Our Liberation. Reflection for married couples: Luke 21:20-28

Gospel

‘Jerusalem will be trampled underfoot by the Gentiles, until the times of the Gentiles are fulfilled.’
Luke 21:20-28

At that time: Jesus said to his disciples, ‘When you see Jerusalem surrounded by armies, then know that its desolation has come near. Then let those who are in Judea flee to the mountains, and let those who are inside the city depart, and let not those who are out in the country enter it, for these are days of vengeance, to fulfil all that is written. Alas for women who are pregnant and for those who are nursing infants in those days! For there will be great distress upon the earth and wrath against this people. They will fall by the edge of the sword and be led captive among all nations, and Jerusalem will be trampled underfoot by the Gentiles, until the times of the Gentiles are fulfilled.
  ‘And there will be signs in sun and moon and stars, and on the earth distress of nations in perplexity because of the roaring of the sea and the waves, people fainting with fear and with foreboding of what is coming on the world. For the powers of the heavens will be shaken. And then they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. Now when these things begin to take place, straighten up and raise your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Our Liberation

Today’s Gospel tells us that people will faint with fear and anxiety at what is coming upon the world. At the Second Coming of Jesus, the old man, clinging to worldly securities, will tremble as all those illusions collapse. But the new man, who lives by the Spirit, will lift his head, for he will be freed from the slavery of sin. Then we shall see God face to face.
The Kingdom of God is already here—in a heart living in grace, and in a marriage where Christ is allowed to dwell. But for Him to reign in us, our hearts must be purified; self-love must die so that we may welcome and give ourselves to our spouse.
We can choose to live in the joy of the Kingdom—the joy of the children of God—or to live in the fear that belongs to the children of the world.
Shall we choose the One who has already conquered?

Applied to Married Life

Claire: James, I’m really worried. Our son Andrew isn’t well; he’s started undergoing medical tests.
James: I understand you—I’m worried too. But you know something? Andrew is a beloved son of God. Jesus tells us that even the hairs of our head are counted. Nothing escapes Him. Everything—even suffering—becomes, with Him, a path to a greater good. When we carry the cross with Christ, we unite ourselves to Him.
Claire: Yes, I know the Lord never abandons us, and that to carry this cross I need to trust and surrender… but it’s hard.
James: Then let’s ask the Lord to give you the grace of holy abandonment. May He sustain us, and, if it is His will, restore Andrew’s health. From the depths of our hearts let us say: Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, I trust in You. In that trust, He frees us from fear.

Mother,

Through your fiat Jesus came into the world to save us, even amidst hardship. Teach us to trust as you did, to wait for Him with joy, free from fear, longing for the day we shall see Him in full. Blessed be our Saviour.

Listen and Persevere. Reflection for married couples.

Gospel

‘You will be hated by all for the sake of my name. But not a hair of your head will perish.’
Luke 21:12-19

At that time: Jesus said to his disciples, ‘They will lay their hands on you and persecute you, delivering you up to the synagogues and prisons, and you will be brought before kings and governors for my name’s sake. This will be your opportunity to bear witness. Settle it, therefore, in your minds, not to meditate beforehand how to answer, for I will give you a mouth and wisdom, which none of your adversaries will be able to withstand or contradict. You will be delivered up even by parents and brothers and sisters, and relatives and friends, and some of you they will put to death. You will be hated by all for my name’s sake. But not a hair of your head will perish. By your endurance you will gain your lives.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Listen and Persevere

My dear Lord, thank you for loving me so much and for giving me so much light.
Jesus, you warn us that suffering will come—and plenty of it. Yet you tell us not to be afraid, for you will give us the wisdom to face it and to bear witness to your love in every circumstance. With you, I have nothing to fear. I should not fear those who can harm my body, but those who can harm my soul. All I must do is persevere in following you and trust in you, even when I do not understand. You will take care of the rest.
Jesus, help me truly listen to you—every time. May I never seek my own will, but only yours. For there lies salvation: with you, who are Love, the Way, the Truth and the Life. Thank you, my good Jesus.

Applied to Married Life

Miriam: I’m really suffering with my sister. She just doesn’t understand what I’m doing; she criticises me in front of everyone… I don’t know what to do anymore.
Joseph: Miriam, you’re doing wonderfully. The Lord is guiding you—it’s so clear how close you are to Him. Think of how you used to react before: getting angry, arguing with her… Now the peace you’re giving as a witness to your family is remarkable.
Miriam: Thank you for saying that. The truth is that, although it hurts, I am at peace. It must be the peace of Jesus, because humanly it doesn’t make much sense. But I’m trying to act as He would. I don’t always know exactly what to do, but I know for sure that I shouldn’t fall into the trap of getting angry or attacking back. And when I don’t know what to say, I’ve learnt it’s better to stay silent, offer it to the Lord, and let Him take care of it.
Joseph: And He will, without a doubt. This path of prayer, sacraments and little sacrifices is extraordinary. We must say “yes” every day and persevere, but there’s nothing like letting the Lord take charge of our lives.
Miriam: Without clinging to Him, it’s impossible. But when we stay very, very close to Him… He does the work.

