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Obedience to God’s Plan. Reflection for married couples. Matthew17:22-27

GOSPEL OF THE DAY

From the Gospel according to Matthew17:22-27

As Jesus and his disciples were gathering in Galilee,

Jesus said to them,

“The Son of Man is to be handed over to men,

and they will kill him, and he will be raised on the third day.”

And they were overwhelmed with grief.

When they came to Capernaum,

the collectors of the temple tax approached Peter and said,

“Does not your teacher pay the temple tax?”

“Yes,” he said.

When he came into the house, before he had time to speak,

Jesus asked him, “What is your opinion, Simon?

From whom do the kings of the earth take tolls or census tax?

From their subjects or from foreigners?”

When he said, “From foreigners,” Jesus said to him,

“Then the subjects are exempt.

But that we may not offend them, go to the sea, drop in a hook,

and take the first fish that comes up.

Open its mouth and you will find a coin worth twice the temple tax.

Give that to them for me and for you.”

The gospel of the Lord

 

Obedience to God’s Plan

What must Peter’s face have looked like when Jesus told him to cast a hook into the sea, catch a fish, and take the coin from its mouth to pay the temple tax? Couldn’t it have been easier? The apostles probably thought the same when Jesus explained how our salvation would unfold. Not understanding or accepting God’s plan led them to become “very sad.”

Many times, we don’t understand why the Lord allows difficult or confusing situations in our marriage. But like Peter, we must be docile to God’s plan, no matter how absurd it may seem. Only He knows what we need for our marriage to become what He intended.

 

Applied to married Life:

Peter: Ugh, I’m exhausted. It’s been a terrible day at work. I hope dinner’s ready. Wait—have you not put the kids to bed yet?

Marian: Well, don’t come in here making demands. It’s been a terrible day with the kids too. Sarah has a fever, and I had to take all three to the doctor… Two hours in the waiting room. So no, dinner’s not ready.

Peter: I’m so tired, I just want a shower.

Marian: Fine then. Kids! Everyone to the shower—your father can’t bathe you. I’ll make some sausages for dinner…

(Two hours later, during their couple’s prayer)

Peter: Lord, even when You’re weary, You still care for everyone with such detail. I’ve been selfish tonight. I didn’t see all that Marian did, and I didn’t help her.

Marian: Lord, I didn’t see how Peter works hard to support this family, and I haven’t thanked him enough.

Peter: Forgive me, Marian, for often leaving you alone with all the work of caring for the children, for focusing only on myself and my needs, and not seeing all the good you do for us.

Marian: Forgive me too, for not valuing you. We’re in a challenging season of life, and we need to be united and trust in the Lord.

Peter: That’s right—let’s trust in Him, in His plan for us, even when it feels hard. Let’s take

 

Mother,

Teach us to do God’s will at all times—when it’s easy and when it’s not—and thus give glory to God always.

Praised be You always, Lord!

Watch Where Your Treasure Lies. Reflection for married couples. Luke 12:32-48

GOSPEL

‘You also must be ready.’
Luke 12:32-48

At that time: Jesus said to his disciples, ‘Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom. Sell your possessions, and give to the needy. Provide yourselves with money bags that do not grow old, with a treasure in the heavens that does not fail, where no thief approaches and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
  ‘Stay dressed for action and keep your lamps burning, and be like men who are waiting for their master to come home from the wedding feast, so that they may open the door to him at once when he comes and knocks. Blessed are those servants whom the master finds awake when he comes. Truly, I say to you, he will dress himself for service, and have them recline at table, and he will come and serve them. If he comes in the second watch, or in the third, and finds them awake, blessed are those servants! But know this, that if the master of the house had known at what hour the thief was coming, he would not have left his house to be broken into. You also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.’
  Peter said, ‘Lord, are you telling this parable for us or for all?’ And the Lord said, ‘Who then is the faithful and wise manager, whom his master will set over his household, to give them their portion of food at the proper time? Blessed is that servant whom his master will find so doing when he comes. Truly, I say to you, he will set him over all his possessions. But if that servant says to himself, “My master is delayed in coming”, and begins to beat the male and female servants, and to eat and drink and get drunk, the master of that servant will come on a day when he does not expect him and at an hour he does not know, and will cut him in pieces and put him with the unfaithful. And that servant who knew his master’s will but did not get ready or act according to his will, will receive a severe beating. But the one who did not know, and did what deserved a beating, will receive a light beating. Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required, and from him to whom they entrusted much, they will demand the more.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Watch Where Your Treasure Lies
In these verses, Jesus uses parables to show us a way of life built on complete trust in God, lived with responsible and watchful love. His opening words are: “Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom.”
It is a call to place our trust in God the Father, to rest our worries in Him, and to shift the centre of our lives from our own heart to the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
He invites us to live with responsible love towards the spouse blessed by Christ, echoing His words: “Blessed is that servant whom the master finds doing so when he returns.” It is worth asking myself: if the Lord came today, would He call me blessed for the way I am caring for the love I give my spouse—faithfully, in action, in thought, and by avoiding sins of omission—and prudently, always seeking what pleases them and the Lord?
The Gospel calls us to live in constant vigilance: “Blessed are those servants whom the master finds watching when he comes.” Am I constantly seeking my spouse’s holiness? Do I guard my actions so as not to lead them into sin? And if my spouse does sin, do I give myself for them as Christ gave Himself for His Bride, the Church?

