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Called to Obedience. Reflection ion for marriages. Luke 2:22-40

From the Gospel according to Luke 2:2240 

When the days were completed for their purification according to the law of Moses, Mary and Joseph took Jesus up to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord, just as it is written in the law of the Lord, Every male that opens the womb shall be consecrated to the Lord, and to offer the sacrifice of a pair of turtledoves or two young pigeons, in accordance with the dictate in the law of the Lord.
Now there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon. This man was righteous and devout, awaiting the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he should not see death before he had seen the Christ of the Lord. He came in the Spirit into the temple; and when the parents brought in the child Jesus to perform the custom of the law in regard to him, he took him into his arms and blessed God, saying:
“Now, Master, you may let your servant go in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation, which you prepared in the sight of all the peoples: a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and glory for your people Israel.”
The child’s father and mother were amazed at what was said about him; and Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, “Behold, this child is destined for the fall and rise of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be contradicted -and you yourself a sword will pierce- so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.” There was also a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was advanced in years, having lived seven years with her husband after her marriage, and then as a widow until she was eighty-four. She never left the temple, but worshiped night and day with fasting and prayer. And coming forward at that very time, she gave thanks to God and spoke about the child to all who were awaiting the redemption of Jerusalem.

When they had fulfilled all the prescriptions of the law of the Lord, they returned to Galilee, to their own town of Nazareth. The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom; and the favor of God was upon him.

 

Called to Obedience

Today we celebrate the day of the Presentation of Jesus in the Temple and the Purification of the Virgin Mary, a day also known as Candlemas.
Mary, although she had conceived by the work of the Holy Spirit and did not need purification, fulfilled the rite of purification forty days after giving birth and presented and consecrated her Son in the Temple, as prescribed by the Mosaic Law. This symbol points to Christ as the light that enlightens the nations. These gestures, which were not necessary for them, yet were fulfilled by Saint Joseph and Mary, teach us that, together in communion, obedience to the Law and to the fulfillment of the plan of Salvation is necessary. We are called to obedience, not in a cold or routine way, but as an act of humility, as an act of renunciation of our own criteria out of love for Love itself, who would later say to us: “Not my will, but Yours may be done.”
Marriage is an authentic school for growing in these virtues. In every daily act, we have the opportunity to live out this obedience and mutual submission to our spouse, as a free response to the Love of God. God invites us to live and to strengthen communion between spouses. Joseph and Mary received Simeon’s prophecy while they were together: it was foretold that He would be the Light and that there would be the experience of sorrow. Communion does not mean the absence of conflict or suffering, but remaining united in moments of light and in moments when “the sword comes.”

Let us welcome today this call that this reflection invites us to embrace: always to seek communion in marriage, being together, sharing intimacy, renouncing individual criteria, and presenting all of this to God in imitation of the Holy Family. Only in this way will we be able to bring the Light of God to the world around us.

 

Applied to Married Life

Carmel: Today, I think about what we lived at home at the beginning of our marriage, when everything seemed easy, and yet I realize how badly we were actually living it. I was in a bad mood all day, thinking I had made a mistake by marrying you, and I limited myself to managing the household, trying to keep things peaceful and going to bed before you even walked through the door.
Patrick: And I, trying to avoid that tense atmosphere, took refuge in work, sports, and friends.
Carmel: Thank goodness the Holy Spirit brought us our dear neighbors, Simeon and Anna, who opened our eyes to the need we had to present all our weaknesses and strengths to the Lord, going to church whenever we could.
Patrick: Yes, we’ll never have enough time to thank them. At the beginning it was very hard for us, but thanks to your determination, today it has become a real necessity to go together to daily Eucharist, to receive Communion, to pray as a couple, and thus try to live that communion with Christ in our family.
Carmel: Yes, what an immense Light the Lord gives us day by day. Now managing the house has gone into the background, and all I want is to get home to see you, hear about your day, and go to Mass together.
Patrick: And with how much of a perfectionist you are about order and cleanliness, it’s a true miracle to see what God has done in you, accepting that I’m not like that.

Carmel: Yes. If the Holy Family obeyed even the smallest details of the Law, the least I can do is allow myself to be guided humbly by the person God has sent most directly to me to be a mediator toward Him. And that person is you. At first I couldn’t accept not imposing my own criteria, but I admit that trying to live that obedience in marriage has helped me to be much more reasonable and not so demanding. So, glory to God!

 

Mother,

Help us to be humble and obedient to the teachings that your Son passed on to us through His life. Praised be you forever.

“Blessed‑Spoused”. Reflection for married couples. Matthew 5:1-12a

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Matthew 5:1-12a

When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain,

and after he had sat down, his disciples came to him.

He began to teach them, saying:

“Blessed are the poor in spirit,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are they who mourn,

for they will be comforted.

Blessed are the meek,

for they will inherit the land.

Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness,

for they will be satisfied.

Blessed are the merciful,

for they will be shown mercy.

Blessed are the clean of heart,

for they will see God.

Blessed are the peacemakers,

for they will be called children of God.

Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you

and utter every kind of evil against you falsely because of me.

Rejoice and be glad,

for your reward will be great in heaven.”

