Making Christ Present. Reflection for marriages. Luke 11:29-32

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Luke. Lk. 11:29-32

While still more people gathered in the crowd, Jesus said to them, “This generation is an evil generation; it seeks a sign, but no sign will be given it, except the sign of Jonah.
Just as Jonah became a sign to the Ninevites, so will the Son of Man be to this generation.
At the judgment the queen of the south will rise with the men of this generation and she will condemn them, because she came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon, and there is something greater than Solomon here.
At the judgment the men of Nineveh will arise with this generation and condemn it, because at the preaching of Jonah they repented, and there is something greater than Jonah here.”

Making Christ Present

Today, just like He did with the people of His time, Jesus is is calling us out. Since He came into the world, since His Redemption, we’ve been given everything we need to have the kind of marriage He intended, but we’re still so lost. In married life, we often wait for “signs” from each other: perfect gestures of affection, just the right words of comfort, clear proof of love. But the Gospel reminds us that what we really need is to open our hearts to what’s already in front of us. Jesus reminds us that the real sign isn’t something external, but faithfulness and true self-giving.
The “sign of Jonah” was about people who listened, and changed. In marriage, the real sign isn’t big gestures or flashy moments. It’s found in the simple things: in daily patience, in offering forgiveness, in the effort to understand each other, in the tenderness we give without expecting anything in return. The Gospel also says: “Here is one greater than Jonah, greater than Solomon.” In marriage, that “greater one” is Christ, present right between the two of us. If both are truly trying to find Jesus in the other, the relationship doesn’t rely just on human words, but on the certainty of a deeper love. So let’s never forget that our marriage is made of three and that we don’t miss the signs of His presence in our everyday life.

Applied to married life:

Lucy: Declan, I want to say sorry. A lot of times, I get all twisted up inside thinking you don’t love me enough. I focus only on what you say or do and I don’t see your heart.
Declan: Have you been reading my mind? I was literally thinking the same thing. I often get stuck on appearances and feel like the kids come before me in your heart.
Lucy: Wow, I’m sorry. It’s true that sometimes, when I doubt your love for me, I just shut down, and I don’t even feel like making you dinner.
Declan: Wait, seriously? But your dinners are amazing!
Lucy: Haha, you dummy. Well, on those days, I cook without a single drop of love.
Declan: Babe, on our wedding day, when I said “yes,” I gave you my past, my present, and my future. I mess up a lot, and sometimes I don’t show you that because I get caught up in myself. I’m sorry.
Lucy: That’s exactly why I want to ask both you and God to forgive me. Our marriage is made of three, and on the days I close in on myself, I even start to doubt if getting married was the right choice… But now, after praying, I realize this all comes from me, from my own insecurities and my need for a “perfect” kind of love from you. I’m sorry, love.
Declan: You’re adorable. From now on, let’s not doubt that God is in our marriage and let’s stop asking each other for more “signs.” Deal?
Lucy: Totally. And now I’m gonna make you a delicious dinner with lots of love this time.

Mother,

Teach us not to doubt our spouse, and to focus on the greatest sign that unites us: our Sacrament. Praise be to the Lord who waits for us in our spouse.

The Pillar of Civilization. Reflection for married couples. Luke 17:11-19

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke 17:11-19

As Jesus continued his journey to Jerusalem,

he travelled through Samaria and Galilee.

As he was entering a village, ten lepers met him.

They stood at a distance from him and raised their voices, saying,

“Jesus, Master! Have pity on us!”

And when he saw them, he said,

“Go show yourselves to the priests.”

As they were going they were cleansed.

And one of them, realizing he had been healed,

returned, glorifying God in a loud voice;

and he fell at the feet of Jesus and thanked him.

He was a Samaritan.

Jesus said in reply,

“Ten were cleansed, were they not?

Where are the other nine?

Has none but this foreigner returned to give thanks to God?”

Then he said to him, “Stand up and go;

your faith has saved you.”

The word of the Lord

 

The Pillar of Civilization

Today we celebrate the way of life of Mary, the true pillar of what Saint John Paul II called the “civilization of love.”

A young woman who learned to love by loving—who, by becoming a servant and embodying the Word of her Son in daily life, not only lived in truth but lived with the Truth and the Life.

This is the path to which we spouses are called in marriage: the true school of love, the “Sanctuary of Life.” There we learn to walk with the Truth and the Life among us, becoming the seed of a civilization of men and women with dignity, created in the image of God, always treated as an end and never as a means.

Moved by a self-giving love, not merely emotional. A love where we learn generosity and forgiveness, to share rather than hoard, to give ourselves rather than possess.

This is the civilization we are called to build: our identity, our true “ID,” is Christ.

No appointment is needed to meet Him—He’s available 24 hours a day.

 

Applied to Married Life

Alicia: Love, yesterday I was listening to a priest’s testimony, and I was deeply moved when he said, “God doesn’t choose the best, but those He wants.” Even though I’ve heard it many times before, yesterday it truly touched my heart.

