Hunger and bread. Reflection for marriages John 6:44-51

GOSPEL

I am the living bread which has come down from heaven
From the Gospel according to John
Jn 6:44-51
Jesus said to the crowd:
‘No one can come to me
unless he is drawn by the Father who sent me,
and I will raise him up at the last day.
It is written in the prophets:
They will all be taught by God,
and to hear the teaching of the Father,
and learn from it,
is to come to me.
Not that anybody has seen the Father,
except the one who comes from God:
he has seen the Father.
I tell you most solemnly,
everybody who believes has eternal life.
‘I am the bread of life.
Your fathers ate the manna in the desert
and they are dead;
but this is the bread that comes down from heaven,
so that a man may eat it and not die.
I am the living bread which has come down from heaven.
Anyone who eats this bread will live for ever;
and the bread that I shall give is my flesh,
for the life of the world.’
The Gospel of the Lord
Hunger and bread.

The Father has sown within me desires that illuminate the path He has laid out for me, and the foremost of these desires is Christ. Indeed, I yearn for Life, thirst for Truth, long to discover the Way, and crave Communion.
After awakening this hunger in me, the Father provides the Bread that quenches it by bestowing upon me Christ Himself. In Him, and only in Him, do we together achieve completeness—He as the Head and we as the Body.

Applied to Married Life:
Heather: At the start of my conversion, I believed I could attain communion solely with God, excluding you.
Archie: Many Christian marriages are at that juncture. What led you to realise that it wasn’t possible?
Heather: The Father had also instilled in me a longing for communion with you, and I realised that when I was graced by God and united with you, my heart found peace in you and grew nearer to the Lord.
Archie: God has embedded hints within our hearts, and these hints are those very desires. Thank you, Father, for these calls that guide us towards the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

Mother,

You are also among our desires. Who doesn’t need a Mother? Who doesn’t require you as a Mother? Praise be to the Father.

The solution. Reflection for marriages John: 6:35-40

GOSPEL

It is my Father’s will that whoever sees the Son should have eternal life
From the Gospel according to John
Jn 6:35-40
Jesus said to the crowd:
‘I am the bread of life.
He who comes to me will never be hungry;
he who believes in me will never thirst.
But, as I have told you,
you can see me and still you do not believe.
All that the Father gives me will come to me,
and whoever comes to me I shall not turn him away;
because I have come from heaven, not to do my own will,
but to do the will of the one who sent me.
Now the will of him who sent me
is that I should lose nothing of all that he has given to me,
and that I should raise it up on the last day.
Yes, it is my Father’s will
that whoever sees the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life,
and that I shall raise him up on the last day.’
The Gospel of the Lord

The Solution.

God’s will is clear, that anyone who believes in Christ should be saved by Him, because He is not external to us, but is the Bread of Life. He is life for me, for my husband, and for my family. He is my sustenance. Long live Christ the Redeemer!

Applied to Married Life:
Susan: We have numerous unresolved matters… so much to amend, so many disagreements… It’s quite dispiriting.
Noah: Well, I’ve found the solution and His name is Christ. Let’s continue to look towards Him, bow before Him, and have faith. He is Life, Susan.
Susan: Indeed. He is life.
Mother,
Thank you for bringing us to the Lord. We can never thank you enough. Thank you, blessed Mother.

Satisfy my needs. Reflection for marriages John 6:30-35

GOSPEL

It is my Father who gives you the bread from heaven
From the Gospel according to John
Jn 6:30-35

The people said to Jesus, ‘What sign will you give to show us that we should believe in you? What work will you do? Our fathers had manna to eat in the desert; as scripture says: He gave them bread from heaven to eat.’
Jesus answered:
‘I tell you most solemnly,
it was not Moses who gave you bread from heaven,
it is my Father who gives you the bread from heaven,
the true bread;
for the bread of God
is that which comes down from heaven
and gives life to the world.’
‘Sir,’ they said ‘give us that bread always.’ Jesus answered:
‘I am the bread of life.
He who comes to me will never be hungry;
he who believes in me will never thirst.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Satisfy my needs.

Yes, I am hungry, a hunger within that is only satisfied by you, Lord. It is the hunger for true love in my marriage; the hunger to break free from routine to live each day with a renewed marriage; it is the hunger for you to deliver me from the evil that imprisons me, self-destructs me, and hurts my husband. Give me your Bread of Life in the Eucharist, satisfy those spiritual needs that unsettle me. Through Your Marriage with the Church, you saved us. Through ours, you make us holy. Praise be to the Lord.

Applied to Married Life:

Olga: I don’t know what your religion brings to you. To me, it’s brainwashing. They’ve got you all brainwashed. You need to be more modern.
Mario: Do you really want to know? I can tell you about my experience, but you have to be sincerely open.
Olga: Sorry, I am open. I have no prejudices.
Mario: Great. I’ll tell you what has happened in my marriage since we embarked on our faith journey together. These are real experiences because you’ve spent a lot of time with us and you know there’s been a change.
Olga: That’s true.
Elena: Well, the Lord is teaching us to love, and in our intimacy with Him, He is mysteriously transforming our love. And I have to tell you like this because that’s how it’s been. I no longer see my marriage as a prison, but as a liberation from my whims, my selfishness, my false securities; I don’t see it as a trap I fell into by mistake, but as a test that makes me strong, that gives meaning to my life; it’s not a burden for me, but a grace that allows our love to spread to our children and beyond; I also don’t see it as the effort of two, but as a vessel being filled with God’s Love, through which He acts and performs His divine works. I don’t know, I wish I could express it better, but that’s the most I can say.
Olga: (Moved)
Elena: Hey! Olga, what’s wrong, dear?
Olga: I want to live what you both are living.
Mario: Don’t worry… You’re thirsty for Love, it’s normal, and it’s within your reach. You can live it. Come with your husband, and my wife and I will help you. By God’s Grace, we’ve become Marriage Mentors, serving other marriages.

