Monthly Archives: November 2024

Thank you for loving him so much. Reflection for marriages. Lk 17, 7-10

Gospel

 

From the Gospel according to Luke. LK 17,7-10.
But which of you, having a servant plowing or feeding cattle, will say to him when he is come from the field, go and sit down to eat? And will not rather say to him, Make ready wherewith I may sup, and gird thyself, and serve me, till I have eaten and drunken; and afterward thou shalt eat and drink?
Doth he thank that servant because he did the things that were commanded him? I trow not.

So likewise you, when you shall have done all those things which are commanded you, say, we are useless servants: we have done that which was our duty to do.

 

The Gospel of the Lord.
 

Thank you for loving him so much.

 

The essence of the Christian life is to recognize oneself as small so that everything I do points to Christ as the author of all. What I do in my own name is vanity of vanities. What I do in the name of the Lord, and with the power of the Lord, is for the greater glory of God. That is for eternity.

 

Applied to married life:

 

Luke: Lord, today I looked at my wife with compassion and love in a moment when she was rejecting me. I know that love doesn’t come from me; it comes from You, and I have no merit in it. It was You who reached out to her and rescued her. Thank you, Lord, for loving my wife so much.

Janet: Thank you, Lord, for helping me love my husband today, even when I was speaking to him about something so important to me and he didn’t even pause what he was doing to listen. I felt alone, overlooked, misunderstood. But even so, You helped me look upon my husband with tenderness, knowing that he loves me dearly but doesn’t yet have the sensitivity to notice these details. Lord, he has so many good qualities, so much value in himself… And You gave me light in that moment. Thank you, Lord, for allowing me to love him with Your love.

 

Mother,

 

We are useless servants. We have only done our duty. Blessed be the Maker of all.

Empowering Gaze. Reflection for married couples. Mk 12:38-44

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Mark

Mk 12:38-44

In the course of his teaching Jesus said to the crowds,

“Beware of the scribes, who like to go around in long robes

and accept greetings in the marketplaces,

seats of honour in synagogues,

and places of honour at banquets.

They devour the houses of widows and, as a pretext

recite lengthy prayers.

They will receive a very severe condemnation.”

He sat down opposite the treasury

and observed how the crowd put money into the treasury.

Many rich people put in large sums.

A poor widow also came and put in two small coins worth a few cents.

Calling his disciples to himself, he said to them,

“Amen, I say to you, this poor widow put in more

than all the other contributors to the treasury.

For they have all contributed from their surplus wealth,

but she, from her poverty, has contributed all she had,

her whole livelihood.”

The word of the Lord.

 

Empowering Gaze

Fortunately for me, God doesn’t measure by objective standards but by the intention and heart we put into what we offer. This is the Heart of Jesus, who loves me so much that He wants to feel loved by me. He eagerly looks for any small desire, any small gesture I make to Him, to give infinite value in His Heart and present it to the Father. Today, I see His overflowing generosity, not only in what He gives me but also in how He makes shine every small act of love I offer to Him or to my husband.

Give me a heart like Yours, Lord, so that I may appreciate my husband’s acts of love with that empowering gaze of Your Mercy.

 

Applied to Married Life

Miryan: When I learned from Saint John Paul that, as a wife, I should receive your love as my husband—not by my own standards, but by God’s standard—I asked the Lord to grant me this, and I began to contemplate your acts of love from His perspective. I used to see them as small and insignificant, and I dismissed them for that reason, but the Lord is helping me truly savour them.

Juan: That’s beautiful, Miryan. Thank you for sharing this with me. It’s true I’m not very detail-oriented and a bit rough around the edges, but I want to improve in how I show my love to you.

Miryan: Don’t worry, Juan; I see your efforts and enjoy your good intentions toward me. I’ve also realised you love me far more than I imagined. I love you just as you are.

Juan: Thank you for valuing me so much and for recognising the love I have for you in my heart. I love you deeply.

 

Mother,

How much you elevate and beautify each act of love I offer to You and to my husband. May we look at each other this way as a married couple. Praised be the Lord who does so much with so little.

In Every Corner. Reflection for married couples. Jn 2:13-22

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to John

Jn 2:13-22

Since the Passover of the Jews was near,

Jesus went up to Jerusalem.

He found in the temple area those who sold oxen, sheep, and doves,

as well as the money-changers seated there.

He made a whip out of cords

and drove them all out of the temple area, with the sheep and oxen,

and spilled the coins of the money-changers

and overturned their tables,

and to those who sold doves he said,

“Take these out of here,

and stop making my Father’s house a marketplace.”

His disciples recalled the words of Scripture,

Zeal for your house will consume me.

At this the Jews answered and said to him,

“What sign can you show us for doing this?”

Jesus answered and said to them,

“Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.”

The Jews said,

“This temple has been under construction for forty-six years,

and you will raise it up in three days?”

But he was speaking about the temple of his Body.

Therefore, when he was raised from the dead,

his disciples remembered that he had said this,

and they came to believe the Scripture

and the word Jesus had spoken.