Mother,

Be the one who guides me. May I disappear so that you may lead me straight to your Son.
Praise be to God!

Fidelity and Trust. Reflection for married couples. Luke 21:5-11

Gospel

‘There will not be left here one stone upon another.’

Luke 21:5-11

At that time: While some were speaking of the Temple, how it was adorned with noble stones and offerings, Jesus said, ‘As for these things that you see, the days will come when there will not be left here one stone upon another that will not be thrown down.’ And they asked him, ‘Teacher, when will these things be, and what will be the sign when these things are about to take place?’ And he said, ‘See that you are not led astray. For many will come in my name, saying, “I am he!” and, “The time is at hand!” Do not go after them. And when you hear of wars and tumults, do not be terrified, for these things must first take place, but the end will not be at once.’
  Then he said to them, ‘Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be great earthquakes, and in various places famines and pestilences. And there will be terrors and great signs from heaven.’

The Gospel of the Lord

 

Fidelity and Trust

Through this Gospel, Jesus urges us to set our gaze on what truly matters: placing all our trust in Him, while remaining vigilant against temptations and the deceptions of false prophets.
Today, we want our children to learn several languages, to acquire endless professional skills, to study abroad… and all of that is good in itself. But we should ask ourselves: Are we educating them for the Kingdom of God—the only thing that is truly important?
And what about us, as spouses? Is our life adorned with many “precious stones and votive offerings”? Perhaps we place our confidence above all in our social circles, in keeping busy with endless plans, in material comforts, or in being seen as “the ones to follow”. But do these things really draw us closer to God, or do they simply inflate our vanity and tie us to earthly concerns?
We must remain faithful to our vocation: holiness within marriage. We must strive daily for it and help other couples discover the beauty of this call, so they do not settle for superficialities. Once we are clear about our goal, everything else will fall into its proper place.
Our goal is Heaven.
Applied to Married Life

Martha: Darling, have you noticed how stylish Lily always looks?
Albert: To be honest, I much prefer seeing how beautiful you are—inside, and yes, on the outside too. You have a beauty no treatment or make-up could ever produce. All those hours you give to the Lord, the love you pour into everything you do for Him… it radiates from you. It’s a light no one can manufacture by thinking only of themselves.
Martha: It’s true that since I’ve tried to do everything as Our Lady would—my work, the cooking, caring for the children, being with you—I’ve discovered a happiness that I know isn’t mine. It’s a gift from the Lord.
Albert: If I’m honest, there were times I wished you’d make a little more effort with your appearance… but the Lord is helping me to detach from material things and to see with His eyes, with a more supernatural gaze. It has turned out to be a real blessing; it’s helping me focus more on my interior life too.
Martha: I’ve told you more than once—I can really see how you’re changing since you’ve been taking your prayer life more seriously. The other day, Samuel told me he sees you differently: happier, calmer. Let’s ask the Lord to keep us faithful to what truly matters.

Mother,

We long to follow in your footsteps, to discern what really matters, and to remain firmly on the path of holiness. Glory to the Lord who makes it possible!

Giving everything. Reflection for married couples. Luke 21:1-4

Gospel

‘He saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins.’
Luke 21:1-4

At that time: Jesus looked up and saw the rich putting their gifts into the offering box, and he saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins. And he said, ‘Truly, I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Giving Everything

The Lord never looks at the amount we give, but at the quality of the heart with which it is offered. The poor widow gave very little in the eyes of the world, but in God’s eyes it was an immense gift—because she gave what she had, not what she could spare.
This is precisely what God asks of us in marriage: true love is not measured by grand, occasional gestures, but by the humble, sincere, daily giving of ourselves.
In married life, one of the two may often feel like that widow—short on time, energy, and strength, weighed down by worries and responsibilities. And yet, when even in that state one offers a genuine smile, a kind word, a gesture of tenderness, or a small act of service, that “tiny offering” becomes something infinitely valuable. It is giving from poverty, not from abundance.
There are also times when we keep certain “reserves”: time we don’t share, emotions we hide, chores we leave to the other, inner spaces we refuse to open. Jesus reminds us that conjugal love grows when we learn to give not only what costs us nothing, but what truly means something to us. That kind of giving is fruitful.
In marriage, as in this Gospel, the small, faithful gestures of everyday love are worth far more than a hundred occasional displays of affection. For greatness in married life lies not in the quantity of what we give, but in the wholeness of the heart with which we give it.

