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The greatest Joy. Reflection for marriages. Jhon 20:11-18

From the Gospel according to John 20:11-18

Mary Magdalene stayed outside the tomb weeping.And as she wept, she bent over into the tomband saw two angels in white sitting there,one at the head and one at the feetwhere the Body of Jesus had been.And they said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping?”She said to them, “They have taken my Lord,and I don’t know where they laid him.”When she had said this, she turned around and saw Jesus there,but did not know it was Jesus.Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping?Whom are you looking for?”She thought it was the gardener and said to him,“Sir, if you carried him away,tell me where you laid him,and I will take him.”Jesus said to her, “Mary!”She turned and said to him in Hebrew, “Rabbouni,”which means Teacher.Jesus said to her, “Stop holding on to me,for I have not yet ascended to the Father.But go to my brothers and tell them,‘I am going to my Father and your Father,to my God and your God.’”Mary went and announced to the disciples,“I have seen the Lord,”and then reported what he had told her.

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The Greatest Joy

I can only imagine the joy Jesus must have felt when He told Mary Magdalene that His Father had now become our Father too. Has there ever been a greater joy in all of human history? His joy was so overwhelming, He didn’t even wait to return to the Father before sharing it with us.
This was Christ’s ultimate victory—His glory: that we became children of God. What an incredible accomplishment! What a triumphant entrance He must have made into heaven! The Blessed Virgin surely looked upon Him with immense pride.

Applied to married life:

James: This Holy Week helped me understand how someone can go from deep sorrow to overwhelming joy in just one day.
Teresa: I’m guessing you mean the shift from Holy Saturday to Easter Sunday?
James: Exactly. It’s like watching our marriage move from a place where we didn’t see God as our Father to one where we do. Without Him, it felt impossible—like we were stuck, unable to grow, making an effort that led nowhere… But with God as our Father, everything changed: we have hope, we have joy, and we can actually see grace working in us.
Teresa: It’s a total transformation. Knowing that God is truly our Father means He cares for us and is always there to help. That’s so different from just being His creatures.

Mother,

Christ’s generosity is astonishing—He came into the world and endured humiliation just to make us His brothers and sisters. Amazing. Who is like God? Praise be to Him.

Lightness of Heart. Reflection for marriages Matthew 28:8-15

From the Gospel according to Matthew 28:8-15

Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went away quickly from the tomb,fearful yet overjoyed,and ran to announce the news to his disciples.And behold, Jesus met them on their way and greeted them.They approached, embraced his feet, and did him homage.Then Jesus said to them, “Do not be afraid.Go tell my brothers to go to Galilee,and there they will see me.”
While they were going, some of the guard went into the city and told the chief priests all that had happened.The chief priests assembled with the elders and took counsel;then they gave a large sum of money to the soldiers,telling them, “You are to say,‘His disciples came by night and stole him while we were asleep.’And if this gets to the ears of the governor,we will satisfy him and keep you out of trouble.”The soldiers took the money and did as they were instructed.And this story has circulated among the Jews to the present day.

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Lightness of Heart

Rejoice! This is the Lord’s great commandment today. It is the consequence of all the others, because one cannot be deeply joyful unless they feel deeply loved by the Lord and deeply love others.
To be joyful is the testimony that the Lord is alive and makes His saints.

Applied to Married Life:

Alison: This Holy Week brought a real shift in my spirit. 
Tom: I  could tell—something changed for the better. 
Alison: Yes, definitely. I moved from feeling burdened and constantly focused on myself to experiencing a lightness of heart. 
Tom: Lightness of heart? What does that mean exactly? 
Alison: It means letting go of self-centered thoughts and expectations and instead focusing on the Risen Lord and His will for me and for our family. 
Tom: So, it’s like going from a heavy, draining mindset to one that’s more alive, light, and easier to carry. 
Alison: Exactly. You put it so well. I’m grateful to have you to help me express what I feel. Thank you, my love.

Mother,

The Lord is risen, and our hearts are full of joy. 
Blessed and praised be His name forever.

In Just an Instant. Reflection for marriages. John 20:1-9

From the Gospel according to John. Jn, 20:1-9

On the first day of the week, Mary of Magdala came to the tomb early in the morning, while it was still dark, and saw the stone removed from the tomb. So she ran and went to Simon Peter and to the other disciple whom Jesus loved, and told them, “They have taken the Lord from the tomb, and we don’t know where they put him.” So Peter and the other disciple went out and came to the tomb. They both ran, but the other disciple ran faster than Peter and arrived at the tomb first; he bent down and saw the burial cloths there, but did not go in. When Simon Peter arrived after him, he went into the tomb and saw the burial cloths there, and the cloth that had covered his head, not with the burial cloths but rolled up in a separate place. Then the other disciple also went in, the one who had arrived at the tomb first, and he saw and believed. For they did not yet understand the Scripture that he had to rise from the dead.

