Monthly Archives: January 2025

Wanting and Being Able. Reflection to married couples. Mark 1:40-45

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark

Mark 1:40-45

A leper came to him and kneeling down begged him and said,

“If you wish, you can make me clean.”

Moved with pity, he stretched out his hand,

touched the leper, and said to him,

“I do will it. Be made clean.”

The leprosy left him immediately, and he was made clean.

Then, warning him sternly, he dismissed him at once.

Then he said to him, “See that you tell no one anything,

but go, show yourself to the priest

and offer for your cleansing what Moses prescribed;

that will be proof for them.”

The man went away and began to publicize the whole matter.

He spread the report abroad

so that it was impossible for Jesus to enter a town openly.

He remained outside in deserted places,

and people kept coming to him from everywhere.

The word of the Lord

 

Wanting and Being Able

“Wanting” and “being able” are two verbs with a vast distance between them in situations like that of the leper. But for the Lord, they always go together, because what He wants to do, He can always do, and what He can do, He always wants to do. In our case, however, in matters of love and healing, we may want a lot and be able to do nothing. And other times, we may be able to do a lot and not want to do anything. There are many times when I could love my spouse more and I don’t want to love him/her more. I don’t want to because I’m tired, or because I’m fed up, or because I think s/he don’t deserve it, or because I’m hurt by something they’ve done, or I don’t want to because I believe they don’t love me. Today, Jesus returns the phrase to me and presents my spouse wounded by sin (I close my eyes and contemplate them in my heart). After looking at them for a few moments, Jesus says to me: If you want, you can love him/her more. Let’s see if I respond like Him and say: I want to!

 

Applied to married life:

Fran: If you want, you can forgive me.

Patri: I’m very hurt by you and I don’t want to forgive you.

Fran: Will you at least give me a hug?

Patri: I don’t want to hug you because you don’t deserve it. (The next day, Patri goes to confession and the priest does not give her absolution. Upon arriving home…) Patri: Husband, I’m home. Can you come?

Fran: I’m coming!

Patri: I wanted to forgive you for yesterday. The Lord taught me a lesson today because the priest couldn’t give me absolution for my sins for not wanting to forgive you.

Fran: Oh! Thank you for forgiving me.

Patri: Will you forgive me too?

Fran: Well, now I don’t want to forgive you… Just kidding! Of course, I do. Come into my arms!

 

Mother,

How many things the Lord wants to do through us and does not do out of respect for our freedom, all those times we can but do not want to. Today we say to you: We are your servants, Lord! Praised be you.

Mr. Tired. Reflection for married couples. Mk 1:29-39

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark
Mk 1:29-39

On leaving the synagogue
Jesus entered the house of Simon and Andrew with James and John.
Simon’s mother-in-law lay sick with a fever.
They immediately told him about her.
He approached, grasped her hand, and helped her up.
Then the fever left her and she waited on them.

When it was evening, after sunset,
they brought to him all who were ill or possessed by demons.
The whole town was gathered at the door.
He cured many who were sick with various diseases,
and he drove out many demons,
not permitting them to speak because they knew him.

Rising very early before dawn,
he left and went off to a deserted place, where he prayed.
Simon and those who were with him pursued him
and on finding him said, “Everyone is looking for you.”
He told them, “Let us go on to the nearby villages
that I may preach there also.
For this purpose have I come.”
So he went into their synagogues, preaching and driving out demons
throughout the whole of Galilee.

The word of the Lord

 

Mr. Tired.

Clearly, Jesus slept very little that night. He finished late and tired, regardless He had to get up to pray, it does not matter that He is the Son of God, he still do it. Dear spouses, now is not the time to rest; the harvest is plentiful, and it is God’s will that none should be lost. So, it is not time to rest; it is time to give life.

 

Applied ton married life:

Carmen: There is something evil that plagues most of the population. Do you know what it is?
Luis: What is it?
Carmen: Tiredness. Today everyone is very tired. I myself complain very often about being tired. But I think I can’t afford it. There is much to do for the Lord and for the salvation of marriages.
Luis: You are right. I also realised that the only thing that truly rests, apart from necessary sleep, is prayer.
Carmen: Resting in the Lord. How right you are. I have resolved not to be so mindful of my supposed tiredness, because it is like a dark hole that traps me, and the more I let myself be absorbed by it, the more it traps me. So, when I feel tired, I will get up with the Lord and give more of myself or pray with Him. Will you join me?
Luis: But I’m tired.
Carmen: Hahaha, you silly. Come on, Mr.Tired, get up and give me a kiss.

 

Mother,

We have been created to give life as Christ did. Praised be He forever.

And if I get a hair implant? Reflection for married couples. Mk 1:21-28

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark

Mk 1:21-28

Jesus came to Capernaum with his followers,

and on the sabbath he entered the synagogue and taught.

The people were astonished at his teaching,

for he taught them as one having authority and not as the scribes.

In their synagogue was a man with an unclean spirit;

he cried out, “What have you to do with us, Jesus of Nazareth?

Have you come to destroy us?

I know who you are–the Holy One of God!”

Jesus rebuked him and said, “Quiet! Come out of him!”

The unclean spirit convulsed him and with a loud cry came out of him.

All were amazed and asked one another,

“What is this?

A new teaching with authority.

He commands even the unclean spirits and they obey him.”

His fame spread everywhere throughout the whole region of Galilee.

