Gospel of the Day
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Gifts Against You. Reflection for marriages. Saint Luke 16:19–31
Gospel of the Day
A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Saint Luke 16:19–31
At that time, Jesus said to the Pharisees:
“There was a rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and feasted sumptuously every day. At his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.
The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham’s bosom. The rich man also died and was buried. In torment in Hades, he looked up and saw Abraham far away with Lazarus by his side. So he called out, ‘Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, for I am tormented in these flames.’
But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received good things, while Lazarus received bad things. Now he is comforted here, and you are in anguish. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who want to cross from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross from there to us.’
The rich man said, ‘Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my father’s house, for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.’
But Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’
‘No, father Abraham,’ he said. ‘But if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’
Then Abraham said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’”
Gifts Against You
This parable is not about the rich man suffering in hell—it is a warning to his wealthy brothers still on earth. And those brothers could be us.
God does not distribute gifts equally, but He does so intentionally, so that those who have more may share with those who have less.
That is why the law that governs this world is charity. If I have more, it is not for me to enjoy more than others, but to share what I have. If I fail to do this, there will be consequences—both in this life and the next.
Applying It to Married Life
Paco: We have the afternoon free. What do you think about going through the gifts God has given us and seeing how we are using them?
Dolores: That sounds like a good idea. For example, I like helping others, I am honest, religious, deep-thinking, hardworking, and persistent.
Paco: I am tenacious, perseverant, practical, disciplined, and very focused. Let’s see… I use my tenacity for my own goals, but not for what you ask of me; my perseverance for what I like, but not for our relationship; my focus sometimes turns into obsession over your flaws; and my discipline often makes me too demanding with you. I am not using my virtues to love you more.
Dolores: And I realise that I use my gift of helping others outside the home but not with you; my honesty sometimes turns into pointing out your faults; my religious devotion makes me compare myself to you; my depth of thought makes me complain that you are too superficial; and my hard work makes me judge you for not using your time efficiently. Instead of using my gifts to love you, I have been using them against you.
Paco: I think we have a lot to change. What if we started using our gifts to help each other, instead of to hurt each other?
Dolores: Maybe then we would truly learn how to love.
Mother,
May we use our riches for love. Praise be to the Giver of all things!
Admiration for Joseph. Reflection for marriages. Saint Matthew 1:16, 18–21, 24a
Gospel of the Day
A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Saint Matthew 1:16, 18–21, 24a
Jacob was the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, of whom was born Jesus, who is called the Christ.
The birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way:
His mother, Mary, was betrothed to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit.
Joseph, her husband, being a just man and unwilling to expose her to disgrace, resolved to divorce her quietly. But after he had made up his mind, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said:
“Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to name Him Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins.”
When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him.
Admiration for Joseph
Fr. Mendizábal says that Joseph never doubted Mary but did doubt whether he was worthy enough to be the husband of the Mother of God and to serve as the father of Jesus. What a mission Joseph had!
How many times must Jesus have heard this story from His father? And how many times would He have admired Joseph—his humility, his faithfulness, his obedience? Surely, Jesus was proud of him.
As parents, may we rise each day ready to do the will of the Father, just as Joseph did.
Applying It to Married Life
Paco: I love God’s plan—that He wanted His Son to have an adoptive father. It reminds me how important and dignified our role is as adoptive parents.
Clara: Yes! What a blessing that we can share this mission with Saint Joseph. And what dignity it gives to our children to know that Jesus Himself also had an adoptive father.
Paco: Thank You, Lord, for the example of Saint Joseph.
Clara: We ask Saint Joseph to intercede for us so that we may trust in the Father’s love as generously as he did.
Mother,
What a great husband you had on Earth. May we, like him, embrace the mission entrusted to us with humility, faithfulness, and obedience.
Thank you, blessed Joseph!
The Missing Chapter. Reflection for marriages. Saint Matthew 23:1–12
Gospel of the Day
A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Saint Matthew 23:1–12
At that time, Jesus spoke to the crowds and to His disciples, saying:
“The scribes and the Pharisees have taken their seat on the chair of Moses. Therefore, do and observe whatever they tell you, but do not do as they do, for they do not practice what they preach.
