From the Gospel according to Luke 2:41-51

His parents went to Jerusalem every year at the Feast of the Passover.  And when He was twelve years old, they went up to Jerusalem according to the custom of the feast.  When they had finished the days, as they returned, the Boy Jesus lingered behind in Jerusalem. And Joseph and His mother did not know it;  but supposing Him to have been in the company, they went a day’s journey, and sought Him among their relatives and acquaintances. So when they did not find Him, they returned to Jerusalem, seeking Him.  Now so it was that after three days they found Him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, both listening to them and asking them questions.  And all who heard Him were astonished at His understanding and answers.  So when they saw Him, they were amazed; and His mother said to Him, “Son, why have You done this to us? Look, Your father and I have sought You anxiously.”
And He said to them, “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?” But they did not understand the statement which He spoke to them.
Then He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was subject to them, but His mother kept all these things in her heart.

Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary

When we read this Gospel passage, it’s clear that Joseph and Mary never blamed each other for losing Jesus. Even in their worry, they searched for Him together. Our children—and everyone around us—need to see us united as a couple, living out God’s will. More than words, they learn from the way we live our faith.

Today we remember the Immaculate Heart of Mary. She was humble and small in the eyes of the world, but the greatest of all because she became the Mother of God. We’re called to become Her servants, just as She was a servant of the Lord. Like her, we should always seek God’s will, no matter the situation.

As married couples, we can serve each other in love. Not to push our own opinions, but to grow in humility—trusting that the Holy Spirit works through both of us. By doing this, we build true unity. And what better way to do that than by giving our hearts and our marriage to Mary?

Mary was the first to carry Jesus within her. She received Him fully into her body and heart, which makes her the perfect guide for us. St. Louis de Montfort said in his True Devotion to Mary that Mary is the easiest, shortest, and surest path to Jesus. That’s why we invite you to consecrate yourselves to her—to let go and trust in her, so she can lead you closer to Christ.

Applyed to Married Life:

Dan: I was thinking we could take a trip to the beach this weekend. How does that sound?
Mary: (She thinks: we had actually planned a mountain hike because of the heat…) That sounds like a great idea, love! I’ll get the swimsuits and towels ready.
Dan: I don’t know if it’s just me, but lately it seems like you agree with me on everything. We used to argue over what to do…
Mary: You’re right, Dani. A month ago, I made my consecration to the Virgin Mary, and I’m trying to live like she would. Before I respond or make a decision, I pray and ask what she might do. It’s becoming easier, and I feel more at peace.
Dan: I’ve tried it before, but I find it hard to stay committed. I lose motivation.
Mary: What if we do the consecration together?
Dan: But you already did it. Would you really do it again?
Mary: Of course! First, because we should renew our consecration every day. And second, doing it with you would be so meaningful—it would give us more time to pray together.

Mother Mary,

Help us to become your faithful servants, so that we may have a heart like yours— a heart that treasure and pray over the plans God has for our marriage.