To Receive and to Transmit. Reflection for marriages. John 16:12-15

From the Gospel according to John 16:12-15

Jesus said to his disciples: “I have much more to tell you, but you cannot bear it now. But when he comes, the Spirit of truth, he will guide you to all truth. He will not speak on his own, but he will speak what he hears, and will declare to you the things that are coming. He will glorify me, because he will take from what is mine and declare it to you. Everything that the Father has is mine; for this reason I told you that he will take from what is mine and declare it to you.”

The Gospel of the Lord

To Receive and to Transmit

Among the Persons of the Holy Trinity, the truth is passed on by being given from one to another: the Father gives it to the Son, and the Son to the Holy Spirit, who then brings it to our understanding.
And we are called to receive it from others to whom the Holy Spirit has already transmitted it. My husband is a minister of God’s grace, and I should be attentive to what the Spirit is saying to him and what God wants to tell me through him.

Applied to Married Life:

Carmel: I would ask that, before giving your opinion, you discern each matter before the Lord, so that He may speak to us through you.

David: You’re right. I shouldn’t come up with decisions or rules on my own. We’re here to discover the truth that comes from the Holy Spirit, not to build our own version of it. Thank you for the advice. I believe it comes from the Holy Spirit, and I will take it as such.

Carmel: If you do it that way, I promise to take your proposals seriously, because I will consider them worthy of deep discernment.

Mother,

The Holy Spirit desires to transmit all truth to us. May we be open to listening to Him and to passing on the truth we receive from Him. May He be praised forever.

It is justice. Reflection for marriages. John 16:5-11

From the Gospel according to John 16:5-11

Jesus said to his disciples: “Now I am going to the one who sent me, and not one of you asks me, ‘Where are you going?’ But because I told you this, grief has filled your hearts. But I tell you the truth, it is better for you that I go. For if I do not go, the Advocate will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you. And when he comes he will convict the world in regard to sin and righteousness and condemnation: sin, because they do not believe in me; righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you will no longer see me; condemnation, because the ruler of this world has been condemned.”

 

The Gospel of the Lord

 

It is justice.

 

You understand, Lord, that it saddens us to see You go to the Father, but it is fair that You do so, for You already spent 33 years of humility and service to mankind to bring us truth and salvation. It would not be fair to ask for more.
Thank You, Lord, for everything. It fills me with joy to see You in Heaven, seated at the right hand of the Father as King of all creation. A heartfelt thank You. 

Applied to Married Life:

 

Lola: How I long to see You, Jesus, but You left us for an even greater good: to send us the Holy Spirit, who guides us into the deep truth of the heart.

Luis: He enlightens our wounds, our disorder; He purifies us with His light and leads us to God.

Lola: Without the Spirit, we are at the mercy of the world, trapped in empty pleasures that pull us away from the divine and ultimately destroy us.

Luis: Thank You, Lord, for the immense gift of the Holy Spirit.

 

Mother,

 

Just thinking about how valuable it would be to have Jesus among us helps us begin to understand the magnitude of the gift of the Holy Spirit. Praised be the Lord who has sent Him to us.

Witnesses in Hard Times. Reflection for marriages. John 15:26, 16:4a

From the Gospel according to John. Jn 15:26, 16:4a

Jesus said to his disciples: “When the Advocate comes whom I will send you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, he will testify to me. And you also testify, because you have been with me from the beginning.
“I have told you this so that you may not fall away. They will expel you from the synagogues; in fact, the hour is coming when everyone who kills you will think he is offering worship to God. They will do this because they have not known either the Father or me. I have told you this so that when their hour comes you may remember that I told you.”

The Gospel of the Lord


Witnesses in Hard Times

When we give testimony, we usually talk about how well things have worked for us in life; of course, thanks to God. But the reality is that we can only truly give testimony of Christ when we are on our cross and through the intervention of the Holy Spirit. Only when we love in difficult situations—when the world is incapable of loving—can others see the supernatural action of the Holy Spirit in us.
The question is: Am I offering myself as a witness who suffers? If the answer is “yes,” then, as Jesus said: “When the time comes, you will remember that I told you.”


