Monthly Archives: May 2025

Abundant Fruit. Reflection for married couples. Jn 15:1-8

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John

Jn 15:1-8

Jesus said to his disciples:

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine grower.

He takes away every branch in me that does not bear fruit,

and everyone that does he prunes so that it bears more fruit.

You are already pruned because of the word that I spoke to you.

Remain in me, as I remain in you.

Just as a branch cannot bear fruit on its own

unless it remains on the vine,

so neither can you unless you remain in me.

I am the vine, you are the branches.

Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit,

because without me you can do nothing.

Anyone who does not remain in me

will be thrown out like a branch and wither;

people will gather them and throw them into a fire

and they will be burned.

If you remain in me and my words remain in you,

ask for whatever you want and it will be done for you.

By this is my Father glorified,

that you bear much fruit and become my disciples.”

The word of the Lord

 

Abundant Fruit.

Bearing abundant fruit—this is the Father’s plan for our marriage. And not just any fruit, but an abundance. This is what can happen if we remain in the Lord.

Now, the challenge is to remain in Him. And even while doing so, to understand that He will prune us so that we may bear even more abundant fruit.

Applied to married life:

María: Even though I have given my life to God, I still feel humiliated by you in certain situations. How long will this continue?

Pedro: First, until I learn to be more considerate towards you. And second, until our marriage bears many fruits of love. These trials are typical of a marriage that God wants to make holy. What do you think?

María: Seeing it that way, it gives me a lot of hope.

Pedro: Stay with the Lord, and you will see how joyful you become.

 

Mother,

May we never stray, even the slightest bit, from Your Immaculate Heart. Thank You! Blessed Mother.

 

Peace amid misery. Reflection for married couples. Jn 14:27-31a

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John

Jn 14:27-31a

Jesus said to his disciples:

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.

Not as the world gives do I give it to you.

Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.

You heard me tell you,

‘I am going away and I will come back to you.’

If you loved me,

you would rejoice that I am going to the Father;

for the Father is greater than I.

And now I have told you this before it happens,

so that when it happens you may believe.

I will no longer speak much with you,

for the ruler of the world is coming.

He has no power over me,

but the world must know that I love the Father

and that I do just as the Father has commanded me.”

The word of the Lord

 

Peace amid misery.

What a mysterious relationship that binds you, Lord. Full of humility (“The Father is greater than I”), with obedience (“As the Father has commanded me, so I act”), with love (“The world must understand that I love the Father”), and with peace (“My peace I give you”). What kind of love is this, Lord? The one you want to share with us, though we struggle to receive it. What do you see when you look at the Father? How much of Him is in your heart? Mysterious love—profound, full, overflowing…

Of course, I want to reach that love in our marriage. But am I willing to drink from the cup of humility? And from that of obedience? You, Lord, do not give peace as the world gives it—imposing it—but as you give it, like the grain of wheat that falls to the ground and dies, bearing fruit in peace. May my heart not be troubled, Lord, and may I dare to take the step of truly believing in your way.

 

Applied to married life:

Paco: It seems like we’re a bit stuck. We’ve had good moments, even great ones, but now, it feels like we’re not moving forward.

Mayte: Saint Teresa, in The Interior Castle, spoke of pride. It’s like a barrier on the spiritual path that prevents you from moving to the next level, so to speak. Do you tend to think well of your wife? Do you see her as better than yourself? Do you admire her often? Do you thank her frequently? These are the questions that can help you discover whether humility exists in your heart.

Paco: Well, the diagnosis is clear. What can I do?

Mayte: First, ask for Grace and pray often, so that the Lord reveals who you truly are. But beyond that, acts of obedience will be good for you. Does your wife correct you?

Paco: Often.

Mayte: And how do you react?

Paco: Honestly, not well. I see so many flaws in her that I don’t understand how she dares to correct me.

Mayte: Well, if instead of focusing on her, you choose to obey her, it will do you an incredible amount of good.

Paco: And what about her?

Mayte: What she has to do, that’s her concern. What about you? Do you want to experience what Christ feels in that sincere, joyful love that fills life with peace? Then do what He does, to reach with Him what He reaches. That is the prize. That is the promise.

 

Mother,

Thank you for introducing us to this Project of Love. Thank you for allowing me to live these experiences. Thanks be to God for the gift of love. I am not worthy to share these experiences with you. I love you. Praise be to the Holy Trinity!

Two Loves in One. Reflection for married couples. Jn 14:21-26

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John
Jn 14:21-26

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Whoever has my commandments and observes them
is the one who loves me.
Whoever loves me will be loved by my Father,
and I will love him and reveal myself to him.”
Judas, not the Iscariot, said to him,
“Master, then what happened that you will reveal yourself to us
and not to the world?”
Jesus answered and said to him,
“Whoever loves me will keep my word,
and my Father will love him,
and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him.
Whoever does not love me does not keep my words;
yet the word you hear is not mine
but that of the Father who sent me.

“I have told you this while I am with you.
The Advocate, the Holy Spirit
whom the Father will send in my name–
he will teach you everything
and remind you of all that I told you.”