The word of the Lord

 

“BlessedSpoused”

Blessed are the poor in spirit, who ask their husband for help, recognising him as a minister of God’s grace.

Blessed are the meek, who accept themselves as they are and accept their husband as he is, without trying to change him.

Blessed are those who mourn, who neither flee nor become indifferent to their husband’s suffering or misfortunes.

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst to love and to be loved, seeking the good and the happiness of their husband.

Blessed are the merciful, who do not judge their husband, forgiving him any offence, no matter how serious.

Blessed are the pure of heart, who see God’s work in events and in their husband.

Blessed are the peacemakers, who work to cultivate peace with their husband in their heart.

Blessed are those persecuted for the sake of righteousness, who do not lose heart despite their husband’s lack of understanding.

Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven, and you may begin to live it here on earth.

Applied to married life

John and Ana were celebrating their twenty‑sixth anniversary with a weekend getaway to a sanctuary, to celebrate it together with Him. In the very early hours of the morning, alone before Him, in the half‑light, they share their happiness.

Ana: John, what is happening to us? What mystery is this?

John: Tell me, what are you discovering, what is He showing you?

Ana: A poverty that empties my soul, filling it completely with Him, and divinising it through His humanity and through yours, dear John.

An immense consolation in the midst of tears for the pain I have caused Him with my wretchedness, which soaks and purifies my spirit with His tenderness, which moves me deeply.

A true abandonment that leads me to live as though I did not live, with an indescribable meekness. He lives. He is the one who acts — do you sense it?

A hunger and thirst to please Him, so that He may restore goodness and beauty in everything and in everyone. My goodness… how beautiful you seem to me, dear John! I see your heart, and in it, I see Him: a pure heart, full of good intention.

And you, John, tell me: what are you discovering, what is He showing you?

John: His Mercy in you, Ana, in which I rest, being born anew.

A longing to open my heart wide to Him so that He may set everything in order — absolutely everything — and that I may live His peace.

A burning desire to be an offering alongside you, without fear of persecution, rejection, or the loss of security. To be, in everything, nothing. My life is Him. All that is mine is yours, Ana, for Him.

Ana: My life is Him, John. All that is mine is yours, with Him.

Together: Our life is Yours, Jesus. All that we have, in You, for others. Works, works, works… of eternal life.

Mother,

teach us to live the Beatitudes, the true face of your Son. May He be forever blessed and praised, He who redeemed us with His Blood.

The Boat of Our Heart. Reflection for married couples. Mark 4:35-41

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark 4:35-41

On that day, as evening drew on, Jesus said to his disciples:

“Let us cross to the other side.”

Leaving the crowd, they took Jesus with them in the boat just as he was.

And other boats were with him.

A violent squall came up and waves were breaking over the boat,

so that it was already filling up.

Jesus was in the stern, asleep on a cushion.

They woke him and said to him,

“Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?”

He woke up,

rebuked the wind,

and said to the sea, “Quiet! Be still!”

The wind ceased and there was great calm.

Then he asked them, “Why are you terrified?

Do you not yet have faith?”

They were filled with great awe and said to one another,

“Who then is this whom even wind and sea obey?”

The Word of the Lord

 

The Boat of Our Heart

The Lord invites us today to confront our reality, to journey into our heart and discover what lies within. The Holy Spirit dwells in our heart from the moment of our baptism, and when we marry, we embark with Jesus in our sacrament. He stepped into the boat of our marriage and has accompanied us ever since in our daily life. Yet at times we forget that Jesus is there among us; we stop counting on Him, and without realising it, we set Him aside, leaving Him at the stern. We rely on our own strength, our abilities, our effort, and begin imposing our own criteria and desires, drifting away from God’s will. We forget that everything—everything good we have—we receive from Him.

And of course, if we are not closely united with Him, our heart fills with rubbish that hides His Light and leads us into the darkness of night. When difficulties come, when trials arise in our marriage, they are like a storm we do not know how to face. The temptations of the world arrive like waves that grow and threaten to flood and sink our boat. It is then that panic seizes us and, with grace, we remember Jesus and cry out: “Lord, save us, we are perishing.”

Where is your heart set? Must a great storm come before we remember that Jesus is with us?

Husbands and wives, let us strive to see God in our spouse, and let us give ourselves wholly to our true helpmate, so that in loving them, we love Him. Let us place our trust in Christ, and that faith will safeguard our marriage.

 

 

Applied to married life

Sally: Good morning, and many happy returns on your feast day, John. I’ve brought you breakfast.

John: Thank you very much, Sally, for remembering and spoiling me. You’re a star. By the way, you’ve seemed a bit off these past days, and since yesterday I’ve noticed you’re much happier. Has something happened that I ought to know about?

Sally: Well, the truth is I’d been struggling to see things clearly for a while, and I was feeling sad, with odd thoughts going round in my head. So yesterday I went to confession, and the Lord has restored my joy. I see everything differently now.

John: It seems to me that my outlook has been clouding over as well. Perhaps it’s because I haven’t been to the confessional for more than two weeks. I think it wouldn’t be a bad idea to celebrate my feast day with the sacrament of penance.

