GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke

LK 14:25-33

Great crowds were traveling with Jesus,

and he turned and addressed them,

“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother,

wife and children, brothers and sisters,

and even his own life,

he cannot be my disciple.

Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me

cannot be my disciple.

Which of you wishing to construct a tower

does not first sit down and calculate the cost

to see if there is enough for its completion?

Otherwise, after laying the foundation

and finding himself unable to finish the work

the onlookers should laugh at him and say,

‘This one began to build but did not have the resources to finish.’

Or what king marching into battle would not first sit down

and decide whether with ten thousand troops

he can successfully oppose another king

advancing upon him with twenty thousand troops?

But if not, while he is still far away,

he will send a delegation to ask for peace terms.

In the same way,

everyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions

cannot be my disciple.”

Calculation of strengths

Have I made the calculations? It’s clear that building a marriage is completely beyond my abilities. I need God’s Love, but to rely on Him, I must first abandon everything to Him. Yes, everything! Is it daunting? The alternative is failure in marriage and family, failure in the Love for which I was created.

I want to follow You, Lord, and I even renounce myself, so that You may be the one to accomplish the work.

Applied to Married Life

Luis: I spent so many years trying to make you love me, to make you desire me, to fill your heart with my love. Only now, since I truly converted and gave myself entirely to the Lord, has He begun to do through me what I couldn’t do on my own.

Marisa: Lord, thank You for my husband. Husband, I thank you for receiving the Lord. Being filled with Him fills my heart.

Luis: The Lord allows me to put everything else aside—my wife, my children… But He does not ask me to abandon you; He only asks that I set you aside for a moment because I first need Him, I need to be filled with His Love.

Mother,

With fear and trembling I say to you: Do not allow me to stray from Your Immaculate Heart. Outside of You, I cannot be. Thank you, Blessed Mother.

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke

LK 14:15-24

One of those at table with Jesus said to him,

“Blessed is the one who will dine in the Kingdom of God.”

He replied to him,

“A man gave a great dinner to which he invited many.

When the time for the dinner came,

he dispatched his servant to say to those invited,

‘Come, everything is now ready.’

But one by one, they all began to excuse themselves.

The first said to him,

‘I have purchased a field and must go to examine it;

I ask you, consider me excused.’

And another said, ‘I have purchased five yoke of oxen

and am on my way to evaluate them;

I ask you, consider me excused.’

And another said, ‘I have just married a woman,

and therefore I cannot come.’

The servant went and reported this to his master.

Then the master of the house in a rage commanded his servant,

‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town

and bring in here the poor and the crippled, the blind and the lame.’

The servant reported, ‘Sir, your orders have been carried out

and still there is room.’

The master then ordered the servant,

‘Go out to the highways and hedgerows

and make people come in that my home may be filled.

For, I tell you, none of those men who were invited will taste my dinner.’”

 

This is the Gospel of “yes, but…”

The answer is “yes,” but what’s missing is the immediacy in the “yes.” However, the response of the man who has invited everyone is that none of guests will taste the banquet.

Is my response to God’s will immediate? And is my response to my husband’s needs—even to simply please him—immediate?

 

Applied to Married Life

Jaime: Did you notice the three excuses the Lord mentions in this Gospel? One is for earthly possessions, another for work, and another for family relationships. These are exactly the three excuses given by the couples we mentor when they say they don’t have time for marital prayer or daily Eucharist.

Lucia: It’s sad, isn’t it? They think they’re saving time by not praying, but they don’t realise how much time they’re actually losing by not praying.

Jaime: Absolutely. Just in arguments alone—how much time is wasted, right?

 

Mother,

May we never make excuses to avoid the Lord’s call, however, whenever, and wherever He wills. Amen.

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke
Lk 14:12-14

On a sabbath Jesus went to dine
at the home of one of the leading Pharisees.
He said to the host who invited him,
“When you hold a lunch or a dinner,
do not invite your friends or your brothers or sisters
or your relatives or your wealthy neighbours,
in case they may invite you back and you have repayment.
Rather, when you hold a banquet,
invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind;
blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you.
For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”

The word of the Lord

 

Nothing to Give Him

Usually, we expect to be reciprocated in love. If we give more of ourselves, we hope for a greater response in return. In contrast, we look to God’s Love, which we cannot reciprocate because He is all in all. The only significant thing we can offer Him is the very gift of His own Sacrifice, which He has given to us.

We might feel inadequate for this, as we have nothing of our own to give Him, except our sins for Him to heal. But we can welcome Him. As the Bride of Christ, we can receive His sacrifice and use it to build up our hearts for His greater Glory.