 

Mother,

The Eucharist, what a great nourishment! Our sacrament united with that of Redemption, what Divine Grace! What nourishment these sacraments from the side of Christ are. Praise be to the Lord for His Abundant Mercy. Amen.

I love you, Andrew. Reflection for marriages John 6:22-29

GOSPEL

Do not work for food that cannot last, but for food that endures to eternal life
From the Gospel according to John 
Jn 6:22-29

After Jesus had fed the five thousand, his disciples saw him walking on the water. Next day, the crowd that had stayed on the other side saw that only one boat had been there, and that Jesus had not got into the boat with his disciples, but that the disciples had set off by themselves. Other boats, however, had put in from Tiberias, near the place where the bread had been eaten. When the people saw that neither Jesus nor his disciples were there, they got into those boats and crossed to Capernaum to look for Jesus. When they found him on the other side, they said to him, ‘Rabbi, when did you come here?’
  Jesus answered:
‘I tell you most solemnly,
you are not looking for me because you have seen the signs
but because you had all the bread you wanted to eat.
Do not work for food that cannot last,
but work for food that endures to eternal life,
the kind of food the Son of Man is offering you,
for on him the Father, God himself, has set his seal.’
Then they said to him, ‘What must we do if we are to do the works that God wants?’ Jesus gave them this answer, ‘This is working for God: you must believe in the one he has sent.’

The Gospel of the Lord

I love you, Andrew.

Sometimes we seek Jesus Jesus for the benefits He brings to us rather than for His own sake. What kind of genuine love can someone experience when they are only valued for their utility?
Let’s seek Christ for who He truly is; we are blessed enough to have the privilege of being in His presence. He has already bestowed upon us abundant blessings; there’s no need to incessantly ask for more.

Applied to Married Life:

Andrew: Martha, do you love me for myself or for what you receive from me?
Martha: Indeed, Andrew,I recognise the need to refine my affection because, in moments of lapse, I find myself focusing solely on what I receive from you to measure your love for me. I know it’s not about seeking my own interest but about surrendering to you like Christ.
Andrew: I feel the same way. But I see that when we decide to fully surrender, the Lord does great things in and through us.
Martha: The Lord is great.
Andrew: The Lord is everything.

Mother,

Increase my generosity so that I am willing to surrender like You. To surrender! So simple and yet, a lifelong endeavour. Praise be to the Lord who loves us so much. Amen.

Consequences of the Resurrected One. Reflection for marriages Luke 24, 35-48

GOSPEL

This is how it was written: the Messiah will suffer and rise from the dead on the third day. 
Reading from the Holy Gospel according to Saint Luke 24, 35-48.
The two disciples recounted what had taken place on the way,

and how Jesus was made known to them
in the breaking of bread.

While they were still speaking about this,
he stood in their midst and said to them,
“Peace be with you.”
But they were startled and terrified
and thought that they were seeing a ghost.
Then he said to them, “Why are you troubled?
And why do questions arise in your hearts?
Look at my hands and my feet, that it is I myself.
Touch me and see, because a ghost does not have flesh and bones
as you can see I have.”
And as he said this,
he showed them his hands and his feet.
While they were still incredulous for joy and were amazed,
he asked them, “Have you anything here to eat?”
They gave him a piece of baked fish;
he took it and ate it in front of them.

He said to them,
“These are my words that I spoke to you while I was still with you,
that everything written about me in the law of Moses
and in the prophets and psalms must be fulfilled.”
Then he opened their minds to understand the Scriptures.
And he said to them,
“Thus it is written that the Christ would suffer
and rise from the dead on the third day
and that repentance, for the forgiveness of sins,
would be preached in his name
to all the nations, beginning from Jerusalem.
You are witnesses of these things.”

Word of the Lord.
Consequences of the Resurrected One.
Seeing Christ resurrected seems incredible because everyone saw him die in agony. Seeing the consequences that the Resurrected One brings to our marriage also seems unbelievable, especially when it concerns a marriage that we had seen broken before. Yes, our path is that of Jesus, but from our vocation as spouses. The Messiah had to suffer greatly, and so do we. The only difference is that He carried our sins (everyone’s) and we must carry mine and my spouse’s (mainly).
But the story does not end there. The Lord rises and allows us to follow Him also on that path of resurrection. Ah! Miracle! And we who have lived this are witnesses. Therefore, we proclaim conversion in His name. It is necessary for my ego to die so that a “we” may be born. Spouses, let us live our cross; you will see and believe.
Applied to married life:
Javier: Are you saying that God is going to change things in our marriage?
Alicia: Absolutely, Javier. You have no idea how alive He is!
Javier: God is in heaven, and we are on earth. We need to be practical.
Alicia: No, Javier, God became man for a reason, He took on flesh for a reason, He has a human mother for a reason… Trust me, let’s prioritize where we need to. So far, being practical hasn’t worked for us, and there are many testimonies of those who have trusted in God and His plan, and He has intervened in their lives, changing them.
(And Alicia and Javier placed their lives in the service of the Lord, seeking His will at all times, and He changed their lives)
Mother,
Help me seek God’s will in everything, especially in times of difficulty, in inner battles… where I only need to pray, trust, and wait – the Lord will do the rest miraculously. Amen.