They tie up heavy burdens, hard to carry, and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they will not lift a finger to move them. All their works are performed to be seen by others. They widen their phylacteries and lengthen the tassels of their garments. They love the places of honour at banquets, the seats of honour in synagogues, greetings in marketplaces, and the title ‘Rabbi.’
But you are not to be called ‘Rabbi,’ for you have one Teacher, and you are all brothers. And do not call anyone on earth your ‘Father,’ for you have one Father, who is in heaven. Nor are you to be called ‘Master,’ for you have one Master, the Messiah.
The greatest among you must be your servant. Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
The Missing Chapter
Wouldn’t it be better to simply witness that it is God who does everything?
Once again, Jesus redirects our actions towards love and truth, offering two guiding principles:
“The greatest among you must be your servant.”
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”
These are two essential keys for marriage. One who does not serve is of no use. And secondly, I cannot exalt myself, because claiming merit for myself is taking it away from God.
Wouldn’t it be better to simply testify that it is God who accomplishes everything? Only God exalts, and He exalts the humble.
Applying It to Married Life
Juanjo (Catechist): Mmm… this dessert is delicious! Well… (getting up from the table) meal finished, gathering over!
Marta: And the dishes? Who’s clearing the table? Am I doing it alone?
Juanjo: Marta, I have so much to do. I’m teaching catechesis tomorrow, and I haven’t even finished preparing my lesson.
Marta: One day, I really need to discover the mystery of how to love without clearing the table. That chapter isn’t in my Bible…
Juanjo: You’re right, Marta. Forgive me. Go and rest a while—I’ll take care of everything. Tomorrow’s catechesis is not more important than the dignity of serving you.
Marta: Thank you, Juanjo. And forgive me—I was a bit ironic with you, and irony is far from love. I feel ashamed, because irony always places oneself above the other, and in doing so, I disregarded you. I should have spoken to you with love, thinking of you rather than myself.
Juanjo: Either way, it worked. Thank you for bringing me back to my place.
Marta: And thank you for reacting so well and bringing me back to mine.
(They embrace.)
Mother,
You teach us this as well in the Magnificat:
“He has shown might with His arm, scattered the proud in their conceit.
He has cast down the mighty from their thrones and has exalted the humble.
He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich He has sent away empty.”
This is the Heart of the Father, and this is how you reveal Him to us. How important it is to know the heart of God!
Thank you, Mother, for showing it to us. Blessed are you. Amen.
A “Kit Kat”?. Reflection for marriages. Saint Mark 6:30–34
Gospel of the Day
A reading from the Holy Gospel according to Saint Mark 6:30–34
At that time, the apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to Him all they had done and taught.
He said to them:
‘Come away by yourselves to a secluded place and rest for a while.’
For so many people were coming and going that they did not even have time to eat. So they went away in a boat to a solitary place by themselves.
But many saw them leaving and recognised them, and from all the towns they ran on foot to that place and arrived there ahead of them.
When Jesus disembarked and saw a great crowd, He had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. And He began to teach them many things.
A “Kit Kat”?
Reading this Gospel, I wonder: What would it be like to rest with Jesus? Would He stop talking about the Kingdom and change the subject to “relax”?
I don’t think Jesus would take a “kit kat” from His mission or His essence as the Saviour. Even in moments of rest, He would still be the Good Shepherd.
Let our priests always remain priests, even in their times of rest. Let us remain Christian spouses, even during our leisure time, and even more so in front of our children.
Applying It to Married Life
Rafa: Lola, are you truly a Christian, or are you just acting like one?
Lola: What kind of question is that, Rafa? Of course, I’m a Christian.
Rafa: Yeah, but in your free time, do you also behave like a Christian wife, or do you only do so when people are watching, in a church setting?
Lola: Well, it’s true that sometimes I don’t behave as I should—but that’s when I fall into temptation and the devil takes over me. But in those moments, it’s not really me; it’s the evil working within me.
Rafa: I’ve realised that there are always spirits influencing us. When we belong to Christ, it’s the Holy Spirit guiding us. But when we don’t, it’s the spirit of evil leading us. But you and I, we belong to Christ—don’t we?
Mother,
We are spouses of Christ, our Good Shepherd. Praise be to Him forever.