From the Gospel according to Luke14:1, 7-14

On a sabbath Jesus went to dineat the home of one of the leading Pharisees,and the people there were observing him carefully.
He told a parable to those who had been invited,noticing how they were choosing the places of honor at the table.”When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet,do not recline at table in the place of honor.A more distinguished guest than you may have been invited by him,and the host who invited both of you may approach you and say,’Give your place to this man,’and then you would proceed with embarrassmentto take the lowest place.Rather, when you are invited,go and take the lowest placeso that when the host comes to you he may say,’My friend, move up to a higher position.’Then you will enjoy the esteem of your companions at the table.For every one who exalts himself will be humbled,but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”Then he said to the host who invited him,”When you hold a lunch or a dinner,do not invite your friends or your brothersor your relatives or your wealthy neighbors,in case they may invite you back and you have repayment.Rather, when you hold a banquet,invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind;blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you.For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”

The Gospel of the Lord

The Invitation Is Your Spouse

In the heart of Christ, we are given the first place. He invites us to His great banquet. Yet we often reject that invitation, betraying Him—spied upon, arrested, judged, slapped, beaten, mocked, scourged, condemned, shoved, insulted, humiliated, pierced, crucified, abandoned, mistreated, killed, buried… and finally raised by His Father and seated at His right hand.

So, where do you want to live—where do you want to have the first place? In His heart, or in your own? In His heart, you die in order to live; in your own, you live only to die.

Which feast do you long to attend—the great banquet of heaven, or a shabby party with cheap wine and an eternal hangover?

Maybe you wonder when and where this banquet will be, what food will be served, or how you should dress. The answer lies in the heart of your spouse.

Your spouse is God’s invitation to the banquet. In the intimacy of your marriage lies the great promise. In your sacrament, the doorway of entry. Do you want to attend? Do you want to be holy?

Applied to married life:

(Louis speaks with Peter, his mentor, about his marriage with Marie)

Louis: Yesterday she told me she doesn’t feel anything for me anymore. She wants to leave. She asked me for divorce.

Peter: Come here—let me give you a hug. You know you’re not alone, right?

Louis: I feel so powerless.

Peter: Maybe it’s time to ask Christ to do what you cannot.

Louis: How do I do that?

Peter: Ask yourself: who comes first in your heart—your own suffering, or Marie’s? When you give yourself to her, is it pure, or do you expect something in return? Is your self-giving complete, or are you holding something back? Have you been faithful—not just in what you do, but in your thoughts and desires?

Louis: Then… is this my fault?

Peter: This isn’t about blame. It’s about the truth: you carry Christ’s power within you to live your marriage in His way. Joy brings us together, but suffering unites us. Think about it—joy gathers us around Christ, but it’s in suffering that we are most deeply united with Him.

Louis: And where should I start?

Peter:Start before the Blessed Sacrament. Don’t say anything. Don’t demand anything. Just humble yourself and ask Him to show you your truth. Don’t be afraid. When He reveals your weakness and you accept it, His Spirit will come, and with His love, you’ll be able to walk with Marie.

Louis: But I have no strength left… not even hope.

Peter: Loluis, whether you see it or not, you’ve just received an immense grace. You’ve come to the point where your faith and your hope are not enough—you must ask for Christ’s. We think that when life is running smoothly, we’re at peace… but in reality, we’re slowly dying. To live Christ’s truth, you must be born again, and labor pains are part of that birth. But there is no greater fullness than living in the truth that only His Spirit can give.

Louis: Peter, I’m really going to need you on this path. Right now it’s hard and difficult to understand what you’re saying.

Peter: What we’ll need most is Him. And even if you can’t see it yet—that’s what faith is for. In the meantime, in His hope, I will be with you, helping you in everything you need.

Mother

Perfect Bride who remained faithful to the Bridegroom, show me the way.
Would you like me to also condense this into a short reflection + prayer (like something a couple could read together in 2–3 minutes during prayer time)?