Applied to Married Life

Mary: Kevin, our mentored couple called—they’ve asked if you could help them assemble some furniture in their new home.
Kevin: Mary, you know I’ve barely got any time. I need to finish these orders so we can earn the money for the car—you know it’s broken down.
Mary: How about we pray about it tonight before answering them?
Kevin: Good idea, Mary—that way I won’t just act on my first impulse.
(That night, during their couple’s prayer…)
Kevin: Mary, in today’s Gospel the Lord is calling me to trust Him more, and to let His will guide me rather than my own self-interest. If the Lord has given me this gift, how could I withhold it? And remember what the Gospel said: “From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded.” So, if you also think it’s right, I’ll go and help them over the next few days.
Mary: I do feel sorry about the car, Kevin, but I’m sure the Lord will use this to purify us from clinging to certain worldly securities.
Kevin: Thank you, Mary, for helping us to stay in the truth by persevering in our couple’s prayer. I feel that every time we pray together, we grow closer to Christ.

Mother,

Thank you for carrying us in your Immaculate Heart to the Sacred Heart of your Son, keeping us both trusting and watchful. Blessed and praised be the Sacred Heart of Jesus!

An Alert Heart. Reflection for married couples. Matthew 25:1-13

GOSPEL

‘Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’
Matthew 25:1-13

At that time: Jesus told his disciples this parable, ‘The kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. But at midnight there was a cry, “Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.” Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said to the wise, “Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.” But the wise answered, saying, “Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.” And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. Afterwards the other virgins came also, saying, “Lord, lord, open to us.” But he answered, “Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.” Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.’

The Gospel of the Lord

An Alert Heart
One thing is certain: we do not know the day or the hour.
This simple truth should keep us constantly aware that our hearts must be ready for the coming of the Bridegroom—with a capital “B”. That readiness begins now—today, this very moment—through the purification and conversion of the heart. This purification involves our effort in the small acts of daily life—acts of self-giving and welcome—and turning to the grace of God through prayer and the sacraments, since it is He who transforms us.
Husbands and wives, let us return to the grace of our Sacrament of Marriage, through acts of love and mutual offering, to prepare ourselves for the coming of the true Bridegroom.

Applied to Married Life

Claire: Hi Liam, I’m home!
Liam: Hey Claire, welcome back.
Claire: I was thinking on the drive—maybe we could spend a few days at the seaside with the kids. It’s been ages since the four of us had some proper time together. (Liam pauses, frowning slightly.)
Liam: The beach? You know I can’t stand the heat… Honestly, why don’t you take the kids and go without me? It’s only a few days—we’ll see each other again soon enough. (A few hours later, after Mass)
Liam: Claire… I’m sorry for brushing off your idea earlier. The truth is, I really don’t fancy the beach. But you’re right—it would be good for us to have that time together. And I know it would mean a lot to you.
Claire: Oh Liam, thank you! I know this is a big effort for you—and I really appreciate it. It’s such a generous act of love for me and for our family. Maybe we could mix things up—some beach, some pool, so it’s not quite so hot? You know what? I’ve been noticing lately—since we’ve been going to Mass together more often—the Lord really is doing something beautiful in our hearts.
Liam: He truly is… I’ve felt it too.

Mother,

Take us by the hand and teach us how to prepare our hearts for the day when the Bridegroom comes. Praised be the Lord!

The Three Conditions. Reflection for married couples. Matthew 16:24-28

GOSPEL

‘What shall a man give in return for his soul?’

Matthew 16:24-28

At that time: Jesus told his disciples, ‘If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? For the Son of Man is going to come with his angels in the glory of his Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done.’ Truly, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom.’

