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Fidelity and Trust. Reflection for married couples. Luke 21:5-11

Gospel

‘There will not be left here one stone upon another.’

Luke 21:5-11

At that time: While some were speaking of the Temple, how it was adorned with noble stones and offerings, Jesus said, ‘As for these things that you see, the days will come when there will not be left here one stone upon another that will not be thrown down.’ And they asked him, ‘Teacher, when will these things be, and what will be the sign when these things are about to take place?’ And he said, ‘See that you are not led astray. For many will come in my name, saying, “I am he!” and, “The time is at hand!” Do not go after them. And when you hear of wars and tumults, do not be terrified, for these things must first take place, but the end will not be at once.’
  Then he said to them, ‘Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be great earthquakes, and in various places famines and pestilences. And there will be terrors and great signs from heaven.’

The Gospel of the Lord

 

Fidelity and Trust

Through this Gospel, Jesus urges us to set our gaze on what truly matters: placing all our trust in Him, while remaining vigilant against temptations and the deceptions of false prophets.
Today, we want our children to learn several languages, to acquire endless professional skills, to study abroad… and all of that is good in itself. But we should ask ourselves: Are we educating them for the Kingdom of God—the only thing that is truly important?
And what about us, as spouses? Is our life adorned with many “precious stones and votive offerings”? Perhaps we place our confidence above all in our social circles, in keeping busy with endless plans, in material comforts, or in being seen as “the ones to follow”. But do these things really draw us closer to God, or do they simply inflate our vanity and tie us to earthly concerns?
We must remain faithful to our vocation: holiness within marriage. We must strive daily for it and help other couples discover the beauty of this call, so they do not settle for superficialities. Once we are clear about our goal, everything else will fall into its proper place.
Our goal is Heaven.
Applied to Married Life

Martha: Darling, have you noticed how stylish Lily always looks?
Albert: To be honest, I much prefer seeing how beautiful you are—inside, and yes, on the outside too. You have a beauty no treatment or make-up could ever produce. All those hours you give to the Lord, the love you pour into everything you do for Him… it radiates from you. It’s a light no one can manufacture by thinking only of themselves.
Martha: It’s true that since I’ve tried to do everything as Our Lady would—my work, the cooking, caring for the children, being with you—I’ve discovered a happiness that I know isn’t mine. It’s a gift from the Lord.
Albert: If I’m honest, there were times I wished you’d make a little more effort with your appearance… but the Lord is helping me to detach from material things and to see with His eyes, with a more supernatural gaze. It has turned out to be a real blessing; it’s helping me focus more on my interior life too.
Martha: I’ve told you more than once—I can really see how you’re changing since you’ve been taking your prayer life more seriously. The other day, Samuel told me he sees you differently: happier, calmer. Let’s ask the Lord to keep us faithful to what truly matters.

Mother,

We long to follow in your footsteps, to discern what really matters, and to remain firmly on the path of holiness. Glory to the Lord who makes it possible!

Giving everything. Reflection for married couples. Luke 21:1-4

Gospel

‘He saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins.’
Luke 21:1-4

At that time: Jesus looked up and saw the rich putting their gifts into the offering box, and he saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins. And he said, ‘Truly, I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Giving Everything

The Lord never looks at the amount we give, but at the quality of the heart with which it is offered. The poor widow gave very little in the eyes of the world, but in God’s eyes it was an immense gift—because she gave what she had, not what she could spare.
This is precisely what God asks of us in marriage: true love is not measured by grand, occasional gestures, but by the humble, sincere, daily giving of ourselves.
In married life, one of the two may often feel like that widow—short on time, energy, and strength, weighed down by worries and responsibilities. And yet, when even in that state one offers a genuine smile, a kind word, a gesture of tenderness, or a small act of service, that “tiny offering” becomes something infinitely valuable. It is giving from poverty, not from abundance.
There are also times when we keep certain “reserves”: time we don’t share, emotions we hide, chores we leave to the other, inner spaces we refuse to open. Jesus reminds us that conjugal love grows when we learn to give not only what costs us nothing, but what truly means something to us. That kind of giving is fruitful.
In marriage, as in this Gospel, the small, faithful gestures of everyday love are worth far more than a hundred occasional displays of affection. For greatness in married life lies not in the quantity of what we give, but in the wholeness of the heart with which we give it.

