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Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary.Reflection for marriages Luke 2:41-51

From the Gospel according to Luke 2:41-51

His parents went to Jerusalem every year at the Feast of the Passover.  And when He was twelve years old, they went up to Jerusalem according to the custom of the feast.  When they had finished the days, as they returned, the Boy Jesus lingered behind in Jerusalem. And Joseph and His mother did not know it;  but supposing Him to have been in the company, they went a day’s journey, and sought Him among their relatives and acquaintances. So when they did not find Him, they returned to Jerusalem, seeking Him.  Now so it was that after three days they found Him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, both listening to them and asking them questions.  And all who heard Him were astonished at His understanding and answers.  So when they saw Him, they were amazed; and His mother said to Him, “Son, why have You done this to us? Look, Your father and I have sought You anxiously.”
And He said to them, “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?” But they did not understand the statement which He spoke to them.
Then He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was subject to them, but His mother kept all these things in her heart.

Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary

When we read this Gospel passage, it’s clear that Joseph and Mary never blamed each other for losing Jesus. Even in their worry, they searched for Him together. Our children—and everyone around us—need to see us united as a couple, living out God’s will. More than words, they learn from the way we live our faith.

Today we remember the Immaculate Heart of Mary. She was humble and small in the eyes of the world, but the greatest of all because she became the Mother of God. We’re called to become Her servants, just as She was a servant of the Lord. Like her, we should always seek God’s will, no matter the situation.

As married couples, we can serve each other in love. Not to push our own opinions, but to grow in humility—trusting that the Holy Spirit works through both of us. By doing this, we build true unity. And what better way to do that than by giving our hearts and our marriage to Mary?

Mary was the first to carry Jesus within her. She received Him fully into her body and heart, which makes her the perfect guide for us. St. Louis de Montfort said in his True Devotion to Mary that Mary is the easiest, shortest, and surest path to Jesus. That’s why we invite you to consecrate yourselves to her—to let go and trust in her, so she can lead you closer to Christ.

Applyed to Married Life:

Dan: I was thinking we could take a trip to the beach this weekend. How does that sound?
Mary: (She thinks: we had actually planned a mountain hike because of the heat…) That sounds like a great idea, love! I’ll get the swimsuits and towels ready.
Dan: I don’t know if it’s just me, but lately it seems like you agree with me on everything. We used to argue over what to do…
Mary: You’re right, Dani. A month ago, I made my consecration to the Virgin Mary, and I’m trying to live like she would. Before I respond or make a decision, I pray and ask what she might do. It’s becoming easier, and I feel more at peace.
Dan: I’ve tried it before, but I find it hard to stay committed. I lose motivation.
Mary: What if we do the consecration together?
Dan: But you already did it. Would you really do it again?
Mary: Of course! First, because we should renew our consecration every day. And second, doing it with you would be so meaningful—it would give us more time to pray together.

Mother Mary,

Help us to become your faithful servants, so that we may have a heart like yours— a heart that treasure and pray over the plans God has for our marriage.

Shepherd and Nourishment.Reflection for marriages. Matthew 7 : 21-29

GOSPEL

From the Gospel according to Matthew 7:21-29

Jesus said to his disciples:”Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’will enter the Kingdom of heaven,but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven.Many will say to me on that day,’Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name?Did we not drive out demons in your name?Did we not do mighty deeds in your name?’Then I will declare to them solemnly,’I never knew you. Depart from me, you evildoers.’
“Everyone who listens to these words of mine and acts on themwill be like a wise man who built his house on rock.
The rain fell, the floods came,and the winds blew and buffeted the house.But it did not collapse; it had been set solidly on rock.And everyone who listens to these words of minebut does not act on themwill be like a fool who built his house on sand.The rain fell, the floods came,and the winds blew and buffeted the house.And it collapsed and was completely ruined.”
When Jesus finished these words,the crowds were astonished at his teaching,for he taught them as one having authority,and not as their scribes.

The Gospel of the Lord

Shepherd and Nourishment

As a wife/husband,  I often find it hard to truly live out Jesus’ words. In practice, I end up putting myself at the center—interpreting His message in my own way and telling my husband/wife what he or she should or shouldn’t do “in Jesus’ name.” It’s a subtle difference, but one that can deeply damage our marriage.

Sometimes I fall into thinking that because I follow Jesus as my Shepherd, I know what’s best for my family. But I forget that Jesus is not only a guide—He’s also our nourishment. It’s His presence that makes His word grow in my heart and allows Him to care for my husband/wife through me.

Instead of clinging to our own convictions, let’s open our hearts to Him in prayer. Let Him truly see and know us.

Applied to married Life :

Laura: (gazing at her husband with affection) While I was praying today, Jesus placed something really clear in my heart… I realize that sometimes I act like I’m in charge of everything in our family, like I know exactly what God wants you to do.