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Mark6:17-29

Herod was the one who had John the Baptist arrested and bound in prisonon account of Herodias,the wife of his brother Philip, whom he had married.John had said to Herod,“It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife.”Herodias harbored a grudge against himand wanted to kill him but was unable to do so.Herod feared John, knowing him to be a righteous and holy man,and kept him in custody.When he heard him speak he was very much perplexed,yet he liked to listen to him.She had an opportunity one day when Herod, on his birthday,gave a banquet for his courtiers,his military officers, and the leading men of Galilee.Herodias’ own daughter came inand performed a dance that delighted Herod and his guests.The king said to the girl,“Ask of me whatever you wish and I will grant it to you.”He even swore many things to her,“I will grant you whatever you ask of me,even to half of my kingdom.”She went out and said to her mother,“What shall I ask for?”She replied, “The head of John the Baptist.”The girl hurried back to the king’s presence and made her request,“I want you to give me at onceon a platter the head of John the Baptist.”The king was deeply distressed,but because of his oaths and the guestshe did not wish to break his word to her.So he promptly dispatched an executioner with ordersto bring back his head.He went off and beheaded him in the prison.He brought in the head on a platter and gave it to the girl.The girl in turn gave it to her mother.When his disciples heard about it,they came and took his body and laid it in a tomb.

The Gospel of the Lord

 God’s will

Today we celebrate the martyrdom of Saint John the Baptist, of whom his father Zechariah said: “And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Most High; for you will go before the Lord to prepare His ways, to give His people knowledge of salvation through the forgiveness of their sins.” (Luke 1:76–77).

He was the first martyr to defend the truth of marriage as God intended it, speaking out before Herod about the unlawfulness of his relationship with his brother’s wife, Herodias. John gave his life to do the Will of God. And I—what am I willing to give in order to do God’s Will in my life? How far am I willing to go? One thing is clear: we are called to holiness, and the way to reach it is by living according to God’s Will.

We have been called to the vocation of marriage, and that is where we must give everything. We are not called to be holy priests, nor holy religious… but holy husbands and wives. With the help of God’s grace, and our small but sincere “yes,” we will make it!

Living it in Marriage:

Steven: Martha, we need to talk…

Martha: Oh Steve, don’t scare me—those words bring back such bad memories….

Steven: You’re right, forgive me. But maybe the Lord wanted to bring back that memory,  when we were on the verge of throwing away our marriage and our family. I remember the turning point was the retreat we attended led by project for conjugal love

Martha: Now that’s a much better memory. What an amazing retreat! What a gift your sister gave us, without even knowing how badly we were doing, when she decided to invite us as a Christmas present! . I’ll never be able to thank her enough—or Our Lady, who was the one who truly brought us there.

Steven: Well, that’s actually what I wanted to talk about. I know money is really tight with the kids’ school…

Martha: True, but it’s the best choice we could have made. Our children’s education is so important. As a friend of mine says, “if we have to eat rice every day, then we’ll eat rice.” The change we’ve seen in them at their new school is another gift from Our Lady. Just yesterday little one told me that she no longer feels like a “weirdo” for going to Mass and praying.

Steven: Well, my idea is that we should now give back the gift my sister once gave us. Do you remember Lukas, my coworker? He told  me they already have an appointment with a lawyer to get divorced. On top of that, they’re struggling financially. I was thinking… (Martha interrupts)

Martha: I think that’s a wonderful idea, and honestly, I believe it’s our duty. To give now what we once received—even if it means a real financial sacrifice. “Give until it hurts,” as Mother Teresa of Calcutta used to say. Thank you for your generosity, Steven. You help me so much to see God’s Will in our life. I love you so much—and now I’m off to prepare some rice! (laughs)

Mother,

It must have been so painful for you to learn that the son of your beloved cousin, Saint Elizabeth, had been beheaded. Surely it was another sorrow you kept deep in your heart. How much pain we cause others when we act out of selfishness. Forgive our weaknesses and help us to discern God’s Will in our lives, so that we may be salt and light for the world. Blessed be your purity, and may it be forever so!

