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Living in Prayer. Reflection for married couples. Luke 18:1-8

Gospel of the Day

From the Gospel according to Luke 18:1-8

Jesus told his disciples a parable
about the necessity for them to pray always without becoming weary.
He said, “There was a judge in a certain town
who neither feared God nor respected any human being.
And a widow in that town used to come to him and say,
‘Render a just decision for me against my adversary.’
For a long time the judge was unwilling, but eventually he thought,
‘While it is true that I neither fear God nor respect any human being,
because this widow keeps bothering me
I shall deliver a just decision for her
lest she finally come and strike me.’”
The Lord said, “Pay attention to what the dishonest judge says.
Will not God then secure the rights of his chosen ones
who call out to him day and night?
Will he be slow to answer them?
I tell you, he will see to it that justice is done for them speedily.
But when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”

The Gospel of the Lord

Living in Prayer

This Gospel passage reveals God’s unshakable faithfulness towards all His children. Jesus teaches us that if even an unjust judge can listen to a persistent woman, how much more will our heavenly Father hear those who cry out to Him day and night!

The widow represents the soul that refuses to give up in the face of God’s silence. Had she given up after the first rejection, she would never have received justice. Her human perseverance becomes for us a symbol of the spiritual perseverance God expects from His children — a heart that keeps trusting, keeps asking, keeps loving.

And so He invites us to pray always without losing heart. He doesn’t tell us to pray a lot, but to pray always — to live in His presence, to keep our hearts united to His, and to abandon ourselves to Him.

As husbands and wives, He invites us to persevere and to live constantly in marital prayer — loving with perseverance, forgiving, welcoming, and giving of ourselves — allowing the love of God to act within us.

Brought down to married life:

Rachel: Ian, today during Mass, when I heard the words “Will He find this faith on earth?” I asked myself… what does that faith look like in us? Between work, the children, and being so tired all the time…

Ian: Rachel, maybe it looks exactly like this — when we try not to respond harshly to a bad mood, when we make a small gesture of affection even though we’re exhausted, when we embrace the cross together with love… that too is faith.

Rachel: Yes, but sometimes I feel like we don’t pray enough. I miss those long moments of prayer we had before the children were born.

Ian: I miss them too. But I think Jesus is teaching us to pray within our daily lives. Every time I love, serve, or forgive you, I’m united to His Heart — that’s our prayer.

Rachel: So… living in the Heart of Jesus means keeping our souls alight in the middle of ordinary life.

Ian: Exactly, Rachel!

Rachel: Then when Jesus returns, maybe He’ll find us washing dishes or changing nappies — but if we’re doing it united with Him, He will find that faith. What joy!

Mother,

You who pondered everything in your heart, help us to live in prayer.
Blessed and praised forever be the Lord!

A Wasted Life? Reflection for married couples. Luke 17:26-37

Gospel of the Day

A Gospel according to Luke 17:26-37

Jesus said to his disciples:
“As it was in the days of Noah,
so it will be in the days of the Son of Man;
they were eating and drinking,
marrying and giving in marriage up to the day
that Noah entered the ark,
and the flood came and destroyed them all.
Similarly, as it was in the days of Lot:
they were eating, drinking, buying,
selling, planting, building;
on the day when Lot left Sodom,
fire and brimstone rained from the sky to destroy them all.
So it will be on the day the Son of Man is revealed.
On that day, someone who is on the housetop
and whose belongings are in the house
must not go down to get them,
and likewise one in the field
must not return to what was left behind.
Remember the wife of Lot.
Whoever seeks to preserve his life will lose it,
but whoever loses it will save it.
I tell you, on that night there will be two people in one bed;
one will be taken, the other left.
And there will be two women grinding meal together;
one will be taken, the other left.”
They said to him in reply, “Where, Lord?”
He said to them, “Where the body is,
there also the vultures will gather.”

The Gospel of the Lord

A Wasted Life?

Today the Lord tells us that our personal and marital conversion is urgent.
He invites us to “lose our life.”

To lose one’s life means to give it — to offer up the gifts He has given me, freely and without measure, to those around me, and especially within my marriage, for this is my vocation.

Losing my life means saying “yes” to every circumstance He places before me in marriage: when I make my spouse a cup of coffee even though I’m tired, when I pick up what my husband or wife has left lying around, when I let go of my own opinions to live in deeper communion.

Does it cost me something? Then I’m on the right path — for the sacrifices that cost us are the ones that bear the greatest fruit of communion.
Our human vision is limited, but when we lift our eyes, we begin to see with His limitless vision — because Love has no limits, and Love without limits bears the fruit of eternal life. It gains eternal life.