Sally: Absolutely, John, it would be the very best thing. If you like, we can go to Mass together, you can take the opportunity to confess, and afterwards we’ll celebrate with a pint.

John: What a splendid plan! Done! Keep that time free for me.

Mother,

Help us to set aside our personal preferences so that we may always be ready to fulfil the will of God, and remain in His Grace, as You teach us by Your example. Blessed and glorious are You, Mother! Praised be the Lord for ever!

Ours is to sow. Reflection for Married Couples. Mark 4:26-34

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark 4:26-34

Jesus said to the crowds:

“This is how it is with the Kingdom of God;

it is as if a man were to scatter seed on the land

and would sleep and rise night and day

and the seed would sprout and grow,

he knows not how.

Of its own accord the land yields fruit,

first the blade, then the ear, then the full grain in the ear.

And when the grain is ripe, he wields the sickle at once,

for the harvest has come.”

He said,

“To what shall we compare the Kingdom of God,

or what parable can we use for it?

It is like a mustard seed that, when it is sown in the ground,

is the smallest of all the seeds on the earth.

But once it is sown, it springs up and becomes the largest of plants

and puts forth large branches,

so that the birds of the sky can dwell in its shade.”

With many such parables

he spoke the word to them as they were able to understand it.

Without parables he did not speak to them,

but to his own disciples he explained everything in private.

The Word of the Lord

 

Ours is to sow

What Jesus asks of us is to scatter the seed, the Good News of the Gospel. We will not make it sprout, nor cause the plants to grow, and in many cases we will not see the fruits. But that must not stop us. And even though the seed we sow may seem small, like the mustard seed, it can become a great plant that gives shade and even shelter to the birds of the sky.

And us — who sowed this seed in us? Perhaps it was our grandparents, our parents, a teacher, a priest… Now Jesus asks it of you, He asks it of me: that we carry the proclamation of “Marriage as God intended it” throughout the world, especially to the most distant corners.

Spouses, let nothing stop us! He trusts in us.

Applied to Married Life

Michael: Patricia, sometimes I get discouraged. I feel our meetings with the couple we’re mentoring don’t achieve anything.

Patricia: Honestly, that’s how it seems to me too. But I’m convinced it’s not like that, because the very fact we keep meeting is already a step towards building something.

Michael: Yes, but it’s frustrating and disheartening not to see any results.

Patricia: Michael, it’s our task to sow — to bring them the Good News of the Gospel, to give them hope that their marriage can improve and become what God intended. That little seed we plant, it’s the Lord who will make it grow.

Michael: You’re absolutely right. Forgive me for getting carried away with wanting to see outcomes. It’s clear this isn’t a business where we can measure profits…

Patricia: Treasures in Heaven. What we must do here is keep offering our little bit, and He will do the rest.

Michael: Thank you so much for helping me see the supernatural side of it. Come here, my Suitable Helper, and give me a kiss!

Mother,

Help us to scatter the seed of the Gospel in season and out of season.

Blessed and praised be the Lord!

Listen. Reflection for married couples. Mark 4:21-25

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark 4:21-25

Jesus said to his disciples,
“Is a lamp brought in to be placed under a bushel basket
or under a bed,
and not to be placed on a lampstand?
For there is nothing hidden except to be made visible;
nothing is secret except to come to light.
Anyone who has ears to hear ought to hear.”
He also told them, “Take care what you hear.
The measure with which you measure will be measured out to you,
and still more will be given to you.
To the one who has, more will be given;
from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.”

The Word of the Lord

 

Listen.

The Lord calls us; we must stay attentive and listen to what He tells us. He gives us gifts so that we may place them at His service — not to keep them for ourselves or use them only according to our own needs, but to bring light to the world by handing on what we have received.

The sacrament of marriage is a gift from the Lord, given so that through our self‑giving we may show the love of God. As spouses, we have the mission of showing the world the greatness of this gift and of being a lamp that gives light through our offering of ourselves.

Let us begin by listening to one another, so that we may reveal God’s love to all and show the beauty of our sacrament.

 

Applied to married life

Rachel: Many happy returns, my love.

Patrick: Thank you so much. What a lovely gesture — the day has barely begun, it’s only just struck midnight.

Rachel: I know you love celebrating your birthday; you’ve told me so many times, and I didn’t want to miss the chance to be the first.

Patrick: For me, you’re always the first in everything. I thought that when I mentioned celebrating my birthday you hadn’t really heard me — in fact, I got the impression you weren’t paying attention.

Rachel: Of course I was listening. I’ve learnt to pay more attention to what you tell me, so I can be closer to you.

Patrick: Thank you, truly. You know how much it helps me to know you’re attentive to what I say, even with all the silly things I sometimes come out with.

Rachel: Nothing you say is silly — everything about you matters to me. Besides, your birthday is a day to give thanks to God especially for you.

Patrick: Then let’s celebrate by beginning with giving thanks together for our marriage.

Rachel: Let’s do that — and then off to bed, because tomorrow we’ve got plenty more celebrating ahead.

 

Mother,

Help us to remain attentive to what your Son tells us through our spouse. Blessed be the Lord.