I never get tired of you. Reflection for marriages Saint Matthew 11, 28-30

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GOSPEL
I am gentle and humble of heart
Reading from the holy Gospel according to St. Matthew 11, 28-30
At that time, Jesus said:
Jesus said:
“Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened,
and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,
for I am meek and humble of heart;
and you will find rest for yourselves.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.”
The Gospel of the Lord.
I never get tired of you.
One of the characteristics of the action of grace is that, unlike when we act with our own strength, what we do moved by grace does not tire us, much less overwhelm us.
The good news is that the Nuptial Love of Christ is among us, and therefore we will never tire of loving each other.
Applied to married life:
Jaime: When we got married, I was afraid that with time and difficulties our love would suffer a wear and tear that would end in indifference or a certain apathy.
Carmen: And what conclusion are you drawing after more than thirty years of marriage?
Jaime: My conclusion is that I am more in love with you every day, and I clearly know that this love I am experiencing between us is supernatural.
Carmen: We have fought a lot and have faced serious difficulties, but staying close to the Lord and sharing a conjugal spirituality is making us one in the Lord.
Jaime: Well, and learning about marriage through the Catechesis of Saint John Paul has also been crucial in knowing how to take advantage of the grace of our Sacrament.
Carmen: Absolutely.
Jaime: Can you give me a huge hug that will burst?
Carmen: Hahaha
Mother,
We can never thank enough for the gift of marriage. A mystery that clearly surpasses us. Praise the Lord for this gift.

Needy above all. Reflection for marriages Saint Matthew 11, 25-27

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GOSPEL
You have hidden these things from the wise and revealed them to the little ones.
Reading from the holy Gospel according to Saint Matthew 11, 25-27
At that time Jesus exclaimed:
“I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth,
for although you have hidden these things
from the wise and the learned
you have revealed them to the childlike.
Yes, Father, such has been your gracious will.
All things have been handed over to me by my Father.
No one knows the Son except the Father,
and no one knows the Father except the Son
and anyone to whom the Son wishes to reveal him.”
The Word of the Lord.
Needy above all.
Only by having a humble and simple heart can I receive and welcome God’s wisdom. There comes a time when knowledge can be harmful, as it can make us proud.
To live a marriage as God intended, the secret is to cultivate a receptive heart, open to God’s grace.
Applied to Married Life:
Ana: Lately we’ve been on a bad streak… Constantly correcting each other with an attitude as if we know it all… And that’s pushing us away from love.
Juan: You’re right. It’s easy to fall into arrogance and mutual contempt. What do you think if we go together to confess and spend a good while prostrated before the Lord?
Ana: I think it’s wonderful. Knowing we need God and each other. That’s the real path. I’m ashamed of my attitude. Will you forgive me?
Juan: Of course. Will you forgive me?
Ana: Yes, I forgive you. And I love you, and I need you so much.
Juan: I love you.
Mother,
Needy, very needy. That’s what we are above all. Praise be to God who shares His wisdom with the little ones.

Yes, it can. Reflection for marriages Saint Matthew 11, 20-24

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GOSPEL

The day of judgment will be more bearable for Tyre, Sidon, and Sodom than for you.
Reading from the holy gospel according to Saint Matthew 11, 20-24
Jesus began to reproach the towns
where most of his mighty deeds had been done,
since they had not repented.
“Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida!
For if the mighty deeds done in your midst
had been done in Tyre and Sidon,
they would long ago have repented in sackcloth and ashes.
But I tell you, it will be more tolerable
for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you.
And as for you, Capernaum:
Will you be exalted to heaven?
You will go down to the nether world.
For if the mighty deeds done in your midst had been done in Sodom,
it would have remained until this day.
But I tell you, it will be more tolerable
for the land of Sodom on the day of judgment than for you.
The Word of the Lord.
Yes, it can.
Miracles, beyond the amazement they cause, are signs that prove the existence of God. Then there are those who stubbornly close themselves off and no matter what they see, they do not want to believe. It becomes more difficult to believe their arguments than the very existence of God. There are also those who remain focused on the wonder of the event itself and forget that it is just a sign. They need to focus on Who is behind it and the message or mission that God wants to convey. These are the miracle-seekers who feed on astonishing impacts but do not delve deeper. Thirdly, there are the “apologists” who see signs of the end times in everything, meaning they already have the message they want to believe in their heads and only seek extraordinary facts to corroborate it. Finally, there are those who believe and delve until they find what God wants from them when He has made them partakers of a supernatural event. These last ones, will truly live.
Applied to Married Life:
Carlos: Do you believe in the Sacrament of Marriage? I wonder how many miracles the Lord may have refrained from doing among us due to our lack of faith and gratitude.
Teresa: Now I truly believe in the grace of our Sacrament, because we have discovered it and experienced it, but it is true that for many years we did not believe in it.
Carlos: In a marriage that lacks belief, the Lord cannot perform miracles. Now I know that this love I feel towards you is greater than myself.
Teresa: Now I know that my love cannot satisfy you, but God’s love through me can.
Mother,
We receive so much grace every day, at all times, through the work of the Holy Spirit administered by you. We believe in You, and we do not want to waste even a bit of Your love for us. Praise be to God for so much, always and completely.

