From the Gospel according to John 16:16-20

Jesus said to his disciples: “A little while and you will no longer see me, and again a little while later and you will see me.” So some of his disciples said to one another, “What does this mean that he is saying to us, ‘A little while and you will not see me, and again a little while and you will see me,’ and ‘Because I am going to the Father’?” So they said, “What is this ‘little while’ of which he speaks? We do not know what he means.” Jesus knew that they wanted to ask him, so he said to them, “Are you discussing with one another what I said, ‘A little while and you will not see me, and again a little while and you will see me’? Amen, amen, I say to you, you will weep and mourn, while the world rejoices; you will grieve, but your grief will become joy.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Even When We Don’t Understand

The truth is, there were times when Jesus said things that left the disciples deep in mystery. And even when He explained them, the explanation didn’t always make things much clearer.

However, we’re sure that when His death and Resurrection took place, they finally understood what Jesus had told them.

On the Lord’s path, there are many such moments—times when we don’t understand anything. And that’s okay. We’ll understand later. It’s not a problem. There is no faith without mystery, and we walk guided by the light of faith.

Applied to Married Life:

Laura: There were times when we didn’t understand what was happening in our marriage, and that made us question it.

Sam: It’s when we don’t understand that our faith is really tested.

Laura: It’s also true that we weren’t aware that marriage is a vocation.

Sam: Or that it’s a gift from God of immeasurable depth.

Laura: Now that we understand this, even when we go through moments of mystery, we live them with faith in the love of Christ who is present among us.

Mother,

In our moments of not understanding, may we have faith so that our sadness may turn into joy. Our spirit rejoices in God our Savior. May He be praised forever.

Carmel: I would ask that, before giving your opinion, you discern each matter before the Lord, so that He may speak to us through you.

David: You’re right. I shouldn’t come up with decisions or rules on my own. We’re here to discover the truth that comes from the Holy Spirit, not to build our own version of it. Thank you for the advice. I believe it comes from the Holy Spirit, and I will take it as such.

Carmel: If you do it that way, I promise to take your proposals seriously, because I will consider them worthy of deep discernment.

From the Gospel according to John 16:5-11

Lola: How I long to see You, Jesus, but You left us for an even greater good: to send us the Holy Spirit, who guides us into the deep truth of the heart.

Luis: He enlightens our wounds, our disorder; He purifies us with His light and leads us to God.

Lola: Without the Spirit, we are at the mercy of the world, trapped in empty pleasures that pull us away from the divine and ultimately destroy us.

Luis: Thank You, Lord, for the immense gift of the Holy Spirit.

 

From the Gospel according to John. Jn 15:26, 16:4a

Jesus said to his disciples: “When the Advocate comes whom I will send you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, he will testify to me. And you also testify, because you have been with me from the beginning.
“I have told you this so that you may not fall away. They will expel you from the synagogues; in fact, the hour is coming when everyone who kills you will think he is offering worship to God. They will do this because they have not known either the Father or me. I have told you this so that when their hour comes you may remember that I told you.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Witnesses in Hard Times

When we give testimony, we usually talk about how well things have worked for us in life; of course, thanks to God. But the reality is that we can only truly give testimony of Christ when we are on our cross and through the intervention of the Holy Spirit. Only when we love in difficult situations—when the world is incapable of loving—can others see the supernatural action of the Holy Spirit in us.
The question is: Am I offering myself as a witness who suffers? If the answer is “yes,” then, as Jesus said: “When the time comes, you will remember that I told you.”

Applied to Married Life:

Michaela: Shawn, I love the Lord so much that I deeply desire for everyone to know Him.

Shawn: Then you have to bear witness to Him as a wife. How do you plan to do that?

Michaela: There’s only one way: by loving you in the most difficult moments.

Shawn: That’s a tough challenge, because when I get difficult… I really make it hard for you.

Michaela: Tell me about it… But I offer myself as a witness, ready to love you even through suffering, so that the Holy Spirit can act if He wills it.

Shawn: I can see you love the Lord very much.

Michaela: But I also offer myself because I want to love you deeply, in all those situations where I’ve not yet been able to love you as I should.

 

Mother,

We want to be spouses who bear witness to the Love of Christ. May He be praised forever.

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John

Jn 14:23-29

Jesus said to his disciples:

“Whoever loves me will keep my word,

and my Father will love him,

and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him.

Whoever does not love me does not keep my words;

yet the word you hear is not mine

but that of the Father who sent me.

“I have told you this while I am with you.

The Advocate, the Holy Spirit,

whom the Father will send in my name,

will teach you everything

and remind you of all that I told you.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.

Not as the world gives do I give it to you.

Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.

You heard me tell you,

‘I am going away and I will come back to you.’

If you loved me,

you would rejoice that I am going to the Father;

for the Father is greater than I.

And now I have told you this before it happens,

so that when it happens you may believe.”

The word of the Lord

 

Give me what You command.

The Lord grants us peace through the wounds of the cross upon His body. That is why He tells us not to let our hearts be troubled or afraid. We might worry, but thankfully, the Spirit will show us the way in all those situations where, despite suffering, we must love as He has loved us.

 

Applied to married life:

Juanjo: Some people are not open to listening to the Lord because they fear what He might ask of them. Do you fear that?

Marta: Well, I do worry that I may not be up to the task He asks of me, but I trust that the Holy Spirit will assist me in what I need.

Juanjo: Yes, as Saint Augustine said: “Give me what You command, and ask of me whatever You will.”

Marta: Exactly. With that confidence, I present myself before the Father.

 

Mother,

Grant me the gifts of the Holy Spirit that I need to be one with my spouse, as this is the mission God has entrusted to me. Thank You, Mother.