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Without regrets. Reflection for married couples. Luke 9:7-9

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Luke
9:7-9

Herod the tetrarch heard about all that was happening,
and he was greatly perplexed because some were saying,
“John has been raised from the dead”;
others were saying, “Elijah has appeared”;
still others, “One of the ancient prophets has arisen.”
But Herod said, “John I beheaded.
Who then is this about whom I hear such things?”
And he kept trying to see him.

Without Regrets

When we make mistakes for whatever reason, remorse arises for the harm we have caused, for the wrong we have not yet repented of, and it hurts us deeply to think of the pain we may have inflicted. Yet the solution is so simple: to ask for forgiveness.

Admitting we were wrong and doing what we can to repair often costs us more than we expect, weighed down by that stain of original sin. And yet, it is always possible — knowing the reward is greater. When this happens, we must look within our hearts, for there lies the source of our love, the very centre of our being, where we discover who we are and above all our immense capacity to love.

At the first sign of remorse, we must ask forgiveness, go to confession to cleanse our soul, and bring light to the world with the love within us. For without realising it, our hearts are far more united to the Heart of Christ than we think.

As married couples, we must make full use of the grace we receive through the sacrament, where we are called to be of one heart, closely united to the Sacred Heart of Christ and the Immaculate Heart of the Virgin Mary.

Brought into Married Life

Mary: Happy anniversary, Simon! I give endless thanks to God today for everything we are living together through our marriage.
Simon: Happy anniversary! It is such a gift — everything we share, and how each day with you is better than the last.
Mary: Yes, how our life together has changed since we discovered all that we have and receive through the grace of our marriage.
Simon: Discovering that there is always a greater reward when I step out of myself to give everything without expecting anything in return — and above all, learning not to leave anything unresolved for tomorrow, thinking time would fix it.
Mary: Exactly. How easily we used to let things slip by, without realising the harm it caused — and how often we said, “It will pass”… But we’ve changed that into a quick “forgive me,” showing both our smallness and how much we still have to grow.
Simon: Yes, you are my daily light. Each day I find myself asking: is there anything unresolved? And when I realise there is, it’s easy to come to you to make it right, putting aside the shame of having failed, knowing it’s the very best thing for both of us.
Mary: Today is a special day worth celebrating. Shall we go to Mass together this evening to give thanks to God and Our Lady for all we have received?
Simon: Brilliant idea! We could even go a bit earlier, so we can go to confession and make a fresh start.
Mary: Perfect.

Mother,

Thank you for showing us the quickest way — through forgiveness — to reach the Sacred Heart of your Son. Glory be to God!

Free and confident. Reflection for married couples. Luke 9:1-6

Gospel
From the Gospel according to Luke
9:1-6

Jesus summoned the Twelve and gave them power and authority
over all demons and to cure diseases,
and he sent them to proclaim the Kingdom of God
and to heal the sick.
He said to them, “Take nothing for the journey,
neither walking stick, nor sack, nor food, nor money,
and let no one take a second tunic.
Whatever house you enter, stay there and leave from there.
And as for those who do not welcome you,
when you leave that town,
shake the dust from your feet in testimony against them.”
Then they set out and went from village to village
proclaiming the good news and curing diseases everywhere.

Free and confident

Nowadays we like to have everything under control, everything secured, tied up neatly; we want to live in peace of mind, and so we take out all kinds of insurance — life, death, car, home, travel, health, even pets… In short, we like to feel safe.

Jesus, however, sends us out with no staff, no bag, no bread, no money, no spare tunic… Apparently with nothing. But what the Lord asks of us is to place our trust in Him alone — and this is profoundly liberating.

What makes a word, a visit, or a smile fruitful is not ourselves, but the Holy Spirit acting through our poverty. St Paul explains it with a beautiful image: “But we hold this treasure in earthen vessels, that the surpassing power may be of God and not from us.” (2 Corinthians 4:7). That treasure is Christ in our marriage. Even if we are fragile, even if we seem to have nothing, He makes His love shine through us — and in our poverty His providence is revealed more clearly.

This Gospel challenges us to review what we hold for granted. How many times do we put off doing good because we do not feel “ready”? How often do we think: when I have more time, more knowledge, more stability… then I will be able to…

Husbands and wives, we have a mission! We are sent to proclaim the Beauty of Christian Marriage and the Good News of the Kingdom of God in our families. We need nothing more than the love of God between us. It is not a matter of arguments, but of witness — that others may say of us what was said of the first Christians: “See how they love one another.”