Worthy of Him. Reflection for marriages St. Matthew 10, 34 – 11, 1

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GOSPEL
I have not come to bring peace, but a sword
Reading from the holy Gospel according to St. Matthew 10, 34 – 11, 1
 “Do not think that I have come to bring peace upon the earth.
I have come to bring not peace but the sword.
For I have come to set
a man against his father,
a daughter against her mother,
and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
and one’s enemies will be those of his household.
“Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me,
and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me;
and whoever does not take up his cross
and follow after me is not worthy of me.
Whoever finds his life will lose it,
and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.
“Whoever receives you receives me,
and whoever receives me receives the one who sent me.
Whoever receives a prophet because he is a prophet
will receive a prophet’s reward,
and whoever receives a righteous man
because he is righteous
will receive a righteous man’s reward.
And whoever gives only a cup of cold water
to one of these little ones to drink
because he is a disciple–
amen, I say to you, he will surely not lose his reward.”
When Jesus finished giving these commands to his Twelve disciples,
he went away from that place to teach and to preach in their towns.
At that time, Jesus said to his apostles:
 The Gospel of the Lord.
Worthy of Him.
There is only one path of goodness, and that is to follow Christ. Anything other than following Him is in opposition to Him. It is true that sometimes family members may stand against us. He had already warned us about this. But that cannot stop us from following Him, evangelizing, and working in the mission for the Kingdom of God. They will understand one day, even if not in this world. Because what we do will also benefit them, and the entire Church. We are not alone in this mission; we go in the name and representation of the Church. United with it.
Applied to married life:
Jaime: I know you are struggling to improve. I pray that the Lord gives you strength. I also benefit from learning from you and being influenced by you. I know the Lord works through you, and as I surrender to you, our life together will have a much greater and more transcendent meaning.
Merche: I am in love with the Lord and I know how small I am, but I cannot resist being with Him, and I want to be in communion with you. I know that the path is for me to make an effort and bless you, speak well of you. That is what the Lord wants from me.
Mother,
If we do not become one, as is our mission as spouses, where are we going? Thank you, Lord, for redirecting our paths towards love.

The mision. Reflection for marriages Mark 6:7-13

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GOSPEL 
Began to send them.
From the Gospel according to Mark. 6:7-13
Jesus summoned the Twelve and began to send them out two by two and gave them authority over unclean spirits. He instructed them to take nothing for the journey but a walking stick— no food, no sack, no money in their belts. They were, however, to wear sandals but not a second tunic.
He said to them, “Wherever you enter a house, stay there until you leave. Whatever place does not welcome you or listen to you, leave there and shake the dust off your feet in testimony against them.”
So they went off and preached repentance. The Twelve drove out many demons, and they anointed with oil many who were sick and cured them.
The Gospel of the Lord
The Mission
Jesus sends his disciples to evangelize in pairs, anticipating the mission He entrusts to us as Christian spouses. By sending us in pairs, Jesus emphasizes the importance of experiencing this spiritual journey together, the mutual support we need, and the unity that marriage implies. However, we are to travel light, placing our trust in divine providence for our evangelization efforts. Christian spouses are called to live our love with simplicity and detachment.
Applied to Married Life:
Loretta: How are we going to leave everything we have pending and go to help to a retreat?
James: It is the Lord who sends us. Our Mother told us to take care of Her matters and She would take care of ours, and surely She knows how to do it much better than we do.
Loretta: If this mission comes from Her, it cannot go wrong. Our Mother never disappoints.
James: She needs us, marriages and families need us. She is our Mother. She will not forget us, you’ll see.
Mother,
You have called us to be a light for the world, take care of our tasks and our children during the times we are absent and grant us quality time with them. Thank you, Blessed Mother.