The word of the Lord

 

And if I get a hair implant?

Jesus speaks with authority because He does not speak used theories, instead what He says He will be able to do it. But there is a attribute of Jesus Christ that interests us especially today: the power over evil. He has the power to expel evil from my soul and from my marriage. Who can promise a transformation of the heart? Who can guarantee love? Who else can offer eternal life? The one who can is the one with the authority to whom I decide to submit.

 

Applied to married life:

César: I promised you, Rosa, that I would make you happy. I was naïve, without realising that it was not in my hands.

Rosa: Well, it would be infatuation that would lead you to make me that promise. I remember perfectly how you were drooling over me.

César: Actually, I never stopped loving you, but over time, I forgot how important you are to me.

Rosa: It is true that you have given me a lot, César, but you do not give me what I need.

César: Yeah. But… I’ve found the solution!

Rosa: What is that miraculous solution?

César: I am going to get a hair transplant like Brad Pitt.

Rosa: Hahaha. You’re always so witty. Look, no one can beat you at that… Hahaha. César: No, seriously. The solution is in Christ. He can indeed meet all your needs and expel from me all that harms you and affects our marriage.

Rosa: And… how are you going to bring Christ into our marriage? 

César: Bribing Saint Peter to give me the keys to His house.

Rosa: Hahaha. Again with your overwhelming ingenuity. You have no remedy… César: No, seriously. Going to the Eucharist more frequently and not missing any catechesis of Saint John Paul II even if you can’t go.

Rosa: How special you are… Thank you, César, for loving me so much.

 

Mother,

Only the authority of Christ convinces us. Praised be He forever.

What is my cause?. Reflection for married couples. Mk 1:14-20

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark
Mk 1:14-20

After John had been arrested,
Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the Gospel of God:
“This is the time of fulfilment.
The Kingdom of God is at hand.
Repent, and believe in the Gospel.”

As he passed by the Sea of Galilee,
he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting their nets into the sea;
they were fishermen.
Jesus said to them,
“Come after me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
Then they left their nets and followed him.
He walked along a little farther
and saw James, the son of Zebedee, and his brother John.
They too were in a boat mending their nets.
Then he called them.
So they left their father Zebedee in the boat
along with the hired men and followed him.

The word of the Lord

 

What is my cause?

Jesus does not present himself but hides behind the presentation of the kingdom of God. It is true that the kingdom of God is in Him, but it is not He who initially says it. The person is revealed in their cause, and the cause of the Savior is that the kingdom of God triumphs in our hearts. As always, I confront myself with Jesus and ask, what is my cause?”

 

Applied to married life

Pepe: Leli, would you be able to say what your cause is?

Leli: Of course. My cause is to give glory to God through my marriage with you. In my dedication to you and in our joint dedication to our family, everything I can offer to God with my life is at stake. Do you think I am doing it well, Pepe?

Pepe: For me, there is no better wife or mother than you.

Leli: Thank you, Pepe. Hearing that from you makes me think that the Lord is truly working in us.

Pepe: More and more, Leli, I see it more and more.

 

Mother,

The kingdom of God is here. May we know how to receive it, appreciate it, and proclaim it accordingly. Praised be Jesus Christ.

From Servants to Children. Reflection for married couples. Luke 3:15-16, 21-22

Gospel

‘When Jesus had been baptised and was praying, the heavens were opened.’
A reading from the holy Gospel according to Luke
Luke 3:15-16, 21-22

At that time: As the people were filled with expectation, and all were questioning in their hearts concerning John, whether he might be the Christ, John answered them all, saying, ‘I baptise you with water, but he who is mightier than I is coming, the strap of whose sandals I am not worthy to untie. He will baptise you with the Holy Spirit and fire.’
  Now when all the people were baptised by John the Baptist and when Jesus also had been baptised and was praying, the heavens were opened, and the Holy Spirit descended on him in bodily form, like a dove; and a voice came from heaven, ‘You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased.’

The Gospel of the Lord

From Servants to Children

We reflect on one of the most profound revelations of Jesus: God the Father and the Holy Spirit make it clear that Jesus is Lord.

This immensely significant moment sees the Spirit of Christ pass into the water, so that we too might be baptised with the Holy Spirit. It is the moment we transition from creatures to children. Our relationship with the Master (with a capital M) of the house is no longer contractual but unconditional. We are no longer servants in uniforms but members of the family, free to feel at home. Among ourselves, we are not competitors but siblings. When we make mistakes, we are forgiven, not dismissed. We no longer await a wage but an inheritance, and everything in this house is considered ours. God is my Father, and His house is my home.

Applied to Married Life:

Lauren: There’s no place like home, is there, Morgan? At home, you can relax, kick off your shoes, wear your pyjamas… you can rest in your spouse.
Morgan: Absolutely, Lauren. Home is where the heart is.
Lauren: That’s exactly how I feel in our Church community. With them, we’re like family. I feel the same when I step into a church or stand in the middle of nature. It’s my Father’s house, and I feel at home there.
Morgan: When the world doesn’t feel like home, it’s because we’ve lost our sense of being children of the same Father.
Lauren: What an incredible gift, to be children of God. It changes everything about how we experience the world when we recognise Him as our Father.

Mother,

How wonderful it is to be Your children. Praise be to Jesus Christ, who has made us children of God—nothing more, nothing less.