Applied to Married Life

Mary: I was reading about the widow who gave her two small coins, and I thought, “That’s me—coming home with two drops of energy left in the tank!”
James: Well, I receive those two drops like they’re liquid gold—better than a double espresso.
Mary: Don’t be so sure… sometimes I’m so tired that all I can manage is half a smile and an “I’ll talk to you later.” That’s my version of the two coins.
James: And I’m still delighted, because that half-smile is a total investment—with no return expected.
Mary: And what about you? There are days when your contribution to our marriage is… shall we say… “symbolic.”
James: Hey now! My two coins include washing one plate, telling you you’re beautiful, and not complaining when I see the credit card bill. That’s heroic love right there.
Mary: So we’re basically the widow from the Gospel—just in the modern, married version: giving the little we have each day.
James: Exactly. And with our two daily coins, we’ll end up rich… even if only in patience!

Mother,

Mary, teach us to offer our “two small coins” each day within our marriage. Turn our small daily offerings into a great and faithful love.
Blessed be Our Lord and Our Mother.

Resurrected spouses. Reflection for married couples. Luke 20:27-40

Gospel of the day

From the Gospel accoording to Luke 20:27-40

Some Sadducees, those who deny that there is a resurrection,
came forward and put this question to Jesus, saying,
“Teacher, Moses wrote for us,
If someone’s brother dies leaving a wife but no child,
his brother must take the wife
and raise up descendants for his brother.
Now there were seven brothers;
the first married a woman but died childless.
Then the second and the third married her,
and likewise all the seven died childless.
Finally the woman also died.
Now at the resurrection whose wife will that woman be?
For all seven had been married to her.”
Jesus said to them,
“The children of this age marry and remarry;
but those who are deemed worthy to attain to the coming age
and to the resurrection of the dead
neither marry nor are given in marriage.
They can no longer die,
for they are like angels;
and they are the children of God
because they are the ones who will rise.
That the dead will rise
even Moses made known in the passage about the bush,
when he called ‘Lord’
the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob;
and he is not God of the dead, but of the living,
for to him all are alive.”
Some of the scribes said in reply,
“Teacher, you have answered well.”
And they no longer dared to ask him anything.

Resurrected spouses

Today Jesus invites us to lift our gaze and recognise who we are and what we are called to. We are children of God, conceived in the Father’s heart so that we may return to Him and live eternally. Yet we allow ourselves to become entangled in worldly reasoning, through which the devil makes us doubt the goodness of God’s law, leading us away from Him.
The Sadducees did not believe in the resurrection, and Jesus told them that the Lord is a God of the living, not of the dead. Today, much of the world does not believe in the indissolubility of marriage, but just as He said to the Pharisees, Jesus tells us that man and woman are made to be one flesh, and that what God has joined, no human being must divide. When, out of love for my spouse, I welcome him exactly as he is, and I give myself fully exactly as I am, we can already begin to taste in this life a small portion of the happiness Jesus promises us in the resurrection. We are witnesses to so many marriages that, upon discovering the beauty and greatness of marriage as God intended it, have been resurrected by the Lord, that we can no longer doubt His Word.
Spouses, let us live marriage as God designed it, and we will discover how joy floods our lives.

Brought Down to Married Life

Jonathan: Emma, will you share with me what’s going on? For days now, even when I tell you I disagree with something you say, you don’t argue about anything, and you always seem cheerful. I like it—but I’m surprised. I can’t quite figure out what’s happening.
Emma: Do you remember how, at the Marital Love Project retreat, they told us that the change in our marriage would begin with each of us changing individually? Well, I’m trying to put that into practice in my life.
Jonathan: And what are you doing exactly?
Emma: I’m trying to go to Mass every day and to go to confession frequently. I try to do things the way you like them, to please you. And I try to see in everything you say the will of God for us. That’s why I don’t argue when you think differently from me—I understand it as simply another way of looking at things. I take it to prayer, and then I try to do as you suggest.
Jonathan: Even if it’s not the way you see it?
Emma: Well, Jonathan, I imagine that when you say something, it’s not to make things difficult for me, but because you truly believe it’s best for our family. It’s not about imposing my reasons, but about welcoming yours and making them my own. That way, they become ours.
Jonathan: And is that why you’re so happy?
Emma: The truth is, I have a joy I don’t remember ever having before. I think it must be the Lord’s joy.
Jonathan: Then I want that joy too. Will you help me find it?
Emma: Of course, my love. Shall we start by going to Mass together every day we can? And we must persevere in our marital prayer.
Jonathan: Absolutely, Emma. I want to do whatever it takes to have that joy—and to make you as happy as you’re making me. I love you.