Peter(taken aback):Does that bother you?

Laura: It’s not that it bothers me… but I see now that instead of giving God space to speak to you, I end up speaking for Him—like I know His will better than you do.

Peter (thoughtfully): I’ve felt that too. Honestly, sometimes your words sound more like orders than support. But I do believe you’re trying to help, and I try to see your heart in it.

Laura: I’m sorry. I’m learning that following Jesus isn’t about trying to lead you—it’s about letting Him change me. My prayers shouldn’t just be about asking things for you, but about letting Jesus nourish me so He can work through me.

Peter: I love that… thinking of Jesus not just as our Shepherd, but also as our daily nourishment. If we both let Him feed us, maybe He’ll help us grow together.

Laura (holding his hand): Want to pray together? Not to ask for anything—just to listen?

Peter:  I’d love that. Let’s make Him our focus, not our expectations.

Mary,

You who carried our Savior within you, teach us how to let His word take root in us. Thank you for loving us so deeply.

The Tree of the Heart. Reflection for marriages. Matthew 7: 15-20

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Matthew7:15-20

Jesus said to his disciples:“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing,but underneath are ravenous wolves.By their fruits you will know them.Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?Just so, every good tree bears good fruit,and a rotten tree bears bad fruit.A good tree cannot bear bad fruit,nor can a rotten tree bear good fruit.Every tree that does not bear good fruit will be cut downand thrown into the fire.So by their fruits you will know them.”

The Gospel of the Lord

The Tree of the Heart

Jesus teaches us that a healthy tree produces good fruit, while a rotten tree gives bad fruit. So how is my heart? Not just my surface emotions, but deep inside—what part of me is wounded? Because that’s what prevents me from bearing good fruit.

Lord, today You remind me how important it is to be aware and not fooled by appearances. It’s not my husband’s actions, the circumstances, or outside difficulties that stop me from producing good fruit—it’s my own wounded heart.

What am I doing about it? Am I turning to Your grace, working with the Holy Spirit to heal my heart so I can bear good fruit? Am I supporting my husband in healing the broken parts of his heart? You, Lord, love us deeply and want our marriage to overflow with good fruit. You’re warning us not to be deceived and to look honestly at what flows from our hearts.

I want to do all I can to heal my heart and help my husband heal his too—so that our marriage will grow and flourish.

Applied to marriage Life:

(Sandra remembers a past moment with her mother-in-law and speaks with Hector)

Sandra: Love, I need your support. I keep thinking about what your mom said, and it’s making me upset. I feel like I should have said something back…

Hector: Sweetheart, it’s just a temptation. I’m so proud of you. I saw how hard it was for you to stay quiet, and I know how much effort you make to love and accept my mom.

Sandra: I know, but still…

Hector: Why bring it up again? That’s in God’s hands now. I know there’s a wound in your heart, but with God’s grace, it will heal and bear beautiful fruit.

Sandra: Thank you so much for supporting me. I don’t know what I’d do without you. And I’m sorry for dwelling on the past again!

Mother Mary,

Teach us to be alert and caring, just like you always were. Blessed are you forever!

Let Yourself Be Cared For. Reflection for marriages: Matthew 6:24-34

From the Gospel according to Matthew 6:24-34

Jesus said to his disciples:
“No one can serve two masters.
He will either hate one and love the other,
or be devoted to one and despise the other.
You cannot serve God and mammon.

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life,
what you will eat or drink,
or about your body, what you will wear.
Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?
Look at the birds in the sky;
they do not sow or reap, they gather nothing into barns,
yet your heavenly Father feeds them.
Are not you more important than they?
Can any of you by worrying add a single moment to your life-span?
Why are you anxious about clothes?
Learn from the way the wild flowers grow.
They do not work or spin.
But I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor
was clothed like one of them.
If God so clothes the grass of the field,
which grows today and is thrown into the oven tomorrow,
will he not much more provide for you, O you of little faith?
So do not worry and say, ‘What are we to eat?’
or ‘What are we to drink?’ or ‘What are we to wear?’
All these things the pagans seek.
Your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.
But seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness,
and all these things will be given you besides.
Do not worry about tomorrow; tomorrow will take care of itself.
Sufficient for a day is its own evil.”

Let Yourself Be Cared For

With infinite tenderness, You speak to us of the Father’s care: how He feeds the little birds of the sky. And You ask us: if He takes care of them, how could He not take care of us, who are worth infinitely more?

And yet, we live as if we were orphans. We wear ourselves out, inside and out, trying to secure material goods in which we place our trust, our security, and our hope. We want to have everything under control, and in doing so, we do not allow God to be God, or to be Father. He desires to care for us, to feed us, to clothe us, and to provide for us in everything.