Brought into Married Life

Claire: Did you notice what your sister said to me yesterday?
Luke: What did she say?
Claire: That she was struck by the way you looked at me while we were talking at dinner. She said it seemed as though you were listening with all your heart.
Luke: But I didn’t do anything special…
Claire: It may feel natural to you, but to others it’s unusual. Sadly, it’s more common for couples to hurt one another with words, to ignore each other… and the way we treat one another speaks of God.
Luke: So… we evangelise without even realising it?
Claire: It seems so… She even told me it gave her great hope to see that such love is possible, and that it stirred in her the desire to love more deeply.
Luke: And to think that all I did was look at you the way I always do!
Claire: This time, as you say, we did it unconsciously. But now we must be intentional — our parish priest has long wanted to start a couples’ group and needs someone to help get it going and accompany the others.
Luke: Well, we’ve got no experience in this sort of thing; we’re only going with what we have — our availability and our gaze, hahaha… let’s go!

Mother,

Give us missionary hearts. We carry a treasure in jars of clay, but we do not go alone — you guide us and walk with us, and in the end your Immaculate Heart will triumph. Queen of the Apostles, pray for us!

Would you miss it? Reflection for married couples. Luke 8:19-21

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Luke
8:19-21

The mother of Jesus and his brothers came to him
but were unable to join him because of the crowd.
He was told, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside
and they wish to see you.”
He said to them in reply, “My mother and my brothers
are those who hear the word of God and act on it.”

Would you miss it?

At first sight, this Gospel may seem puzzling, as it gives the impression that Jesus is disregarding His Mother and His relatives. Yet the reality is quite the opposite: He exalts them, showing the true reason why they are so close to Him — they listen to the Word of God and put it into practice. In doing so, they live in the same Spirit, which is what makes them one with Christ. Jesus seizes the opportunity to invite us to share in that same intimacy with Him.

For married couples, this means that there is no human bond stronger between us — and with Jesus — than the one given through the sacrament; the real presence of the Holy Spirit dwelling among us. Therefore, it is not simply about doing things together, sharing tasks or hobbies; it is something far deeper. Through our love, every time we give ourselves to each other, forgive one another, pray, and serve each other, united with Jesus, we allow Him to take flesh in us, to make us one, and to draw us into His intimacy. Who would ever want to miss that?

Down to Married Life

Emma: Oh James, I truly give thanks to God for the incredible union we are experiencing… and it is all thanks to prayer, James, and to the fact that we have been faithful to our prayer as a couple.
James: Yes Emma, that’s true. I used to think that maybe to grow closer we needed to share hobbies, or spend more time together… and of course those things do matter, but what is really helping us grow in love and in intimacy with each other and with the Lord is prayer. It is so important. It is essential to truly become one flesh; which is why the devil always tries to place so many obstacles.
Emma: Exactly, my love. We must be strong and persevere in prayer, because if we already feel so united now, we will be amazed at what the Lord will do with us if we never give up.
James: I’m giving it my best Emma. I’m giving the Lord a huge “Yes.”
Emma: That’s my dear James, oh how I love you!
James: And I love you…

Mary,

The holy Fathers of the Church used to say that you were more blessed for believing than for giving birth. You are the perfect model of a disciple who receives and treasures the Word. We ask you, Mother, that like you, we may always say hand in hand: Let it be done to us according to Your word. Praised be Mary forever!

Look how you shine! Reflection for married couples. Luke 8:16-18

Gospel

From the Gospel according to Luke
8:16-18

Jesus said to the crowd:
“No one who lights a lamp conceals it with a vessel
or sets it under a bed;
rather, he places it on a lampstand
so that those who enter may see the light.
For there is nothing hidden that will not become visible,
and nothing secret that will not be known and come to light.
Take care, then, how you hear.
To anyone who has, more will be given,
and from the one who has not,
even what he seems to have will be taken away.”

The Gospel of the Lord

Look how you shine!