The Gospel of the Lord

 

The Three Conditions
Jesus speaks to us today about three essential conditions for being His disciples: denying ourselves, taking up our cross, and following Him. To deny ourselves means to fight against our disordered desires—the ones that prevent the Holy Spirit from acting in us. To take up our cross means being willing to carry the weight of another’s sin. And to follow Him means working for and towards the salvation of others. We contemplate a God who became flesh—who willingly limited Himself. He lived over thirty years in a finite body, one that suffered as a result of sin, that grew tired… and He did it all for you and for me. How deeply He loves us!
To participate in His mission as a disciple is the greatest privilege we could ever be given.
Applied to Married Life

Richard: Here we are, enjoying summer—but still kind of stressed… Beach bar, cold beer… The kids splashing around like they’re not even ours. Can you imagine living like this forever, Sophie?
Sophie: Richard, think about it seriously. A few days like this to rest and recharge—perfect. But a whole life centred only on comfort? We’d end up completely selfish. Our lives would lose meaning. We wouldn’t grow, and we wouldn’t build anything lasting.
Richard: You’re right. I didn’t mean it, really. I thank God for this break, but I’m also grateful for our everyday life—with all its messiness. That’s where we grow the most: in generosity, humility, service, compassion… It’s within our own limitations—and each other’s—that God purifies us and helps us mature as we work for Him in our family.
Sophie: Praise the Lord, who invites us to share in His Cross.
Richard: Praise be to Him. By the way, Sophie, have I told you how much I love you today?
Sophie: Nooo… It’s been a while!
Richard: I love you to bits.
Sophie: Oh, you big softy. Come here and give me a kiss.
Mother,

I thank God that He has called me to be His disciple. His mission is so great—so incredible—that He would want to share it with us. To help Him save others, starting with my spouse… There is nothing more valuable. Nothing more fulfilling. Praised be the Lord, who counts on me. Amen.

Whose Voice Am I Listening To? Reflection for married couples. Matthew 16:13-23

GOSPEL

‘You are Peter, and I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven.’
Matthew 16:13-23

At that time: When Jesus came into the district of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, ‘Who do people say that the Son of Man is?’ And they said, ‘Some say John the Baptist, others say Elijah, and others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.’ He said to them, ‘But who do you say that I am?’ Simon Peter replied, ‘You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.’ And Jesus answered him, ‘Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven. And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my Church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.’ Then he strictly charged the disciples to tell no one that he was the Christ.
  From that time Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised. And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying, ‘Far be it from you, Lord! This shall never happen to you.’ But he turned and said to Peter, ‘Get behind me, Satan! You are a hindrance to me. For you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but on the things of man.’

The Gospel of the Lord

Whose Voice Am I Listening To?
Lord, today, through Peter, You open our eyes to recognise that we are never alone—we are in the midst of a battle. We either listen to You—the Father, the Son, the Spirit—or we listen to Satan. We listen to the Father, like Peter, when we lift our gaze to Heaven, when we choose to think in terms of love and self-giving. When we act as children of God, filled with His love, offering our lives through that love. That is what Christ, the Son of God, the Messiah, did. But we listen to Satan when we insist on our own point of view—“so reasonable,” so human. When we reject self-gift, avoid suffering, or run away from the Cross. The Cross hurts, yes—but without the Cross, there is no redemption. The Cross, embraced with Christ, with love and in Love, leads to glory.
Every day, in every moment, we have a choice: follow Satan by clinging to our own judgement, thinking in worldly terms, rejecting the Cross… or follow Christ by denying ourselves, taking up our daily cross (even the small, annoying ones), and offering ourselves in love, with Him and in Him.
As St Teresa of Ávila said, “In the Cross is life and consolation; it alone is the road to Heaven.”
When we embrace our daily cross, we are embracing Christ crucified, consoling Him.
Will we miss the daily opportunities we’re given to love Him more?

Applied to Married Life

George: Claire, I’m exhausted. I really can’t take much more. You snap at the tiniest thing—it’s too much.
Claire: The tiniest thing? You’ve done it again! You ignore me completely, you don’t consider me at all!
George: You’re overreacting. Don’t you see I need my space?
Claire: Your space? I’m your wife! (Storms out and slams the door.)
(Twenty minutes later, she returns.)
Claire: George… please, shall we pray together? It hurts so much when we argue.
(They begin to pray. After a few quiet moments in the presence of God…)
Claire: Lord, forgive me for the way I spoke to George. He’s my husband, the greatest gift You’ve given me. He’s the person You’ve placed by my side so I can learn to love—and I do love him, madly. I long so deeply for a marriage that reflects Your will. But I know I won’t get there by shouting or acting this way. Help me not to focus on his faults, but only on his beautiful heart and his deep desire to love me more each day.
George: Lord, thank You so much for Claire. She brings light where I have none. You know how much I love her, but sometimes I act without thinking, focused on myself. I don’t mean to hurt her, but it’s still wrong. Please help me not to get stuck on her temper. Help me to do things for her, putting her first. Teach me to forget myself. That’s what You did, Lord. That’s the path to joy—the path of self-gift, the path of love. The path to Heaven. Claire, I’m sorry. I love you so much.
Claire: Jesus, thank You for this wonderful man You’ve given me. George, thank you… you’re amazing. Come here and give me the biggest hug!

Mother,

Thank you for everything. Please help us to deny ourselves, to embrace the daily Cross alongside you, and so follow your Son—consoling Him and loving Him. Praised be the Lord!