From the Gospel according to Mark 4:21-25

Jesus said to his disciples, “Is a lamp brought in to be placed under a bushel basket or under a bed, and not to be placed on a lampstand? For there is nothing hidden except to be made visible; nothing is secret except to come to light. Anyone who has ears to hear ought to hear.”

He also told them, “Take care what you hear. The measure with which you measure will be measured out to you, and still more will be given to you. To the one who has, more will be given; from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.

The gospel of the Lord

 

Love: A Gift or a Transaction?

The gospel last statement might seem a bit unfair, but it isn’t. We could rephrase it this way: Whoever loves selflessly, through God’s grace, will receive even more. But whoever engages in relationships only for personal gain will ultimately lose even what they think they have.

What is temporary eventually disappears, leaving nothing behind.

So, when it comes to my relationship with my spouse—Is it rooted in genuine love, or am I more focused on what I can get out of it?

Applied to Married Life:

Andrew: You know what they say, “You love me as long as it benefits you.”

Ana: That’s not true! I love you for who you are, not for what you can give me.

Andrew: Then why do you get so upset when I don’t meet your expectations?

Ana: I point out things you could change because I care about you and want the best for you.

Andrew: If that were the case, you wouldn’t get angry or stay upset with me for days.

Ana: You’re right about that.

Andrew: So, do you love me despite my flaws?

Ana: Yes, I do. I just need to work on letting go of my pride so that your shortcomings don’t affect me so much.

Andrew: Thank you for admitting that, my love. That shows your humility and the depth of your love.

Mother,

We desire only God and true unity. May He be praised forever.