The evangelist recounts these words of Jesus after speaking about the coming of the Kingdom and how we must welcome it into our hearts. The Kingdom is Christ arriving in our lives. Christ is that light which radiates from the lamp. A light not meant to be hidden, but to be lifted high so that it may brighten every part of our reality and transform it. Only the light of Christ can heal the wounds that hurt us so deeply, and only the light of Christ can bring us to the fullness to which we are called in our vocation as spouses. When marriages live under that light, we become that burning lamp which Jesus uses to illuminate the world. Without that light, the world cannot see, cannot understand; its heart grows increasingly dull until it even loses what it once thought it possessed.

Brought into Married Life

Rachel: Luke, we need to pray for Laura. Today, after Mass, she came to me in tears and said that watching us receive Communion together with such tenderness made her remember her broken marriage and how deeply she feels the loss.
Luke: We will pray for them. Nothing is impossible for God. We too could have lost everything if Christ, through His grace, had not enlightened us. In that way, He revealed what we were doing wrong and showed us all that He had in store for us.
Rachel: It’s true… Your relationship with your family caused so many arguments and wounds… we could have lost it all!
Luke: I give thanks to God for lighting up our lives each day.

Mother,

Lead us to your Son, so that His light may shine upon us and show us what we must change within ourselves, that our lives may give glory to God. Thank you, Mother! Praised be the Lord!

He is always faithful. Reflection for married couples. Luke 16:1-13

Gospel
 
From the Gospel according to Luke 
16:1-13
At that time: Jesus said to the disciples, ‘There was a rich man who had a manager, and charges were brought to him that this man was wasting his possessions. And he called him and said to him, “What is this that I hear about you? Turn in the account of your management, for you can no longer be manager.” And the manager said to himself, “What shall I do, since my master is taking the management away from me? I am not strong enough to dig, and I am ashamed to beg. I have decided what to do, so that when I am removed from management, people may receive me into their houses.” So, summoning his master’s debtors one by one, he said to the first, “How much do you owe my master?” He said, “A hundred measures of oil.” He said to him, “Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.” Then he said to another, “And how much do you owe?” He said, “A hundred measures of wheat.” He said to him, “Take your bill and write eighty.” The master commended the dishonest manager for his shrewdness. For the sons of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their own generation than the sons of light.’ And I tell you, make friends for yourselves by means of unrighteous wealth, so that when it fails they may receive you into the eternal dwellings.
  ‘One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and one who is dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much. If then you have not been faithful with the unrighteous wealth, who will entrust to you the true riches? And if you have not been faithful with that which is another’s, who will give you that which is your own? No servant can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.’
The Gospel of the Lord.
He is Always Faithful
This Gospel passage may seem confusing: to use “the money of iniquity.” The holy fathers point out that the Lord is telling us to use this world to do good. The “money of iniquity” is, therefore, also about being faithful in all difficulties and sufferings, both great and small, and turning them into a source of grace and salvation.
God is always faithful. He always fulfils His promise. He asks us for that same faithfulness, in the little things of daily life: to be faithful to our spouse, faithful to the promise we made on our wedding day, faithful to the love we pledged to one another, in both giving and receiving. In this way, the Lord tells us, we shall be able to remain faithful in greater matters, when the Cross appears, in moments of trial or darkness. And then He promises us that He will be with us and will grant us His Grace. Let us not forget it: He is always faithful.
Brought into Married Life:

Catherine: Ahh, James, I’m going through such a difficult time with this illness; it’s such a heavy burden for me.
James: Catherine, I understand it because I see you and I know you’re suffering deeply. But you must trust and be patient; surely the Lord will bring great good out of this trial.
Catherine: It’s very hard for me to see God in all this pain, to be honest.
James: That’s why we must trust. He is always faithful, in the small things and in the big things. Up until now, in everything, He has given us His Grace.
Catherine: Yes, that’s true, even though we have never faced such a harsh situation before.
James: That makes everything much clearer. He has been training us in the smaller things and we have remained faithful. Now, in this greater challenge, we must do the same.
Catherine: You’re right. How many times has He given us the Grace to live the smaller trials in peace? So now we must remain faithful to Him in this greater one. Thank you, my husband, for helping me to see God’s will. Only with Him could I endure this.
James: Exactly. Let’s offer all of this to Him in our prayer together, as a couple.

Mother,

Help us to see the will of God in everything that happens to us, and teach us to remain faithful to Him. Thank you, Mother, for guiding us. Blessed be God!