The word of the Lord

 

In Every Corner

Jesus gave His human Body so that He could be Sacramentally present in every corner of the world today. It’s wonderful to be in front of the Blessed Sacrament in Paraguay today, and just a few days ago to have been able to adore Him in Buenos Aires. And… how much have we received from Him! Thank you, Lord, for giving us Your Body, without it, we cannot do anything.

 

Applied to Married Life

Lorenzo: I’m so amazed when I admire your wonderful body…

Catalina: Well, it’s not quite what it used to be; it’s a bit old now.

Lorenzo: That doesn’t matter. It still has an impressive grandeur and beauty because it’s the temple of the Holy Spirit. Thank God, He has given me the eyes to honour it. Catalina: I love how you look at me now. Your gaze seems so delicate and pure. I feel as if God is looking at me through you.

Lorenzo: Praised be God. Catalina: Praised be He forever.

 

Mother,

In your womb, the Body of Christ was formed. Thank you, Mother, for bringing us such an immense gift. Praised be God.

What is from God…Reflection for married couples. LK 16:1-8

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke

LK 16:1-8

Jesus said to his disciples, “A rich man had a steward

who was reported to him for squandering his property.

He summoned him and said,

‘What is this I hear about you?

Prepare a full account of your stewardship,

because you can no longer be my steward.’

The steward said to himself, ‘What shall I do,

now that my master is taking the position of steward away from me?

I am not strong enough to dig and I am ashamed to beg.

I know what I shall do so that,

when I am removed from the stewardship,

they may welcome me into their homes.’

He called in his master’s debtors one by one.

To the first he said, ‘How much do you owe my master?’

He replied, ‘One hundred measures of olive oil.’

He said to him, ‘Here is your promissory note.

Sit down and quickly write one for fifty.’

Then to another he said, ‘And you, how much do you owe?’

He replied, ‘One hundred measures of wheat.’

He said to him, ‘Here is your promissory note;

write one for eighty.’

And the master commended that dishonest steward for acting prudently.

For the children of this world

are more prudent in dealing with their own generation

than the children of light.”

The word of the Lord.

 

What is from God…

Any owner from this world hires managers for their own profit. But God, the owner of all things, chooses His stewards to distribute His riches among many, so that even the stewards themselves gain more. Therefore, what would be considered an unfaithful manager by the world’s standards becomes a faithful one to God’s eyes.

Today’s guiding principle could be: Give what is from God and become part of Him. The Love of God is the only good that, the more you share, the more you have.

 

Applied to Married Life

Paco: Do you know that I love you?

Carmen: Yes, I know you really love me.

Paco: And what can I do to make you feel even more loved?

Carmen: Continue getting closer to the Lord and filling yourself with Him so that you can fill me with His Love. Paco: I love that. That’s why the Lord chose me for you.

 

Mother,

Thank you for being the mediator of all graces. Blessed are you, Mother, for all that you have given us.

A Thread. Reflection for married couples. LK 15:1-10

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Luke

LK 15:1-10

The tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to listen to Jesus,

but the Pharisees and scribes began to complain, saying,

“This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”

So Jesus addressed this parable to them.

“What man among you having a hundred sheep and losing one of them

would not leave the ninety-nine in the desert

and go after the lost one until he finds it?

And when he does find it,

he sets it on his shoulders with great joy

and, upon his arrival home,

he calls together his friends and neighbors and says to them,

‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’

I tell you, in just the same way

there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents

than over ninety-nine righteous people

who have no need of repentance.

“Or what woman having ten coins and losing one

would not light a lamp and sweep the house,

searching carefully until she finds it?

And when she does find it,

she calls together her friends and neighbors

and says to them,

‘Rejoice with me because I have found the coin that I lost.’

In just the same way, I tell you,

there will be rejoicing among the angels of God

over one sinner who repents.”

The word of the Lord

A Thread

How ugly is to gossip, and how beautiful is the joy over those who turn back to God. How wonderful it is to look at the sinner with the hope of finding even a small thread, which, if gently pulled, might lead them to conversion. Indeed, there is no act of love more beautiful between us than the acts of repentance and asking for forgiveness. These are truly beautiful acts of love that bring immense joy to the entire Church.

Applied to Married Life

Jack: While I was praying, feeling deeply sorry for what I said to you yesterday, I asked the Lord, “What can I do to relief the pain I caused my wife?” And the Lord said to me, “Your wife loves you, which means the greatest joy you can give her is to show her your repentance and ask for her forgiveness.”

Monica: How well the Lord knows me! First, because He knows how much I love you, and second, because He knows that there is no greater joy for me than seeing you return to Him and return to me.

Jack: Forgive me, my wife, for not treating you with the dignity and gentleness you deserve as a daughter of God and my wife.

Mónica: I forgive you, my husband, and I restore in my heart the dignity that is yours as my husband and as a son of God.

Mother,

Blessed be Jesus Christ, who came to rescue us to make us His own. Praised be He. Amen