Applied to Married Life:

Michaela: Shawn, I love the Lord so much that I deeply desire for everyone to know Him.

Shawn: Then you have to bear witness to Him as a wife. How do you plan to do that?

Michaela: There’s only one way: by loving you in the most difficult moments.

Shawn: That’s a tough challenge, because when I get difficult… I really make it hard for you.

Michaela: Tell me about it… But I offer myself as a witness, ready to love you even through suffering, so that the Holy Spirit can act if He wills it.

Shawn: I can see you love the Lord very much.

Michaela: But I also offer myself because I want to love you deeply, in all those situations where I’ve not yet been able to love you as I should.

 

Mother,

We want to be spouses who bear witness to the Love of Christ. May He be praised forever.

Give me what You command. Reflection for married couples. Jn 14:23-29

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John

Jn 14:23-29

Jesus said to his disciples:

“Whoever loves me will keep my word,

and my Father will love him,

and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him.

Whoever does not love me does not keep my words;

yet the word you hear is not mine

but that of the Father who sent me.

“I have told you this while I am with you.

The Advocate, the Holy Spirit,

whom the Father will send in my name,

will teach you everything

and remind you of all that I told you.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.

Not as the world gives do I give it to you.

Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.

You heard me tell you,

‘I am going away and I will come back to you.’

If you loved me,

you would rejoice that I am going to the Father;

for the Father is greater than I.

And now I have told you this before it happens,

so that when it happens you may believe.”

The word of the Lord

 

Give me what You command.

The Lord grants us peace through the wounds of the cross upon His body. That is why He tells us not to let our hearts be troubled or afraid. We might worry, but thankfully, the Spirit will show us the way in all those situations where, despite suffering, we must love as He has loved us.

 

Applied to married life:

Juanjo: Some people are not open to listening to the Lord because they fear what He might ask of them. Do you fear that?

Marta: Well, I do worry that I may not be up to the task He asks of me, but I trust that the Holy Spirit will assist me in what I need.

Juanjo: Yes, as Saint Augustine said: “Give me what You command, and ask of me whatever You will.”

Marta: Exactly. With that confidence, I present myself before the Father.

 

Mother,

Grant me the gifts of the Holy Spirit that I need to be one with my spouse, as this is the mission God has entrusted to me. Thank You, Mother.

Chosen!. Reflection for married couples. John 15:18-21

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John

John 15:18-21

Jesus said to his disciples:

“If the world hates you, realise that it hated me first.

If you belonged to the world, the world would love its own;

but because you do not belong to the world,

and I have chosen you out of the world,

the world hates you.

Remember the word I spoke to you,

‘No slave is greater than his master.’

If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you.

If they kept my word, they will also keep yours.

And they will do all these things to you on account of my name,

because they do not know the one who sent me.”

The word of the Lord

 

Chosen!

Lord, today I rejoice in appreciating the truth that I have been chosen by You to be taken out of the world. You have taken all the chosen ones out of the world, but especially my husband and me—you have drawn us out. The price to pay? That the world hates us. Blessed price, which also makes us resemble You, our Master.

 

Applied to married life:

Ana: My parents tell me that I have joined a sect and that I have been brainwashed. That so much prayer and so many Masses cannot be normal.

Jaime: I know. In my case, it’s my sister who doesn’t understand me. She thinks I should spend more time with family. But the Lord has called us, and we must obey God before men.

Ana: May the Lord enlighten us, and may He not hold it against them.

Jaime: Poor souls… I understand why they don’t understand us. Before the call of Our Mother, I would have felt the same way. But I am so happy that we are His chosen ones…

Ana: And I am too…

 

Mother,

Thank you, thank you, thank you for Your call. We are Your chosen ones. Thank you, Blessed Mother.