Signs of those who believe. Reflection for marriages Mk: 16, 15-20

Gospel

Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.

From the Gospel according to Mark. Mk. 16,15-20.

He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues; they will pick up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place their hands on sick people, and they will get well.”

After the Lord Jesus had spoken to them, he was taken up into heaven and he sat at the right hand of God. Then the disciples went out and preached everywhere, and the Lord worked with them and confirmed his word by the signs that accompanied it.

The Gospel of the Lord.

Signs of those who believe.

Let’s talk today about those signs that accompany those who believe. To do this, we suggest some marital scenarios.

Applied to married life:

Casting out demons (Authority against evil): Several things have happened that have made him lose his patience. She decides to rescue him in the name of Jesus. She withstands the storm because he says harsh things to her. However she knows that when she hugs him he calms down and therefore as soon as she has the opportunity, she hugs him and says, “Come on darling, I love you so much.” And she kisses him. He, surrounded by her love, melts and asks for forgiveness.

Speaking in tongues: Lou comes hurt because her sister-in-law has said very harsh things to her. Her husband knows that his mission is to make her feel heard, understood, and accompanied in her suffering. She says harsh things about her husband’s sister, but he does not judge his wife or defend his sister. He simply listens and delves into his wife’s pain. He tells her how much he understands her pain. In the end, he doesn’t offer her any solution, but she has been comfortable with him and felt loved. After the ordeal, he encourages her to offer her suffering like Christ. This is speaking the language of God.

Taking snakes in one’s hands (overcoming temptations): She is very tired, there are things to do, and he doesn’t seem very active. Thoughts like “I never get a break,” “I have to do everything” come to her inmediately. But she decides to serve with love, in the name of the Lord, who also came to serve and not to be served. And also, to do it with joy, for the opportunity to join the Lord in this. Glory to God! Her heart shouts.

Drinking poison and not dying (not being affected by criticism): Two spouses have different opinions and end up arguing. He says that everything bothers her and that she doesn’t accept others thinking differently. In these situations, she used to feel despised and found it hard to forgive her husband. This time, she decides not to give relevance to those words. Surely the Lord wouldn’t have held it against her in a similar situation. So, she forgives him, and they both continue to have a pleasant day together. There will be times when they are able to share their differences without arguing.

Laying hands on the sick and having them healed: two spouses suffer because they believe they are incompatible. Another couple who have discovered the love of God come to their aid. They talk to them about the beauty of marriage. They explained that they haven’t learned to love each other and that is something that needs to be learned, that Mary wants to help them, that Christ is in the midst and will perform the miracle. That wounded couple fills with hope and decides to start again and fight for their marriage and their family, their great treasure.

Holy Spirit,

Come to our marriage. Give us the strength to love each other despite the circumstances; give us the guidance to discern in complicated situations; give us the wisdom of God to look at our relationship from His Truth; give us the intelligence to understand the Truth of the mystery of our sacrament. Give us the knowledge to value our spouse as a child of God; the piety to open ourselves to the tenderness of the Father and towards our spouse; and the fear of God, the fear of offending Him and the desire to remain in His love. Holy Spirit, transform our marriage. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Let it flow. Reflection for Marriage. Mark 16:15-20

GOSPEL

Go out to the whole world; proclaim the Good News
From the Gospel according to Mark
Mark 16:15-20
Jesus showed himself to the Eleven and said to them:
  ‘Go out to the whole world; proclaim the Good News to all creation. He who believes and is baptised will be saved; he who does not believe will be condemned. These are the signs that will be associated with believers: in my name they will cast out devils; they will have the gift of tongues; they will pick up snakes in their hands, and be unharmed should they drink deadly poison; they will lay their hands on the sick, who will recover.’
  And so the Lord Jesus, after he had spoken to them, was taken up into heaven: there at the right hand of God he took his place, while they, going out, preached everywhere, the Lord working with them and confirming the word by the signs that accompanied it.
The Gospel of the Lord
Let it flow.

To the spouses who believe, these signs will accompany them (Pope Francis Amoris Laetitia 163):
“The love we promise each other surpasses any emotion, feeling or mood, although it may include them. It is a deeper desire, with a decision of the heart that involves the whole existence. Thus, amidst an unresolved conflict, and even though many confused feelings may swirl around the heart, the decision to love, to belong, to share life together, and to remain loving and forgiving is kept alive each day. Each of the two embarks on a path of growth and personal change. In the midst of this journey, love celebrates every step and every new stage…The bond finds new modes and demands the decision to knead it again and again. But not just to preserve it, but to develop it. It is the path of building oneself day by day. But none of this is possible unless the Holy Spirit is invoked, unless His grace is sought every day, unless His supernatural strength is called upon, unless He is earnestly asked to pour out His fire upon our love to strengthen it, guide it, and transform it in every new situation.”
The Holy Spirit is what unites us, but the Holy Spirit is very “sensitive” to our freedom. If we set any boundaries between us, He cannot flow between the two of us. Let us remove the pleasures that hinder our union, let us remove the passions that drive us apart, let not my will be done nor rely on my judgments. If we do this, then the Spirit that dwells deep within us will flow between us and will be able to do His great work. His immense work of Love.

Applied to married life:

George: I no longer seek what I like, nor my comfort. I no longer reject you when my feelings urge me to do so. I no longer insist on my will and am docile. I now distrust my judgments, for God is very great and I may be wrong now as I was in the past. And it is now that I experience what the Holy Spirit can do in our union.
Maddie: Now indeed we experience what it is to contemplate together, now we live the full joy. The experiences we are living are indescribable, my dear husband.
George: I look at you and wonder, who are you? I have not yet discovered all the greatness that God has meant to give you.