Applied to Married Life

Mary: I was reading about the widow who gave her two small coins, and I thought, “That’s me—coming home with two drops of energy left in the tank!”
James: Well, I receive those two drops like they’re liquid gold—better than a double espresso.
Mary: Don’t be so sure… sometimes I’m so tired that all I can manage is half a smile and an “I’ll talk to you later.” That’s my version of the two coins.
James: And I’m still delighted, because that half-smile is a total investment—with no return expected.
Mary: And what about you? There are days when your contribution to our marriage is… shall we say… “symbolic.”
James: Hey now! My two coins include washing one plate, telling you you’re beautiful, and not complaining when I see the credit card bill. That’s heroic love right there.
Mary: So we’re basically the widow from the Gospel—just in the modern, married version: giving the little we have each day.
James: Exactly. And with our two daily coins, we’ll end up rich… even if only in patience!

Mother,

Mary, teach us to offer our “two small coins” each day within our marriage. Turn our small daily offerings into a great and faithful love.
Blessed be Our Lord and Our Mother.

Resurrected spouses. Reflection for married couples. Luke 20:27-40

Gospel of the day

From the Gospel accoording to Luke 20:27-40

Some Sadducees, those who deny that there is a resurrection,
came forward and put this question to Jesus, saying,
“Teacher, Moses wrote for us,
If someone’s brother dies leaving a wife but no child,
his brother must take the wife
and raise up descendants for his brother.
Now there were seven brothers;
the first married a woman but died childless.
Then the second and the third married her,
and likewise all the seven died childless.
Finally the woman also died.
Now at the resurrection whose wife will that woman be?
For all seven had been married to her.”
Jesus said to them,
“The children of this age marry and remarry;
but those who are deemed worthy to attain to the coming age
and to the resurrection of the dead
neither marry nor are given in marriage.
They can no longer die,
for they are like angels;
and they are the children of God
because they are the ones who will rise.
That the dead will rise
even Moses made known in the passage about the bush,
when he called ‘Lord’
the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob;
and he is not God of the dead, but of the living,
for to him all are alive.”
Some of the scribes said in reply,
“Teacher, you have answered well.”
And they no longer dared to ask him anything.

Resurrected spouses

Today Jesus invites us to lift our gaze and recognise who we are and what we are called to. We are children of God, conceived in the Father’s heart so that we may return to Him and live eternally. Yet we allow ourselves to become entangled in worldly reasoning, through which the devil makes us doubt the goodness of God’s law, leading us away from Him.
The Sadducees did not believe in the resurrection, and Jesus told them that the Lord is a God of the living, not of the dead. Today, much of the world does not believe in the indissolubility of marriage, but just as He said to the Pharisees, Jesus tells us that man and woman are made to be one flesh, and that what God has joined, no human being must divide. When, out of love for my spouse, I welcome him exactly as he is, and I give myself fully exactly as I am, we can already begin to taste in this life a small portion of the happiness Jesus promises us in the resurrection. We are witnesses to so many marriages that, upon discovering the beauty and greatness of marriage as God intended it, have been resurrected by the Lord, that we can no longer doubt His Word.
Spouses, let us live marriage as God designed it, and we will discover how joy floods our lives.

Brought Down to Married Life

Jonathan: Emma, will you share with me what’s going on? For days now, even when I tell you I disagree with something you say, you don’t argue about anything, and you always seem cheerful. I like it—but I’m surprised. I can’t quite figure out what’s happening.
Emma: Do you remember how, at the Marital Love Project retreat, they told us that the change in our marriage would begin with each of us changing individually? Well, I’m trying to put that into practice in my life.
Jonathan: And what are you doing exactly?
Emma: I’m trying to go to Mass every day and to go to confession frequently. I try to do things the way you like them, to please you. And I try to see in everything you say the will of God for us. That’s why I don’t argue when you think differently from me—I understand it as simply another way of looking at things. I take it to prayer, and then I try to do as you suggest.
Jonathan: Even if it’s not the way you see it?
Emma: Well, Jonathan, I imagine that when you say something, it’s not to make things difficult for me, but because you truly believe it’s best for our family. It’s not about imposing my reasons, but about welcoming yours and making them my own. That way, they become ours.
Jonathan: And is that why you’re so happy?
Emma: The truth is, I have a joy I don’t remember ever having before. I think it must be the Lord’s joy.
Jonathan: Then I want that joy too. Will you help me find it?
Emma: Of course, my love. Shall we start by going to Mass together every day we can? And we must persevere in our marital prayer.
Jonathan: Absolutely, Emma. I want to do whatever it takes to have that joy—and to make you as happy as you’re making me. I love you.

Mother,

Teach us to live our marriage as God intended, so that we may begin to experience the joy of the resurrection. Mother, you are blessed and glorious! Praised be the Lord for ever!