The word of the Lord

 

Two Loves in One

The one who loves will keep His Word, His commandments. And what is His commandment? That we love one another, as spouses, just as He has loved us. Therefore, I cannot love God, whom I do not see, if I do not love my spouse, whom I do see. But the reverse is also true: I cannot love my spouse except with the help of the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send, because He will teach me everything. He will teach me to love my spouse and remind me of all that Christ has said, so I may apply it to my marriage. We must strive to unify our love for God and our spouse.

 

Applied to Married Life:

Carlos: First, I loved you, but as time passed, my love has cooled, disappointed by how I judged your love for me. Then, you helped me encounter the Lord, and I fell in love with Him, but I was not united with you. Something was missing, and I was not happy. Then, I had my marital conversion, and I understood that loving God and loving you are one and the same. Now, I am complete.

Alicia: Yes, I helped you fall in love with the Lord. I saw His perfection, His mercy, and His infinite greatness, whereas with you, I saw only imperfection—I considered you unworthy of me. I endured faithfully, for God, but it was mere resignation. But then, you helped me discover and fall in love with my vocation. The process has been beautiful. Now, the Spirit is within us and guides us—it is truly amazing.

Mother,

Pray for us, Holy Mother of God, that we may be worthy to attain and enjoy the promises of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

A Love That Doesn’t Hold Back. Reflection for married couples. John 14:7-14

Gospel

‘Whoever has seen me has seen the Father.’
John 14:7-14

At that time: Jesus said to his disciples, ‘If you had known me, you would have known my Father also. From now on you do know him and have seen him.’ Philip said to him, ‘Lord, show us the Father, and it is enough for us.’ Jesus said to him, ‘Have I been with you so long, and you still do not know me, Philip? Whoever has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, “Show us the Father”? Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on my own authority, but the Father who dwells in me does his works. Believe me that I am in the Father and the Father is in me, or else believe on account of the works themselves.
  ‘Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I am going to the Father. Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me for anything in my name, I will do it.’

The Gospel of the Lord

A Love That Doesn’t Hold Back

Just moments before being handed over, Jesus speaks of being glorified. Here, “glory” does not mean human triumph or success; rather, it is the supreme manifestation of God’s love in the sacrifice of Jesus. In the divine logic, His Passion is the deepest revelation of His glory: a love that holds nothing back, that gives itself completely. Don’t hold back your love—the love God has placed in your heart is meant to be given entirely.

Applied to Married Life:

Alice: You know what Theresa told me the other day? She’s afraid to give herself fully to her husband… because she’s scared he might disappoint her.
Thomas: That’s tough… It’s like having wings but choosing not to use them out of fear of falling. Sure, you never crash—but you never fly either.
Alice: Exactly. It’s the fear of truly loving, of trusting without reservation. But if she doesn’t give herself sincerely, how will she ever experience complete love? It’s like giving up before even trying.
Thomas: Right… without giving yourself, there’s no glory. Real love requires risk, faith, and surrender. Instead of protecting herself, she’s actually losing out.
Alice: I feel so sorry for her. I want to help her see that only by giving herself entirely can she truly discover who she is—and who she can become.
Thomas: Do it. She needs someone to remind her that her worth doesn’t depend on someone else but on who she is and who she belongs to. Loving genuinely is the only way to find true glory.

Mother,

You said “yes” without hesitation, without knowing what would come. Teach us to love with courage. You didn’t shield yourself from pain or place conditions on your self-giving. You trusted the Father, and that’s why you were glorified. 

Help us not to live halfway, not to fear giving our hearts, not to shut ourselves off for fear of suffering. Thank you, blessed Mother.

Hope in the Waiting. Reflection for married couples. John 14:1-6

Gospel

‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life.’
John 14:1-6

At that time: Jesus said to his disciples, ‘Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. And you know the way to where I am going.’ Thomas said to him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Hope in the Waiting

When parents are expecting a baby, they prepare the nursery and all the little things with great love and excitement. In the same way, the Lord is preparing a place for me. Right now, that place may be empty, but He is joyfully making it ready, anticipating my arrival and the rest I will find there.
Imagine that—a whole God, eagerly waiting for me, preparing everything to welcome me by His side. His anticipation is even greater than that of parents awaiting the arrival of their newborn.

Applied to Married Life:

Megan: I’m so excited about our baby’s arrival. Sometimes I just go into her little room and look at all the things we’ve set up, just waiting for her.
Nathan: If only she knew how much we’re looking forward to meeting her… Sometimes I think this must be similar to how the Lord feels. He’s also prepared a place for us, with every detail thought out. I’m sure He’s waiting for us with even more excitement than we feel. We’re His children, after all…
Megan: That’s true. I hadn’t thought of it like that. It makes me want to live this waiting period more like the Lord would. Thanks, Nathan—how sweet you are!

Dear Mother,

When Jesus has finished preparing our dwelling place, I’m sure You’ll come in to add those final motherly touches. We can’t wait to share our home with You.
Thank you, blessed Mother.