Come Holy Spirit,

Come into our marriage. Give us the strength and courage to decide to love each other despite the circumstances; give us the counsel to discern in complicated situations; give us God’s wisdom to view our relationship from His Truth; give us the understanding to grasp the Truth of the mystery of our sacrament, give us the knowledge to value our spouse as a child of God; the piety to open up to the tenderness of the Father and towards the spouse; and the fear of God, the fear of offending Him and the desire to remain in love. Holy Spirit, transform our marriage. Through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

As to the Lord, Reflection for Marriage, John 16:23b-28

GOSPEL
From the Gospel according to John
Jn 16:23b-28

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Amen, amen, I say to you,
whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you.
Until now you have not asked anything in my name;
ask and you will receive, so that your joy may be complete.

“I have told you this in figures of speech.
The hour is coming when I will no longer speak to you in figures
but I will tell you clearly about the Father.
On that day you will ask in my name,
and I do not tell you that I will ask the Father for you.
For the Father himself loves you, because you have loved me
and have come to believe that I came from God.
I came from the Father and have come into the world.
Now I am leaving the world and going back to the Father.”

Word of the Lord.

As to the Lord.

The great saints agree that when one fully surrenders to the Lord, He fully surrenders to them.
Whoever loves Him is loved by the Father and asks in the name of the Lord because they ask for what the Lord wants, and the Father gives them everything. Everything!

Applied to Married Life:

Jaime: It’s so hard for me to be faithful to the consecration we made to the Sacred Heart of Jesus… Especially when it comes to everything related to losing honor.
Mercedes: It’s not easy at all, but on the other hand, we do like the consequences of having consecrated ourselves later. Then we ask and ask because we need inner peace, we need joy, and above all, we need love.
Jaime: Sometimes I think it’s a matter of patience. If I now give everything the Lord asks of me and wait, the Lord will eventually give Himself to me, and there’s nothing better or more desirable.
Mercedes: That’s right. Let’s surrender to each other as to the Lord and patiently wait for the Lord to fulfill His promise. Sound good?
Jaime: Sounds great. Let’s encourage each other. Okay?

Mother,

You certainly knew how to consecrate yourself to the Lord, and the Lord surrendered to you! And in what a way! You are our model. Thank you, Blessed Mother.

Precious confluence, Reflection for Marriages, John 16:20-23

GOSPEL
From the Gospel according to John
Jn 16:20-23

Jesus said to his disciples:
Amen, amen, I say to you, you will weep and mourn,
while the world rejoices;
you will grieve, but your grief will become joy.
When a woman is in labor, she is in anguish because her hour has arrived;
but when she has given birth to a child,
she no longer remembers the pain because of her joy
that a child has been born into the world.
So you also are now in anguish.
But I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice,
and no one will take your joy away from you.
On that day you will not question me about anything.
Amen, amen, I say to you,
whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you.

Word of the Lord.

Precious confluence

When we talk about the path of purification, of renunciations, sacrifices, and selflessness, it can generate rejection and even scandalize many. But the path that God has established to reach glory is the way of the cross. One must pass through the cross to reach resurrection. One must pass through humiliation so that the Lord can lead us to holiness. Christ is the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him.

Applied to married life:

Ana: I dreamed that you and I would live in communion, that we would understand each other, that there would be one will between us. But reality is proving difficult and demands great suffering.
Antonio: I’m sorry, Ana. I’m sorry to be a source of suffering for you. I want that communion for us too, but it seems that the only way to achieve it is through that internal battle that arises from the clash of intellects, wills, and emotions between two so different as you and I.
Ana: Selflessness. That’s the way. St. John Paul says that from mutual submission, a precious confluence is born. So let’s start there, and the communion will be built by the Holy Spirit.

Mother,

The narrow gate is at the beginning. Then the path becomes more and more beautiful. Help us to walk it, blessed Mother.”

Spouses ablaze, Reflection for Marriages, John 16:5-11

GOSPEL
From the Gospel according to John
Jn 16:5-11

Jesus said to his disciples:
Now I am going to the one who sent me,
and not one of you asks me, ‘Where are you going?’
But because I told you this, grief has filled your hearts.
But I tell you the truth, it is better for you that I go.
For if I do not go, the Advocate will not come to you.
But if I go, I will send him to you.
And when he comes he will convict the world
in regard to sin and righteousness and condemnation:
sin, because they do not believe in me;
righteousness, because I am going to the Father
and you will no longer see me;
condemnation, because the ruler of this world has been condemned.

Word of the Lord.

Spouses ablaze.

The Lord goes to the Father, and His departure brings sadness to us, but with the coming of the Holy Spirit, our joy begins. We experience a certain sadness because we are not fully in Him, and we have that longing in our hearts, like the lovers in the Song of Songs. But full joy will come when, by His blessed Mercy, He takes us with Him. For God so loved the world that He gave His life so that ours may reach fullness.

Applied to Married Life:

Miriam: Are you aware of how much Jesus’ Heart loves us? Are you aware that His Heart burns so much for us in love that He needs us to communicate it to alleviate all that fire?
Jose: He has given me so much love for you that I have a small idea. In reality, my love for you is a small participation in His Love for us, and my heart burns more and more, and I need to communicate it to you in His name.
Miriam: Wow, that’s amazing! I had never realized that our marital love alleviates the fire of Jesus’ Heart’s Love. I love being able to love you like this.

Mother,

Jesus came to set fire to our hearts, and they are already burning. May we be spouses ablaze with His Love. Praise be to the Sacred Heart of Jesus.