 

Applied to Married Life

Carlos: Have you comforted the Lord today?

Marta: Yes, today has been a special day to bring Him comfort.

Carlos: And what did you do for Him?

Marta: What I did was to be grateful for so much Love and to embrace in faith the grace of the Sacrament of the Eucharist, as well as the grace of our own Sacrament through you, also in faith. The Heart of Jesus is burning with Love, and it aches if we do not receive it and share it with each other without asking for anything in return. I also receive Him through you, my husband, by the strength of our Sacrament.

 

Mother,

May we learn to receive all the Love that the Lord wants to give us. May our hearts be set ablaze. Praise be to God.

GOSPEL

You are not far from the kingdom of God
A reading from the holy Gospel according to Mark
Mark 12:28-34

One of the scribes came up to Jesus and put a question to him, ‘Which is the first of all the commandments?’ Jesus replied, ‘This is the first: Listen, Israel, the Lord our God is the one Lord, and you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: You must love your neighbour as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.’ The scribe said to him, ‘Well spoken, Master; what you have said is true: that he is one and there is no other. To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and strength, and to love your neighbour as yourself, this is far more important than any holocaust or sacrifice.’ Jesus, seeing how wisely he had spoken, said, ‘You are not far from the kingdom of God.’ And after that no one dared to question him any more.

The Gospel of the Lord

A Step Towards a “Yes”

The first commandment is not: You will lead many catechism classes, evangelise many people, organise numerous retreats, or ensure everything is perfectly arranged. The first commandment is about my intimate relationship with the Lord and my complete “yes” to Him. For married couples, our way of giving ourselves fully to the Lord is by giving ourselves completely to each other.
The result of this will be love and service to others, sharing with them what we have received from God. That’s why a single step towards a true “yes” is worth more in heaven than a thousand half-hearted steps.
Christ’s “yes” showed us this, followed by Mary’s “yes”, then the “yes” of the Apostles, and after them, the “yes” of every Saint. Through these “yeses”, God saves the world.

Applied to Married Life:

Oscar: Every day, when we renew our marriage vows during the offertory at the Eucharist, I feel an immense emotion in that moment when you reaffirm your commitment to me.
Elizabeth: Every day, after so many years?
Oscar: Yes. It’s as though the Lord lets me experience the profound power and priceless worth of the first commandment. I feel it echo in my heart…
Elizabeth: “With all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, with all your strength…”
Oscar: Exactly. There is no commitment of greater worth than this.
Elizabeth: I see. I ask the Lord to help me see and value it as you do. Thank you, my true partner.

Mother,

The worth of Your “yes”. I am aware of what God accomplished through Your “yes”. We, too, unite our small “yes” with all our heart, all our mind, and all our being. Praise be to the Almighty Lord of Love.

GOSPEL

The dead will hear the voice of the Son of God
A reading from the holy Gospel according to John
John 5:24-29

Jesus said to the Jews:
I tell you most solemnly,
whoever listens to my words,
and believes in the one who sent me,
has eternal life;
without being brought to judgement
he has passed from death to life.
I tell you most solemnly,
the hour will come – in fact it is here already –
when the dead will hear the voice of the Son of God,
and all who hear it will live.
For the Father, who is the source of life,
has made the Son the source of life;
and, because he is the Son of Man,
has appointed him supreme judge.
Do not be surprised at this,
for the hour is coming when the dead will leave their graves
at the sound of his voice:
those who did good will rise again to life;
and those who did evil, to condemnation.

The Gospel of the Lord

The Key Moment

There is a key moment that sets apart the life we live now from the moment when, God willing, we will enter His Glory. This is the incomparable moment of the beatific vision of God. In that moment, that vision will impact us so profoundly that it will bring about a sublime transformation within each of us.
In that instant, we will finally become what God envisioned for us—a version of ourselves we could never have imagined. Above all, through the beatific vision, we will reach the summit of love and communion for which we were created, leaving us with an insatiable thirst until we attain it.
Then, praises to God will arise from our depths with the full strength of our hearts.

Applied to Married Life:

Charles: The more my love for you and for the Lord grows, the deeper my thirst becomes, and the more I long to reach the fullness of love and communion.
Linda: We were made for heaven; we were created for Christ, and our hearts won’t rest until they find their home in Him.
Charles: That hope, honestly, makes me detach from worldly things and long for the day I leave this world. Otherwise, we’d be clinging to this life, and our end would be a true tragedy. Dying is no easy passage, but I long for it, just to be one with you and with God.

Mother,

How wonderful it is to know the destiny the Father has prepared for us. We are unaware and undeserving. Praise be to the Lord, and even greater praise will be given in the beatific vision of God.