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In Just an Instant.

God’s power did not choose to manifest itself against His executioners, for they too were victims of true evil. The greatest weapon of evil is death and against it, the immense power of God is made visible. It took only an instant, a single redemptive act, and death was defeated for eternity.
In just an instant, the devil is overcome. In just an instant, our despair turns into hope, darkness becomes light, and death is transformed into eternal life.
Man once again has access to the Tree of Life.
Here is where the power of God is revealed greater than all the destructive force that stained creation, the whole universe, doomed to a dramatic end.
But only if we are part of Him—in Christ—will we rise with Him in that one redemptive act. An act of immense power, in which God’s might is revealed so vast that it can contain the entire universe.
At last, the Bridegroom will become fully one with His Bride. Head and Body will become one.
Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!

Applied to married life:

Andy: Chris, it’s not worth it for us to keep competing with each other. Or defending ourselves from one another. That way we give evil a power it no longer has. I say we live as spouses who know they’ve been saved from evil—live here and now the Kingdom of God, which is only a breath away. Just one last breath—and that’s it! So why wait, if we’re already saved?

Chris: You’re right, Andy. It’s a waste of time—and it just makes us bitter. We have God’s power on our side, and we’ve seen what He can do. So count me in. I’m with you on the winning side.

Andy: God wants it. Now it’s just up to us. He has already conquered death. Alleluia!

Chris: Alleluia!

Andy: Shall we seal it with a kiss?

Mother,

Rejoice, because we will do whatever He tells us.
Praise be to the Lord who has conquered death. Glory to Him forever. Alleluia!

Shout out loud!! Reflection for marriages. Luke 24, 1-12

From the Gospel according to Luke Lk 24, 1-12.

On the first day of the week, very early in the morning, the women took the spices they had prepared and went to the tomb. They found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when they entered, they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. While they were wondering about this, suddenly two men in clothes that gleamed like lightning stood beside them. In their fright the women bowed down with their faces to the ground, but the men said to them, “Why do you look for the living among the dead? He is not here; he has risen! Remember how he told you, while he was still with you in Galilee: ‘The Son of Man must be delivered over to the hands of sinners, be crucified and on the third day be raised again.’ ”  Then they remembered his words.
When they came back from the tomb, they told all these things to the Eleven and to all the others. It was Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and the others with them who told this to the apostles. But they did not believe the women, because their words seemed to them like nonsense. Peter, however, got up and ran to the tomb. Bending over, he saw the strips of linen lying by themselves, and he went away, wondering to himself what had happened.
 
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Shout out loud!!

Lent feels so long. It seems like Easter will never come. But now—the hour of Salvation has arrived! The angels bring us the news, the same angels who announced it to the shepherds in Bethlehem. The same ones who came to Mary at the Annunciation. And now they say to us: “Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here. He has risen.”
With those words, Hope has reached us. Life, grace, the sacraments, Mary as our Mother… That Resurrection means so, so much—for you and for me…
I become aware, and that cry of joy rises up in me: You have risen, Lord! At last, I can shout again: Alleluia! And another Alleluia! And another one, adding after each Alleluia the gifts that the Resurrection of the Lord brings us.

Applied to married life:

Tony: Yesterday I felt kind of downhearted, like nothing made sense, like all effort was useless.

Matilda: Really? What happened yesterday?

Tony: Nothing specific… I just fell into the same old things again. I started seeing my life as a sort of inevitable routine, and that dragged me down.

Matilda: That happens sometimes. So, what brought you out of the darkness?

Tony: Contemplating the Resurrection of the Lord. I started going over in prayer everything I’ve received from Him—starting with forgiveness and life, then the Holy Spirit, being made a child of God, the hope we share in our Sacrament of Marriage, the hope for our children… I don’t know. A list so overwhelmingly endless of blessings and promises that all the nonsense faded away, and I ended up praising God with all my heart.

Matilda: That’s beautiful. I loved it. It moved me. Thank you for making me more aware of the gift of Redemption.

Mother,

We thank God especially for you. Without you, where would we go?
Thank You, Lord, for giving us Mary as our Mother.

