Monthly Archives: May 2025

The Two Keys. Reflection for marriages. Luke 1:39-56

From the Gospel according to Luke. Lk 1:39-56

Mary set out and traveled to the hill country in haste to a town of Judah, where she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and said, “Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled.”
And Mary said: “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has looked with favor on his lowly servant.
From this day all generations will call me blessed: the Almighty has done great things for me, and holy is his Name.
He has mercy on those who fear him in every generation. He has shown the strength of his arm, he has scattered the proud in their conceit. He has cast down the mighty from their thrones, and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty.
He has come to the help of his servant Israel for he has remembered his promise of mercy, the promise he made to our fathers, to Abraham and his children for ever.”
Mary remained with her about three months and then returned to her home.

The Gospel of the Lord

 
The Two Keys

This Gospel reveals Mary’s Heart, a Heart that knows what it means to live through humiliation, and knows how much that pleases God. It’s a way to make reparation for the pride that fills the world. In the Magnificat, she highlights humility. God brings down the powerful and lifts up the humble. That’s how she sums up what God does. And also, how we should live. Humility and mercy. She says both twice. Humility and mercy. Let’s stick with those two keys.

Applied to Married Life:

Frank: Do you think one day we’ll become perfect and never make a mistake again? Then we could go straight to Heaven. I long for that so much!
Anna: I believe Heaven is beyond our reach by our own efforts. If you ever see yourself as perfect, that’s a bad sign. That’s the trap of pride. We try to appear better than we truly are. But the only path to Heaven is through our humility and God’s mercy. Humility is the foundation for reaching perfection, which is love. The more humble we are, the more we allow the Holy Spirit to work in us, and He is the one who makes saints.
Frank: That’s why it says: “He has done mighty deeds with His arm; He has cast down the mighty from their thrones and lifted up the humble.”

Mother,

How much you teach us through the Magnificat, which you once gave us as a task. We rejoice on this day as we remember your visit to Elizabeth. We love you and we admire you!

Grace to Endure. Reflection for marriages. John 16:20-23

From the Gospel according to John. Jn, 16:20-23

Jesus said to his disciples: “Amen, amen, I say to you, you will weep and mourn, while the world rejoices; you will grieve, but your grief will become joy. When a woman is in labor, she is in anguish because her hour has arrived; but when she has given birth to a child, she no longer remembers the pain because of her joy that a child has been born into the world. So you also are now in anguish. But I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you. On that day you will not question me about anything.
Amen, amen, I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Grace to Endure

Lord, I have seen You coming in that second and final coming. Then our hearts will rejoice, and no one will take away our joy. However, do we really need to wait for that moment for no one to be able to take our joy away? If that were the case, it would mean that I still have doubts about Your return at the end of time. Because if I am certain of it, why would I need to wait for that hour? I am already joyful, Lord, and no one can take away my joy.

Applied to Married Life:

Martha: Why do you depend so much on me to be joyful? If I’m doing well, great but if not, you fall apart, and that doesn’t help at all.

Peter: I’d like to say that if you’re well, I’m well. But the truth is, deep down, if you’re not well, it bothers me not to feel well myself. So yes, you’re right. I should be focused on what we’re called to become, not just on how things are at the moment.

Martha: That would really help me, honestly. But I know I don’t make it easy for you sometimes.

Peter: With Christ’s love between us, I have the grace to endure those moments. I trust He’ll help me next time. I’ll stop thinking about myself and focus on His love, which is stronger than death.

Martha: Thank you, dear. God bless you.

Mother,

We have enough faith to be joyful always. May trials not take our joy away. Praise be to the Lord who has risen.

Even When We Don’t Understand. Reflection for marriages. John 16:16-20

From the Gospel according to John 16:16-20

Jesus said to his disciples: “A little while and you will no longer see me, and again a little while later and you will see me.” So some of his disciples said to one another, “What does this mean that he is saying to us, ‘A little while and you will not see me, and again a little while and you will see me,’ and ‘Because I am going to the Father’?” So they said, “What is this ‘little while’ of which he speaks? We do not know what he means.” Jesus knew that they wanted to ask him, so he said to them, “Are you discussing with one another what I said, ‘A little while and you will not see me, and again a little while and you will see me’? Amen, amen, I say to you, you will weep and mourn, while the world rejoices; you will grieve, but your grief will become joy.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Even When We Don’t Understand

The truth is, there were times when Jesus said things that left the disciples deep in mystery. And even when He explained them, the explanation didn’t always make things much clearer.