This is how the Lord invites us to love today: give yourself to the very end.
And do not look back.

Brought Down to Married Life

Robert: Hello, Theresa! You know what? I’ve just received the invitation to the “Start of the Year” day for Marital Love Project in our diocese.
Theresa: Oh, Robert… but isn’t it enough that we already go to the catecheses and adorations during the year?
Robert: Well, I think it’s important that we start the year together — to know the direction we’re taking as a couple and within the community, and to keep deepening our vocation more and more.
Theresa: Hmm… I think that might be too much. We’re already so busy with everything else…
Robert: Alright, love — as you wish…
(After a while, with a much brighter tone)
Theresa: Robert, after praying about it, the Lord has shown me that there’s nothing more important than deepening our vocation — the very purpose for which He created us — even if it means letting go of other activities. So yes, let’s go to the “Start of the Year” day. Thank you, Robert, for helping me pause and see what truly matters most. Thank You, Lord, for such a wonderful husband.
Robert: And thank you, love, for being open to what I shared.

Mother,

Help us to renounce our own selves and to give our lives by saying “yes” in every circumstance we live.
Blessed and praised be the Lord!

He Reigns in Our Souls. Reflection for married couples. Luke 17:20-25

Gospel of the Day

From the Gospel according to Luke 17:20-25

Asked by the Pharisees when the Kingdom of God would come,
Jesus said in reply,
“The coming of the Kingdom of God cannot be observed,
and no one will announce, ‘Look, here it is,’ or, ‘There it is.’
For behold, the Kingdom of God is among you.”

Then he said to his disciples,
“The days will come when you will long to see
one of the days of the Son of Man, but you will not see it.
There will be those who will say to you,
‘Look, there he is,’ or ‘Look, here he is.’
Do not go off, do not run in pursuit.
For just as lightning flashes
and lights up the sky from one side to the other,
so will the Son of Man be in his day.
But first he must suffer greatly and be rejected by this generation.”

The Gospel of the Lord

He Reigns in Our Souls

Jesus tells us: “The kingdom of God is in your midst.” He also said, “I am with you always, to the very end of the age” and “I will send you my Spirit.”

Through baptism, the kingdom of Heaven is present in our soul by grace. Through the sacrament of marriage, the kingdom of Heaven is present in us, and we make it manifest in our home and in society, provided we remain in grace.

Every time spouses act in self-giving and welcome each other, we make the kingdom of Heaven present. What a marvel to be able to taste in advance what we will live in eternity!

Saint Teresa of Jesus wrote in The Way of Perfection:
“Oh, my daughters! Look at what your Spouse asks of you: that we ask Him to bring His kingdom. Know that this kingdom of God begins now in us; for when we love God, He reigns in our souls.”

Let us love God in our spouse, and we will live in the kingdom of Heaven.

Brought Down to Married Life

Martha: I really enjoy that we pray the Rosary together every day — and when the children join us, it’s wonderful.
Tony: Yes, it really is. Remember how we used to rush through it, squeezing it in whenever we could, without paying much attention to what we were saying?
Martha: Now it’s different, isn’t it? We pray more slowly, putting our hearts into the words and thinking of whom we’re speaking to. Many times I feel moved and filled with joy during those prayers. It feels like being in heaven.
Tony: I feel the same. It’s true we take longer now because we pray more slowly — haha! — but I look forward to our daily encounter with Mary, reliving the life of Jesus with her.

Mother,

Pray the Our Father with us, and teach us to say it with love and attention. What a wonderful prayer Jesus taught us!
Blessed be You!

Let Us Trust in Christ. Reflection for married couples. Luke 17:11-19

Gospel of the Day

From the Gospel according to Luke 17:11-19

As Jesus continued his journey to Jerusalem,
he traveled through Samaria and Galilee.
As he was entering a village, ten lepers met him.
They stood at a distance from him and raised their voice, saying,
“Jesus, Master! Have pity on us!”
And when he saw them, he said,
“Go show yourselves to the priests.”
As they were going they were cleansed.
And one of them, realizing he had been healed,
returned, glorifying God in a loud voice;
and he fell at the feet of Jesus and thanked him.
He was a Samaritan.
Jesus said in reply,
“Ten were cleansed, were they not?
Where are the other nine?
Has none but this foreigner returned to give thanks to God?”
Then he said to him, “Stand up and go;
your faith has saved you.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Let Us Trust in Christ

“Rise up; your faith has saved you.”