Mother,

Teach us to live our marriage as God intended, so that we may begin to experience the joy of the resurrection. Mother, you are blessed and glorious! Praised be the Lord for ever!

House of prayer. Reflection for married couples. Luke 19:45-48

Gospel of the day

From the Gospel accoording to Luke 19:45-48

Jesus entered the temple area and proceeded to drive out
those who were selling things, saying to them,
“It is written, My house shall be a house of prayer,
but you have made it a den of thieves.”
And every day he was teaching in the temple area.
The chief priests, the scribes, and the leaders of the people, meanwhile,
were seeking to put him to death,
but they could find no way to accomplish their purpose
because all the people were hanging on his words

House of prayer
In this passage the Lord quotes the prophet Isaiah: “My house shall be a house of prayer,” to show them how they had dishonoured the temple, turning it into a den of thieves who used it to enrich themselves. And those who should have recognised the Messiah in these words—those who had dedicated their entire lives to serving the temple—had hearts so hardened that all they sought was to destroy Him.
Lord, make our hearts gentle and humble like Yours.

Brought Down to Married Life

Andrew: Penelope, the Lord showed me in this Gospel the importance of being consistent in every moment of our lives. I imagine all those people of good will who came on pilgrimage to the temple—some from very far away—and then saw all those stalls selling animals for sacrifices. They must have been completely scandalised!
Penelope: I had never stopped to think about it, but yes, it must have been quite unpleasant. You know, the other day a friend pointed out to me that there are many people who seem very close to the Lord because they go to church and pray, but in reality they show no charity towards others—criticising and insulting constantly.
Andrew: I could jokingly reply, “Well, imagine what they’d be like if they didn’t pray.” But it’s a serious matter. We must be very careful with the example we give, because the Lord says elsewhere in the Gospel: “Woe to the one who causes one of these little ones to stumble.”
Penelope: We truly have to help one another and warn each other the moment we see ourselves weakening. We can rely on the grace of our sacrament of marriage—together we can do it.

Mother,

May we never be a cause of scandal for other marriages; may we remain attentive and listening to His words. Thank you, blessed Mother!

Do I recognise Jesus? Reflection for married couples. Luke 19:41-44

Gospel of the day

From the Gospel accoording to Luke 19:41-44

As Jesus drew near Jerusalem,
he saw the city and wept over it, saying,
“If this day you only knew what makes for peace–
but now it is hidden from your eyes.
For the days are coming upon you
when your enemies will raise a palisade against you;
they will encircle you and hem you in on all sides.
They will smash you to the ground and your children within you,
and they will not leave one stone upon another within you
because you did not recognize the time of your visitation.”

Do I recognise Jesus?
The Lord is saddened as He approaches Jerusalem, knowing what is about to happen and anticipating the suffering He would willingly endure for us. This continues to happen today because of our sin: the Lord weeps and suffers each time we fail to recognise Him and follow the world’s standards instead of His will—which alone leads us to peace.
We can console the Lord by recognising Him in our lives and giving ourselves as He gives Himself for us, loving when it is difficult and renouncing our own will.

In marriage, how often do spouses weep and feel sorrow because we do not know how to love one another—because we fail to see the Lord in our husband or wife. And how much peace floods our hearts when we finally recognise Jesus in our midst and give glory to God for rescuing us again and again.
How beautiful it is to soothe His tears with our conjugal love and to keep Him ever present in our life together.

Brought Down to Married Life

Charlotte: You’re contradicting me in front of my friends again. Honestly, it’s always the same with you—there’s just no dealing with it, you always have to be right.
Christopher: I don’t think it was that serious. I simply shared my opinion.
Charlotte: More than sharing it—you imposed it.
Christopher: You’re right. Forgive me. I went too far and completely lost control with the way I spoke.
Charlotte: Well… I probably didn’t help much either. I was only thinking of myself, without considering that I can be wrong too.
Christopher: It’s amazing how quickly we can let go of our own stubbornness and avoid pointless arguments that lead nowhere. It brings so much peace to realise how easily we can make mistakes.
Charlotte: It’s true—seeing the strength of the grace of our sacrament. And how simple it is to put it into practice.
Christopher: We give thanks to God for being present among us.

Mother,

Mary, Queen of Peace, help us to recognise the peace that comes from having your Son among us. Blessed be the Sacred Heart of Jesus.