Overwhelming. Reflection for marriages. John 18:1–19:42

From the Gospel according to John. Jn 18:1—19:42

Jesus went out with his disciples across the Kidron valley to where there was a garden, into which he and his disciples entered. Judas his betrayer also knew the place, because Jesus had often met there with his disciples. So Judas got a band of soldiers and guards from the chief priests and the Pharisees and went there with lanterns, torches, and weapons. Jesus, knowing everything that was going to happen to him, went out and said to them, “Whom are you looking for?” They answered him, “Jesus the Nazorean.”He said to them, “I AM.”

Judas his betrayer was also with them.

When he said to them, “I AM, “ they turned away and fell to the ground.

So he again asked them, “Whom are you looking for?”

They said, “Jesus the Nazorean.”

Jesus answered, “I told you that I AM. So if you are looking for me, let these men go.”

This was to fulfill what he had said, “I have not lost any of those you gave me.”

Then Simon Peter, who had a sword, drew it, struck the high priest’s slave, and cut off his right ear. The slave’s name was Malchus.

Jesus said to Peter, “Put your sword into its scabbard. Shall I not drink the cup that the Father gave me?”

So the band of soldiers, the tribune, and the Jewish guards seized Jesus, bound him, and brought him to Annas first. He was the father-in-law of Caiaphas, who was high priest that year. It was Caiaphas who had counseled the Jews that it was better that one man should die rather than the people.

Simon Peter and another disciple followed Jesus. Now the other disciple was known to the high priest, and he entered the courtyard of the high priest with Jesus. But Peter stood at the gate outside. So the other disciple, the acquaintance of the high priest, went out and spoke to the gatekeeper and brought Peter in.

Then the maid who was the gatekeeper said to Peter, “You are not one of this man’s disciples, are you?”

He said, “I am not.”

Now the slaves and the guards were standing around a charcoal fire that they had made, because it was cold, and were warming themselves. Peter was also standing there keeping warm. The high priest questioned Jesus about his disciples and about his doctrine.

Jesus answered him, “I have spoken publicly to the world. I have always taught in a synagogue or in the temple area where all the Jews gather, and in secret I have said nothing. Why ask me? Ask those who heard me what I said to them. They know what I said.”

When he had said this, one of the temple guards standing there struck Jesus and said, “Is this the way you answer the high priest?”

Jesus answered him, “If I have spoken wrongly, testify to the wrong; but if I have spoken rightly, why do you strike me?”

Then Annas sent him bound to Caiaphas the high priest.

Now Simon Peter was standing there keeping warm. And they said to him, “You are not one of his disciples, are you?”

He denied it and said, “I am not.”

One of the slaves of the high priest, a relative of the one whose ear Peter had cut off, said, “Didn’t I see you in the garden with him?”

Again Peter denied it. And immediately the cock crowed.

Then they brought Jesus from Caiaphas to the praetorium. It was morning. And they themselves did not enter the praetorium, in order not to be defiled so that they could eat the Passover.

So Pilate came out to them and said, “What charge do you bring against this man?”

They answered and said to him, “If he were not a criminal, we would not have handed him over to you.”

At this, Pilate said to them, “Take him yourselves, and judge him according to your law.”

The Jews answered him, “We do not have the right to execute anyone, “in order that the word of Jesus might be fulfilled that he said indicating the kind of death he would die.

So Pilate went back into the praetorium and summoned Jesus and said to him, “Are you the King of the Jews?”

Jesus answered, “Do you say this on your own or have others told you about me?”

Pilate answered, “I am not a Jew, am I? Your own nation and the chief priests handed you over to me. What have you done?”

Jesus answered, “My kingdom does not belong to this world. If my kingdom did belong to this world, my attendants would be fighting to keep me from being handed over to the Jews. But as it is, my kingdom is not here.”

So Pilate said to him, “Then you are a king?”

Jesus answered, “You say I am a king. For this I was born and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth. Everyone who belongs to the truth listens to my voice.”

Pilate said to him, “What is truth?” When he had said this, he again went out to the Jews and said to them,

“I find no guilt in him. But you have a custom that I release one prisoner to you at Passover. Do you want me to release to you the King of the Jews?”

They cried out again, “Not this one but Barabbas!”

Now Barabbas was a revolutionary.

Then Pilate took Jesus and had him scourged. And the soldiers wove a crown out of thorns and placed it on his head, and clothed him in a purple cloak, and they came to him and said, “Hail, King of the Jews!” And they struck him repeatedly.