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Matthew 24:42-51

Jesus said to his disciples:”Stay awake!For you do not know on which day your Lord will come.Be sure of this: if the master of the house had known the hour of night when the thief was coming,he would have stayed awake and not let his house be broken into.So too, you also must be prepared,for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come.
“Who, then, is the faithful and prudent servant,whom the master has put in charge of his household to distribute to them their food at the proper time?Blessed is that servant whom his master on his arrival finds doing so.Amen, I say to you, he will put him in charge of all his property.But if that wicked servant says to himself, ‘My master is long delayed,’and begins to beat his fellow servants,and eat and drink with drunkards,the servant’s master will come on an unexpected dayand at an unknown hour and will punish him severelyand assign him a place with the hypocrites,where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.

The Gospel of the Lord

Always on Guard

When we read this Gospel, it’s easy to think only about death—the day the Lord will call us into His presence—and the need to always be prepared, since as He tells us, we do not know the day or the hour. And that’s true: we cannot simply rely on ourselves or leave everything to the last moment. We are in a constant battle against sin. It doesn’t rest, and neither can we. But the reward is always greater: God’s grace. And the final prize? Heaven and eternity with Him.

That is why we must always stay a step ahead and remain prepared—especially in the situations that are uncomfortable, inconvenient, or not what we would have chosen. Our response must always be one of renunciation and unconditional self-giving.

Married couples have a special grace through the sacrament of Matrimony, a gift we must not waste. It helps us to remain vigilant, to welcome our spouse in their weakness caused by sin—without forgetting that this weakness is also ours. We are called to reach heaven together, and every time we overcome a temptation, it is another step closer to our goal. And to reach that eternal reward, we have a wonderful solution: LOVE without limits. As St. Augustine said, “The measure of love is to love without measure.”

Applied to Married Life:

Marie: You’re home already, John! I didn’t expect you so soon. Didn’t you have a lot going on at the office?

John: Yes, it’s been exhausting these last few days, but I realized I need to set limits with work—otherwise it consumes me, and I lose sight of what matters most. Besides, it’s my feast day today, and we should celebrate it properly.

Marie: I’m so glad to see the way you’re handling this now, it’s such a gift having you home more.

John: Before, I thought work was everything—that it was the key to securing a relaxed life later on. But now I know there’s nothing more restful than simply being with you. Thank God, there’s plenty of work for the future, but I don’t want it to steal my present.

Marie: Do you realize how much our life has changed these past years? Before, we were focused on worldly things—on what we wanted or didn’t want, on money—and we poured extra hours into work just to earn more and “secure” a comfortable life. Now all of that has taken second place. We’ve discovered what God had prepared for us, and we’ve put Him first.

John: Yes, Marie, that’s exactly it. I’m so grateful we’ve finally seen it. God’s plan for marriage has always been there, but we didn’t want to recognize it. By discovering its greatness, we’ve grown together, and our relationship has flourished in ways I never imagined. We’ve chosen to put God—and each other—ahead of everything else, and our life has been transformed. I thank the Lord constantly for that.

Marie: Before, we acted based only on our own needs. But now, we’re ready for whatever comes—always on guard to do God’s will. It’s not always easy, but we don’t tire of trying.

John: It’s amazing to see how the Lord is changing us. How about we pray  together, and then I’ll cook you a dinner you won’t forget?

Marie: Perfect! You’re wonderful, and I thank God for you every single moment. Let’s do it—and celebrate your feast day as it deserves.

Mother,

Guided by your example and sheltered beneath your mantle, help us to remain always alert and prepared to welcome the Lord. Blessed be the Lord, who is always waiting for us.