GOSPEL
At that time: Jesus told his disciples this parable, ‘The kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. But at midnight there was a cry, “Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.” Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said to the wise, “Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.” But the wise answered, saying, “Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.” And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. Afterwards the other virgins came also, saying, “Lord, lord, open to us.” But he answered, “Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.” Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.’
This simple truth should keep us constantly aware that our hearts must be ready for the coming of the Bridegroom—with a capital “B”. That readiness begins now—today, this very moment—through the purification and conversion of the heart. This purification involves our effort in the small acts of daily life—acts of self-giving and welcome—and turning to the grace of God through prayer and the sacraments, since it is He who transforms us.
Husbands and wives, let us return to the grace of our Sacrament of Marriage, through acts of love and mutual offering, to prepare ourselves for the coming of the true Bridegroom.
Applied to Married Life
Liam: Hey Claire, welcome back.
Claire: I was thinking on the drive—maybe we could spend a few days at the seaside with the kids. It’s been ages since the four of us had some proper time together. (Liam pauses, frowning slightly.)
Liam: The beach? You know I can’t stand the heat… Honestly, why don’t you take the kids and go without me? It’s only a few days—we’ll see each other again soon enough. (A few hours later, after Mass)
Liam: Claire… I’m sorry for brushing off your idea earlier. The truth is, I really don’t fancy the beach. But you’re right—it would be good for us to have that time together. And I know it would mean a lot to you.
Claire: Oh Liam, thank you! I know this is a big effort for you—and I really appreciate it. It’s such a generous act of love for me and for our family. Maybe we could mix things up—some beach, some pool, so it’s not quite so hot? You know what? I’ve been noticing lately—since we’ve been going to Mass together more often—the Lord really is doing something beautiful in our hearts.
Liam: He truly is… I’ve felt it too.
Mother,
Take us by the hand and teach us how to prepare our hearts for the day when the Bridegroom comes. Praised be the Lord!