However, we’re sure that when His death and Resurrection took place, they finally understood what Jesus had told them.

On the Lord’s path, there are many such moments—times when we don’t understand anything. And that’s okay. We’ll understand later. It’s not a problem. There is no faith without mystery, and we walk guided by the light of faith.

Applied to Married Life:

Laura: There were times when we didn’t understand what was happening in our marriage, and that made us question it.

Sam: It’s when we don’t understand that our faith is really tested.

Laura: It’s also true that we weren’t aware that marriage is a vocation.

Sam: Or that it’s a gift from God of immeasurable depth.

Laura: Now that we understand this, even when we go through moments of mystery, we live them with faith in the love of Christ who is present among us.

Mother,

In our moments of not understanding, may we have faith so that our sadness may turn into joy. Our spirit rejoices in God our Savior. May He be praised forever.

To Receive and to Transmit. Reflection for marriages. John 16:12-15

From the Gospel according to John 16:12-15

Jesus said to his disciples: “I have much more to tell you, but you cannot bear it now. But when he comes, the Spirit of truth, he will guide you to all truth. He will not speak on his own, but he will speak what he hears, and will declare to you the things that are coming. He will glorify me, because he will take from what is mine and declare it to you. Everything that the Father has is mine; for this reason I told you that he will take from what is mine and declare it to you.”

The Gospel of the Lord

To Receive and to Transmit

Among the Persons of the Holy Trinity, the truth is passed on by being given from one to another: the Father gives it to the Son, and the Son to the Holy Spirit, who then brings it to our understanding.
And we are called to receive it from others to whom the Holy Spirit has already transmitted it. My husband is a minister of God’s grace, and I should be attentive to what the Spirit is saying to him and what God wants to tell me through him.

Applied to Married Life:

Carmel: I would ask that, before giving your opinion, you discern each matter before the Lord, so that He may speak to us through you.

David: You’re right. I shouldn’t come up with decisions or rules on my own. We’re here to discover the truth that comes from the Holy Spirit, not to build our own version of it. Thank you for the advice. I believe it comes from the Holy Spirit, and I will take it as such.

Carmel: If you do it that way, I promise to take your proposals seriously, because I will consider them worthy of deep discernment.

Mother,

The Holy Spirit desires to transmit all truth to us. May we be open to listening to Him and to passing on the truth we receive from Him. May He be praised forever.

It is justice. Reflection for marriages. John 16:5-11

From the Gospel according to John 16:5-11

Jesus said to his disciples: “Now I am going to the one who sent me, and not one of you asks me, ‘Where are you going?’ But because I told you this, grief has filled your hearts. But I tell you the truth, it is better for you that I go. For if I do not go, the Advocate will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you. And when he comes he will convict the world in regard to sin and righteousness and condemnation: sin, because they do not believe in me; righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you will no longer see me; condemnation, because the ruler of this world has been condemned.”

 

The Gospel of the Lord

 

It is justice.

 

You understand, Lord, that it saddens us to see You go to the Father, but it is fair that You do so, for You already spent 33 years of humility and service to mankind to bring us truth and salvation. It would not be fair to ask for more.
Thank You, Lord, for everything. It fills me with joy to see You in Heaven, seated at the right hand of the Father as King of all creation. A heartfelt thank You. 

Applied to Married Life:

 

Lola: How I long to see You, Jesus, but You left us for an even greater good: to send us the Holy Spirit, who guides us into the deep truth of the heart.

Luis: He enlightens our wounds, our disorder; He purifies us with His light and leads us to God.

Lola: Without the Spirit, we are at the mercy of the world, trapped in empty pleasures that pull us away from the divine and ultimately destroy us.

Luis: Thank You, Lord, for the immense gift of the Holy Spirit.

 

Mother,

 

Just thinking about how valuable it would be to have Jesus among us helps us begin to understand the magnitude of the gift of the Holy Spirit. Praised be the Lord who has sent Him to us.