What did that Samaritan do for Jesus to say this to him? The obvious thing is that he returned, praising God and giving thanks.
But what about the less obvious part — what’s left unspoken? When the lepers called out to Jesus to have mercy on them, and He told them to go and show themselves to the priests, what might most of them have thought?
“Really? That’s not what we need — we want to be healed! And how can we go to the priests while we’re still lepers?”

Perhaps that Samaritan, however, trusted Jesus from the very first moment. It wasn’t his plan, nor what he expected Jesus to do — but since it was what Jesus had asked, he obeyed. He trusted completely, even without understanding. And that faith saved him.

Lord, I want to be happy in my marriage. I used to think that for that to happen, my spouse had to change. But I know You’re telling me: give yourself unconditionally, welcome your spouse as they are. Love them where it’s hardest. Learn to love.
Lord, I trust in You — I’m going for it!

Brought Down to Married Life

Andrew: Martha, you can’t keep having those outbursts with me.
Martha: Then pull yourself together! Look at everything I do, and the one thing I ask from you — you forget it. (She storms off, slamming the door.)

(After praying about what happened…)

Andrew: Martha, forgive me. I really am trying, but it’s hard. I know that being so wrapped up in my own things is selfish. The Lord keeps showing me that I need to put my own concerns second and truly focus on you.
Martha: And forgive me too. I fall into the temptation of only seeing what I do, of thinking badly of you. The Lord is teaching me that I must give of myself without measuring, that you have so many gifts, and that focusing on what I think you don’t do is not His will.
Andrew: Thank you so much, Martha. It’s amazing how Jesus keeps changing our hearts and the way we see each other. At first I thought we weren’t improving at all, but now I can see how this path of prayer, sacraments, and sacrifices is transforming us. I’ve still got a lot to work on, but I know that if we persevere, the Lord will do the rest.
Martha: How great is the Lord! How He draws us out of our selfishness — if only we let Him, if we truly trust in Him.

Mother,

Thank You so much for showing us the way. Help us to persevere, and to rise again each time we fall.
Blessed be the Lord!

Service in Secret. Reflection for married couples. Luke 17:7-10

Gospel of the Day

From the Gospel according to Luke 17:7-10

Jesus said to the Apostles:
“Who among you would say to your servant
who has just come in from plowing or tending sheep in the field,
‘Come here immediately and take your place at table’?
Would he not rather say to him,
‘Prepare something for me to eat.
Put on your apron and wait on me while I eat and drink.
You may eat and drink when I am finished’?
Is he grateful to that servant because he did what was commanded?
So should it be with you.
When you have done all you have been commanded, say,
‘We are unprofitable servants;
we have done what we were obliged to do.'”

The Gospel of the Lord

Service in Secret

Thank You, Lord, because once again You put us in our place and show us the path to true happiness.
Today we celebrate the feast of Saint Martin of Tours, whose life is a true example for us. He refused to take part in a final battle that would have earned him military distinction and promotion. Instead of seeking recognition and glory, he chose to become a soldier of Christ, leaving those “honours” to the world. Saint Martin knew what truly mattered.

How often do we feel entitled to a reward for something we’ve done, or seek gratification for simply doing our duty?
In this Gospel, the Lord makes it very clear that we were born to serve, not to be recognised.
Jesus Himself, being God, chose to lead by example — and there are countless moments in Scripture where He humbled Himself, taking the lowest place, placing Himself beneath all others.

As husbands and wives, we are called to do the same: to serve humbly, in silence, in hidden ways, giving all the glory to God.

Brought Down to Married Life

James: Good morning, my love! What did you think of the coffee this morning? I tried a new way of making it.
Margaret: Now that you mention it, it was delicious! I’m really sorry, James — I realise I often forget to thank you for all the little loving things you do for me and for our family.
James: Better that way, Margaret. If you praised me for everything, my pride would shoot through the roof! I’d rather those “rewards” stay tucked away as little treasures in Heaven.
Margaret: Well, I have to admit, I sometimes get a bit upset when no one notices or appreciates what I do for you or for the children — I even end up getting cross. But the Lord keeps showing me that, in those moments, I’m really just seeking myself and not Him. When I stop thinking about me and offer that small act of service to Jesus in silence, something changes — I feel closer to Him, and a deep joy fills my heart.
James: That’s true… I feel the same. What a difference there is between doing things for ourselves and doing them for the Lord, through our spouse. I can’t stop thanking the Lord for showing us once again the way to true happiness.

Mother,

Help us to become small and unimportant,
so that the Lord may shine instead of us.
May the Lord be blessed forever!