From the Gospel according to Matthew 22:1-14
Jesus again in reply spoke to the chief priests and the elders of the people in parables saying, “The Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who gave a wedding feast for his son. He dispatched his servants to summon the invited guests to the feast, but they refused to come. A second time he sent other servants, saying, ‘Tell those invited: “Behold, I have prepared my banquet, my calves and fattened cattle are killed, and everything is ready; come to the feast.”’ Some ignored the invitation and went away, one to his farm, another to his business. The rest laid hold of his servants,
mistreated them, and killed them. The king was enraged and sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city.
Then the king said to his servants, ‘The feast is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy to come. Go out, therefore, into the main roads
and invite to the feast whomever you find.’ The servants went out into the streets and gathered all they found, bad and good alike, and the hall was filled with guests. But when the king came in to meet the guests he saw a man there not dressed in a wedding garment. He said to him, ‘My friend, how is it that you came in here without a wedding garment?’ But he was reduced to silence. Then the king said to his attendants, ‘Bind his hands and feet, and cast him into the darkness outside, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.’ Many are invited, but few are chosen.”
A Dignified and Pure Life
While preparing this reflection, another Gospel passage comes to mind (Jn 14:2–3), where Jesus tells His disciples, and tells us, that He is going to prepare a place for us, and that He will return to take us with Him, so that where He is, we also may be. The Lord constantly shows us His desire for us to be with Him and the Father. He never stops looking for us. He reveals to us His Heart, burning with Love, and pleads with us through St. Margaret Mary Alacoque, “At least you, love me.”
In connection with the phrase: “Many are called, but few are chosen.” St. John Chrysostom said: “With these words the Lord does not want to discourage us, but to warn us: it is not enough to be called and to have entered; it is also necessary to remain with the wedding garment, that is, with a dignified and pure life.” (Homilies on Matthew, hom. 69,2)
Paul: This new life revealed to us through the catecheses of St. John Paul II, interpreted through the lens of marriage, never ceases to amaze me. When I read and pray with them, my heart fills with the desire for a better life. They help me see life differently and they help me see you differently.
Karen: Yes, it’s wonderful. How it has changed us and changed our marriage! Now, whenever suspicion creeps in between us, we already know what’s happening and what we need to do.
Paul: Yes, we need to put on the wedding garment.
Karen (looking puzzled): The wedding garment? I don’t get it.
Paul: Yes, to recover our dignity and purity of heart. To renew our desire to give ourselves fully to one another, leaning on grace.
Karen: Oh, what a scare! I thought you meant putting on my actual wedding dress. Who knows how it would even fit me now. If I could even get into it! hahahahaha.
Paul: Well, just imagine me trying to fit into mine! hahahahaha.
You, who are the Immaculate Conception, the most dignified creature God has ever made, help us to long for a life that is dignified and pure, and to give ourselves completely to one another for the greater glory of the Father. Blessed be your Son Jesus, who never ceases to seek us.
