, Miguel, I understand you perfectly because I get very unbearable.

Miguel: But now I tell you that I am willing to get down to the mud and dive my head first into the filth if necessary in order to rescue you.

Rocío: I am not worthy of you enter my house, but one word from you I will welcome as the Word that God sends me and that will be enough to heal me.

Miguel: Wow, if I had known that one word was enough, I would not have jumped into the puddle.

Rocío: Hahaha. Well, it was one word but I was covered in mud up to my eyebrows.

 

Mother,

We thank God so much for having come out to look for us… I do not have enough life or sacrifices to thank for what I have received by collaborating with His redemptive work.

Praise the Lord who has loved us so much.

So Small, Yet So Powerful. Reflection for married couples. Luke 1:26-38

Gospel

‘Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son.’
A reading from the holy Gospel according to Luke
Lk 1:26-38

At that time: The angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. And the virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, ‘Hail, full of grace, the Lord is with you!’ But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and tried to discern what sort of greeting this might be. And the angel said to her, ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favour with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob for ever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.’
  And Mary said to the angel, ‘How will this be, since I am a virgin?’ And the angel answered her, ‘The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy — the Son of God. And behold, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son, and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.’ And Mary said, ‘Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.’ And the angel departed from her.

So Small, Yet So Powerful

Today we celebrate the Immaculate Conception of Mary. I can’t resist reflecting on this moment that took place in complete secrecy. Only God, and perhaps the angels, knew of this event. The first immaculate zygote, the first seed of holiness in the universe after the Fall, would lead to the greatest revolution in history: the Redemption. So small, yet so powerful.
This is the nature of the Kingdom of Heaven—a tiny seed that grows to become vast enough to hold God Himself.

Applied to Married Life:

Patrick: Rachel, don’t worry. I know you deeply desire for us to experience true communion in our marriage, but that’s something only God can achieve. And He works silently, little by little. At first, it’s almost imperceptible, but then it becomes immense.
Rachel: Thank you, Patrick. I know. I know our marriage is going to be something amazing because God is great. I just need to be patient with you, just as God is patient with me.

Mother,

Love is patient. It’s the first rule in St. Paul’s letter. I won’t forget it. Praise be to God.