Once more Pilate went out and said to them, “Look, I am bringing him out to you, so that you may know that I find no guilt in him.” So Jesus came out, wearing the crown of thorns and the purple cloak. And he said to them, “Behold, the man!”

When the chief priests and the guards saw him they cried out, “Crucify him, crucify him!”

Pilate said to them, “Take him yourselves and crucify him. I find no guilt in him.”

The Jews answered, “We have a law, and according to that law he ought to die, because he made himself the Son of God.”

Now when Pilate heard this statement, he became even more afraid, and went back into the praetorium and said to Jesus, “Where are you from?”

Jesus did not answer him.

So Pilate said to him, “Do you not speak to me? Do you not know that I have power to release you and I have power to crucify you?”

Jesus answered him, “You would have no power over me if it had not been given to you from above. For this reason the one who handed me over to you has the greater sin.”

Consequently, Pilate tried to release him; but the Jews cried out, “If you release him, you are not a Friend of Caesar. Everyone who makes himself a king opposes Caesar.”

When Pilate heard these words he brought Jesus out and seated him on the judge’s bench in the place called Stone Pavement, in Hebrew, Gabbatha. It was preparation day for Passover, and it was about noon. And he said to the Jews, “Behold, your king!”

They cried out, “Take him away, take him away! Crucify him!”

Pilate said to them, “Shall I crucify your king?”

The chief priests answered, “We have no king but Caesar.”

Then he handed him over to them to be crucified.

So they took Jesus, and, carrying the cross himself, he went out to what is called the Place of the Skull, in Hebrew, Golgotha. There they crucified him, and with him two others, one on either side, with Jesus in the middle. Pilate also had an inscription written and put on the cross. It read, “Jesus the Nazorean, the King of the Jews.” Now many of the Jews read this inscription, because the place where Jesus was crucified was near the city; and it was written in Hebrew, Latin, and Greek. So the chief priests of the Jews said to Pilate, “Do not write ‘The King of the Jews,’ but that he said, ‘I am the King of the Jews’.”

Pilate answered, “What I have written, I have written.”

When the soldiers had crucified Jesus, they took his clothes and divided them into four shares, a share for each soldier. They also took his tunic, but the tunic was seamless, woven in one piece from the top down. So they said to one another, “Let’s not tear it, but cast lots for it to see whose it will be, “ in order that the passage of Scripture might be fulfilled that says: They divided my garments among them, and for my vesture they cast lots. This is what the soldiers did.

Standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary of Magdala. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.

After this, aware that everything was now finished, in order that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, “I thirst.” There was a vessel filled with common wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig of hyssop and put it up to his mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine, he said, “It is finished.” And bowing his head, he handed over the spirit.

Now since it was preparation day, in order that the bodies might not remain on the cross on the sabbath, for the sabbath day of that week was a solemn one, the Jews asked Pilate that their legs be broken and that they be taken down. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first and then of the other one who was crucified with Jesus. But when they came to Jesus and saw that he was already dead, they did not break his legs, but one soldier thrust his lance into his side, and immediately blood and water flowed out. An eyewitness has testified, and his testimony is true; he knows that he is speaking the truth, so that you also may come to believe. For this happened so that the Scripture passage might be fulfilled: Not a bone of it will be broken. And again another passage says: They will look upon him whom they have pierced.

After this, Joseph of Arimathea, secretly a disciple of Jesus for fear of the Jews, asked Pilate if he could remove the body of Jesus. And Pilate permitted it. So he came and took his body. Nicodemus, the one who had first come to him at night, also came bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes weighing about one hundred pounds. They took the body of Jesus and bound it with burial cloths along with the spices, according to the Jewish burial custom.

Now in the place where he had been crucified there was a garden, and in the garden a new tomb, in which no one had yet been buried. So they laid Jesus there because of the Jewish preparation day; for the tomb was close by.

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Overwhelming.

Impressive and overwhelming is the detailed account of the Lord’s Passion. It was necessary for us to know to what extent the Lord loved us. There are even scenes that Jesus Himself must have shared with His disciples, since they could not be present.

All of this to show us His love to the very end.

Applied to married life:

Emily: It’s incredible how much the Lord loved us. Could you love me like that?

Josh: I don’t know… but I’d like to.

Emily: Let’s ask the Lord for it.

Josh: I ask You, Lord.

Mother,

You too loved us like that. Praised be our Redeemer.