David: What do you mean?

Alicia: That God’s logic is one of pure gift. I feel like in our home, a worldly logic often prevails—where efficiency or personal interest tends to dominate our intentions.

David: That’s deep. I think I understand. In my case, I realise I project expectations onto our children—expecting them to be a certain way so they can “succeed” in the world. That influences how I treat them and what I demand from them.

 

Alicia: Exactly. And I sometimes overprotect them. Fear kills the miracle. We need to learn to see them as God sees them—and at the same time, show them through our marriage the freedom that only God gives. Only He knows the truth of our hearts.

David: Shall we pray today’s Gospel together and see what He wants to reveal to us?

 

Mother,

Teach us to stand in truth by embodying the Word of Your Son. May He be forever blessed and praised, for by His Blood, He redeemed us.

What Is Better… Reflection for married couples. Luke 11:27-28

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke 11:27-28

While Jesus was speaking,

a woman from the crowd called out and said to him,

“Blessed is the womb that carried you

and the breasts at which you nursed.”

He replied, “Rather, blessed are those

who hear the word of God and observe it.”

The word of the Lord

 

What Is Better…

It’s good to do good things and say kind words, but today Jesus in the Gospel urges us not to settle for what is merely good, but to seek what is best: to listen to the Word of God and to live it out. And it is precisely those who listen to the Word and put it into practice whom Jesus calls blessed. Like Mary, our Mother—she is “the Blessed One,” not only because she carried Jesus in her womb, but especially because she listened to the Word of God and fulfilled it.

Jesus reminds us again today of the need to listen to God’s Word, which is essential to understanding His plan for us. There is no other way. If we don’t dedicate time to be with the Lord, silencing the noise of the world and paying attention to His voice—seeking that intimacy He desires with each of us, which is forged in prayer—it becomes impossible to hear Him and know His will.

And for us as spouses, nothing is better than conjugal prayer. It is our tool for intimacy with Him and for knowing Him, and it gives us the opportunity to hear what God wants for our marriage. But it’s not enough to just listen to His Word—we must also live it, bring it into our lives, and align everything we do with His will.

That’s why Jesus calls blessed those who—first—listen to the Word of God, and—then—put it into practice. Spouses, this is our path to true blessing, our highway to happiness, because our Father in heaven knows what is best for us, His children.

 

Applied to Married Life

Susana: Michael, we’ve been invited to a gala dinner at the casino next Saturday. You have no idea how excited I am!

Michael: Susana, isn’t that the same day we have our couples’ group meeting at the parish?

Susana: Oh, you’re right—I hadn’t realised the overlap. But it’s just one time, it won’t hurt to miss a day.

Michael: I’m not so sure. We have a commitment to the community. And besides, those meetings with the other couples have been so good for us—our marriage has grown a lot since we started going.

Susana: Oh Michael, just this once… I’ve dreamed of going to that dinner for years, and now the opportunity has come up.

Michael: Susana, what will that really give you? Look, why don’t we bring it to our conjugal prayer tonight and see what the Lord tells us?

(That night, during their conjugal prayer…)

Susana: Jesus, in this Gospel You tell me that Your Mother is blessed because she listened to the Word of God and lived it. I’m excited about going to that fancy dinner—I don’t see anything wrong with it. But through Michael, You’ve reminded me that it falls on the same day as our couples’ meeting. And in this Gospel, You’ve shown me the importance of hearing Your Word and fulfilling it, of doing Your will. You’ve helped me see that there’s something better than that dinner—because in those group meetings, we’re being formed and deepening our understanding of marriage as You intended it. They help us grow in our marital vocation. And it’s true that every time we go, I come back renewed and excited about our marriage. Lord, thank You for giving me my husband, my suitable help.

Michael: Thank You, Lord, for my suitable help—and for showing us through our prayer what is better.

Mother,

You, who are the Blessed One because you listen to the Word of God and live it, teach us to pray and to have intimacy with God, to listen to His Word, to treasure it in our hearts, and to always say yes to His will. Blessed and glorious are you, Mother! May our Lord be praised forever!

Are We Safe?. Reflection for married couples. Luke 11:15-26

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke 11:15-26

When Jesus had driven out a demon, some of the crowd said:

“By the power of Beelzebul, the prince of demons,

he drives out demons.”

Others, to test him, asked him for a sign from heaven.

But he knew their thoughts and said to them,

“Every kingdom divided against itself will be laid waste

and house will fall against house.

And if Satan is divided against himself, how will his kingdom stand?

For you say that it is by Beelzebul that I drive out demons.

If I, then, drive out demons by Beelzebul,

by whom do your own people drive them out?

Therefore they will be your judges.

But if it is by the finger of God that I drive out demons,

then the Kingdom of God has come upon you.

When a strong man fully armed guards his palace,

his possessions are safe.