My Jesus, Your Heart burns to lead us to the Truth and free us from the lies of the devil, lies into which we so often fall. We believe we are alone, abandoned in the world, as if everything depended solely on us. We think, “If I don’t take care of myself, who will?” And thus, we forget that we are children, called to live with full trust in our Heavenly Father, who never leaves us.

Applied to Married Life:

Rocío: Juanfran! Dinner’s ready!

Juanfran (from his office): Let me finish this and I’ll be right up.

Rocío: (ten minutes later) Juanfran!

Juanfran: (enters the kitchen) Rocío, I was going over the finances and it looks like we might not make it through the month. I’m a bit overwhelmed.

Rocío: I love how you take care of the family and how responsible you are, how you give yourself for us. Come on, have dinner, and then we’ll pray. You’ll see how the Lord gives you His Peace.

(After dinner, during couple prayer)

Juanfran: My goodness, Rocío, it feels like today’s Gospel was written just for us. Incredible! I felt so much peace seeing that the Lord takes care of us, feeds us, clothes us, and gives us drink. What an amazing Father we have!

Rocío: Of course, Juanfran. The Lord has always fed us, given us drink, clothed us. We’ve never lacked anything. And remember, when we’ve gone through hard times, that’s when we’ve been the most united. Don’t you realize we already have what’s most important?

Juanfran: You’re right, Rocío. You know since we joined Proyecto, I’ve grown a lot… but this month I don’t know what happened. Lord, I’m not afraid—You take care of us, You will sustain us.

Rocío: Oh, my love, I’m so proud of you!

Juanfran: Lord, You served only Your Father, doing His Will. You carried no bag, no money. Humble. Simple. And You are God. I offer You my work—do with it whatever You will.

Rocío: Thank You, Lord, for giving me a husband so beautiful inside and out.

Mother,

May we never serve money, but always serve God. May we always abandon ourselves into His Hands with trust. Protect us from greed. From avarice. Oh Blessed Mother, pour out Your graces upon us! Praised be the Lord.

“Where Your Treasure Is” Reflection for marriages: Matthew 6:19-23

From the Gospel according to Matthew
6:19-23

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth,
where moth and decay destroy, and thieves break in and steal.
But store up treasures in heaven,
where neither moth nor decay destroys, nor thieves break in and steal.
For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be.

“The lamp of the body is the eye.
If your eye is sound, your whole body will be filled with light;
but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be in darkness.
And if the light in you is darkness, how great will the darkness be.”

“Where Your Treasure Is”

Where we place our heart and direct all our efforts to achieve and maintain it is where we value most. The world offers treasures that, once attained, turn to dust, and we must seek others. They are like neon lights, the shine of riches, the fleeting and empty joy that lasts only a few hours, the well-being that does not bring the peace to our heart looks for. And so, life becomes a directionless and aimless existence.

But You, Lord, show us where the only thing that fills our hearts is: Your heart.

The path to reach this treasure is in my marriage, the chest that You fill with pearls every time I renounce my own criteria and joyfully accept what my husband/wife says, even when it’s the opposite of what I think. Rubies with every sacrifice I make for my spouse. And in the end, I discover that the greatest treasure is being in Your Heart.

So, help us not to separate from Your Heart, that we may always be alert so we don’t lose this great treasure. We don’t want our hearts to be anywhere else but in You, and You in us.

Relating to Married Life:

Juan: Alicia, in prayer, the Lord has shown me the value of all these years of dedication and sacrifice that you’ve made with me. All these years suffering in silence and telling the Lord how hard it was to carry everything — the house, the kids, and worst of all, my absences due to work — but you gave it all up for Love of Him and me.

Alicia: Yes, those were hard years when I sometimes felt alone, carrying everything. But what has the Lord shown you in prayer?

Juan: Well, the Lord showed me a huge chest, filled with little jewels. When I looked at them, memories came to mind of times I saw you make all those sacrifices and how you always looked to the Lord. Then I saw how your heart, in the form of a precious jewel, joined with the Heart of Jesus, which was more beautiful than I’d ever seen. I was astonished and deeply in love with Him. I then understood that your heart is in His, because you’ve done it all for Love of Him and me. Thank you, my wife, for loving me in a way that only He could have taught you. Thank you, Lord, for placing this treasure by my side.

Alicia: Thanks be to the Lord for giving me all those opportunities to grow in His love and helping me discover His Heart through yours, my husband. Through that, I’ve fallen more in love with you, and by loving you more, I’ve fallen more in love with Him, discovering that treasure He had prepared for me, for us: His Heart.

Mother,

Do not let us stray from Your Son, protect us from the danger of temptations, and always lead us by Your hand toward Him. Thank you, Mother!