But when one stronger than he attacks and overcomes him,

he takes away the armour on which he relied

and distributes the spoils.

Whoever is not with me is against me,

and whoever does not gather with me scatters.

“When an unclean spirit goes out of someone,

it roams through arid regions searching for rest

but, finding none, it says,

‘I shall return to my home from which I came.’

But upon returning, it finds it swept clean and put in order.

Then it goes and brings back seven other spirits

more wicked than itself who move in and dwell there,

and the last condition of that man is worse than the first.”

The word of the Lord

 

Are We Safe?

We might think that, by being closer to the Lord and having cleansed and ordered our soul, we are already saved. But in this Gospel, the Lord warns us of the danger that lurks—we must remain vigilant, live in a state of grace, frequent the sacraments, and be steadfast in daily prayer. For the devil, it is a great victory to make those closest to the Lord fall.

Applied to Married Life

Peter: Alicia, I’m feeling a bit disheartened. This morning, while getting the kids ready for school, I fell back into the same old habits from before our conversion—anger, shouting… I even threw Jaimy’s backpack to make him hurry up. I feel like everything I’m doing is pointless. What’s the use of praying and going to Mass if I slip up the moment I lose focus?

Alicia: Peter, that was this morning. When did you realise you were doing something wrong?

Peter: Right away. I picked up the backpack, handed it to Jaimy, and asked him to forgive me.

Alicia: And you think prayer and the sacraments aren’t working? Before, your bad mood would’ve lasted all day, and you’d have believed you were completely in the right. I think the devil is tempting you to fall into despair and stop trusting in God.

Peter: You’re absolutely right! And how quickly I fell… Thank goodness I shared this temptation with you—it’s helped me stop the spiral and renew my commitment to keep walking this path.

Alicia: As Father Jhon told us: “Temptation revealed is temptation defeated.” It’s so important to share what we’re going through—we truly are each other’s Suitable Help. And what a beautiful example you gave Javier by asking for forgiveness. The Lord is so good. Now let’s begin our couple’s prayer: “In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit…”

Mother,

Protect us beneath your Mantle from the snares of the evil one. Pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen. Praised be the Lord!

Ask with faith and perseverance. Reflection for married couples. Luke 11:5-13

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke 11:5-13

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Suppose one of you has a friend
to whom he goes at midnight and says,
‘Friend, lend me three loaves of bread,
for a friend of mine has arrived at my house from a journey
and I have nothing to offer him,’
and he says in reply from within,
‘Do not bother me; the door has already been locked
and my children and I are already in bed.
I cannot get up to give you anything.’
I tell you, if he does not get up to give him the loaves
because of their friendship,
he will get up to give him whatever he needs
because of his persistence.

“And I tell you, ask and you will receive;
seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks, receives;
and the one who seeks, finds;
and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.
What father among you would hand his son a snake
when he asks for a fish?
Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg?
If you then, who are wicked,
know how to give good gifts to your children,
how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit
to those who ask him?”

The word of the Lord

 

Ask with faith and perseverance

How clearly the Lord speaks to us again in the Gospel, and how clumsily we receive it. He tells us, “Ask and you shall receive,” but we could rephrase it as “Pray and persevere.” Prayer is so important for establishing a relationship with the Lord. Pray every day so you can ask God for what you truly need, and persevere so you may receive it. It’s that simple—but we often expect to receive without asking. And when we do receive, we think it’s because of how good we are or the good we believe we’ve done, forgetting that God gives us what we need because He loves us madly.

Marriage is the same way: ask your spouse, and because they love you, they will always give you the best. Let’s not forget—God unites us through the sacrament, and we have the grace to always give the best of ourselves.

Applied to Married Life

Ana: Andrew, how grateful we must be to God for our marriage and for everything He’s doing in us through the grace we’ve received since we began asking for what we truly need

Andrew: Yes, and in such a special way He’s granted it. Just look at the job I finally got after going through so much need and even thinking He wasn’t listening, despite how much I prayed.

Ana: And how well it suited you, and how much you’ve changed through that difficult trial. You went from despair and anger—thinking the Lord wasn’t hearing you—to gentleness and trust, realising that what you truly needed was a pause to reorder your life and redirect your way of thinking.

Andrew: The only thing I regret is how badly I made you feel, and I ask your forgiveness. I’m a new person now. I’ve understood that the Lord only wants the best for me and for us. It took me a long time to see it, but now I can only give thanks at all times.

Ana: How much the Lord loves us, and sometimes it’s hard for us to see it. It’s difficult to understand, but feeling so loved is amazing.

Andrew: We have to celebrate this every day, and today it’s my turn to give it all. Go rest for a while—I’m going to prepare a dinner that’ll make your mouth water.

Ana: I’m so grateful to the Lord for giving you to me, so I can be the happiest wife in the world. I love you.

Mother,

Thank you, Mother, for teaching us to ask for what we need, to seek with perseverance, and to knock always with the certainty of receiving an answer. Praise be to God.